"A friend of mine is shy about being seen shirtless because he is a little overweight. So how would I get him to start walking around the house with his shirt off more frequently come spring and summer?"
"Another vote for a text the next day.
Mention one thing she said, like "I had a great time with you yesterday, what you said about ... was especially funny." or whatever and see how she responds. I wouldn't push for a next date but…"
"When I say it, I mean that he is the be-all and end-all of my existence; that anything I think I want is inferior to him; that any moral standard I can come up with is inferior to him; that everything is temporary, fickle, joyless, and useless…"