Howdy, Gang!
This is so important, you are going to want to write it down. Full of myself? Finish reading and you can decide.
A revolutionary thought to help you get things done and have a sense of accomplishment in life had to be explained to me by Paul Kyriazi in How to Live the James Bond Lifestyle, one of the best self-improvement books that I have ever read. Or heard (audio only available now). Well, Bond knows how to get things done.
If you want to get something accomplished, write it down! Yes, it is simple. Too simple. Most of us forget this. When I am working, I scratch something onto a piece of paper or fire off an e-mail to my home account. When I get home, I consolidate things onto my PDA. Substitute your appointment calendar, Outlook, Sunbird calendar, Google calendar, ring binder notebook or whatever. Get a consistent system, check it at least once a day.
Kyriazi insists that we use target dates. Well, if everything is left open-ended, it becomes "eventually", and then nothing gets done. Even the small stuff that you think you will remember should be on the list, at least at first. I like to put everything on it, though, including the "eventually" stuff (watch for my eBay listings in early December, that task is open-ended right now). Come back to it, prioritize or even discard. Yes, you can discard things to trim out what you do not really need to deal with.
Here is a tip from my Buddhist friends: Forgive yourself if you mess up. Your reminder alarm went off and you forgot to do that thing? Fuggedaboudit. Re-date and reset the alarm, try again. But I have to interject here that your commitments to other people, things that require you to keep your word, are your priority. Promises to yourself are very important, but doing the manly thing of keeping your word is first place.
(Checking PDA, clicking "done" column for "Task: AoM Article on Writing it Down". I love that sense of accomplishment when I click on "Done"!)
See? Told you this was important!
Tags: gtd, james bond, paul kyriazi
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