"Very true, all of it.
It is, however, pretty easy for people to let themselves think they have no choice but to do the wrong thing; even when they do know right from wrong. They're almost always sorry, and right away, but then the…"
"Good question. I imagine Hitler thought he was doing the right thing, so it's not an easy thing to be objective about.
I don't hurt others intentionally. I try to be honest and fair, and kind when I can be. It really…"
"I think dueling arose as a solution to failings of the societies of the time. Certain nobles could get away with doing whatever they wanted because they either owned the law, or they came from powerful families that would crush anyone who…"
"Between 12 and 14 I had to rub a razor under my nose once a week or so to get rid of that ridiculous dark fuzz (I have dark brown hair). When I was 18 I had a workshop job so I decided not to shave for the whole summer, and grew in some very…"
"Agreed on all counts. Yes, I was giving two lines of advice; it's up to Paul how he wants to go. If he's just looking to have a few tools and learn how to use them, no point going top-shelf. If, on the other hand, he has…"
"Play it way cool. She's not going to be in a state of mind to jump right into dating if she's got this mess hanging around. A cup of coffee is still a friendly, non-threatening suggestion. Be a friend to her and maybe…"
"I used to smoke a lot of weed. I started in my teens, and really smoked a lot in my twenties. In my early thirties, I got into the line of work that has become my career, married my girlfriend, bought the house, had kids, etc. I…"
"You're over-complicating the whole thing. On a day when you can do this, on the way out the door of the class ask her if you can buy her a cup of coffee. Then apply Napoleon's maxim; "On s'engage; puis on…"
"All of the previous comments are great advice. I'd add, Don't just tell people what to do and how to do it. Show them why to what in what way. Help people understand how what they do and how they do it affects everyone…"
"I understand what you're saying. It certainly applies to right-bias as well. In general, I think that when I don't see a bias, I really need to perk up my ears and go digging. Because the bias is there; it just may be…"
"I agree with you. But I would add that I've seen the same thing in the right-wing media, and everyone has examples of omissions in the "mainstream media," which in the US is center-right with a pro-corporate bias (on a…"
""Reputable News Sources." There are a lot of contentious elements in those three words. I'm reminded of an old Soviet-era joke. Some Americans went to the Soviet Union on some kind of exchange. They were amazed…"
"I don't see any solution; life for middle-aged, middle-classed white males like me is simply too busy and compartmentalized.
Well there has to be a "why" behind this; maybe uncovering the "why" this is, is the first step. If…"
Maybe this is just me, but one trend I tend to with people looking for someone to date or marry is some fixation on "common interests" or the other person "liking all the same stuff, e.x. music, hobbies, sports, etc" as me.To me this just seems... weird, and doesn't seem to jive with history; romantic relationships to me are primarily about attraction and love, and the specific 'activities' you do together aren't really that important, it's really about the bonding and connection.Not about a…See More
"Ha, good article on middle age.
I have some old friends. I have a wonderful wife, great family.
I enjoy people I work with (more or less), and my show has even brought me some limited notoriety locally, along with some awesome contacts in my…"
"Apparently there is enough out there go get people sounding the alarm. I was giving a talk on invasives, and when I mentioned herbicide use I knew I hit the third rail in the room.
The WHO has pronounced it as "probable" cause of…"