"Aquinas does a fair job of proof of his "concept" of God. Aristotle does a proof and arrives at his concept. No need to try to get this from some random guy on Internet -- if the purpose is to learn, not to spar.
"Can you show proof that your concept of God is the absolutely correct and only one? Prove to me that there isn't a Mrs. God. If I told you that there were ten thousand Gods, could you prove me wrong any more than I could prove you wrong…"
"I agree with the consensus that saying "Be a man" or "sack up" is NOT damaging to boys simply by itself. There's a context where it can be good or bad.
When I hear it, it doesn't make me think "okay, let me…"