"After reading your introduction, here's what I think; if you have to choose between sex and male pattern baldness, keep the sex and get rid of the chemicals. Shave your head; you will find your bald head looks a lot worse to you than it does to…"
"I am 63. I have learned I can take good care of myself physically, be fit, and stay active, but time is going to do some things that cannot be changed. My skin is thinner, my muscles aren't as large, and I'm just not as strong physically.…"
"Don't worry about what you think your bald head looks like; you are undoubtedly more critical of it than anyone else. Begin by buzz-cutting your hair really short for 6 months or a year and then, as it keeps thinning, go completely bald. Also,…"
"You need to leave this relationship behind and move on....there's too much emotional 'baggage' and too much mistrust and too many actions that shouldn't have happened. Some relationships work and some don't: this one…"
"With the several guys that I am good friends with, I have no awkwardness shaking their hand and giving them a 'man hug' at the same time....man touching man doesn't have to smack of homosexuality...Also, there are many guys I know…"
"Two things; first, be sure you are keeping your beard carefully groomed; you should stop it's growth two fingers width above your Adam's Apple, and if it is a little thin, don't let it grow longer than 1 1/2 in. in length. Second;…"
"I'm two years away from retirement and recently I decided to begin wearing more casual clothes and things I like. My job expects me to be dressed up but I took the phrase 'dressed up' to a different meaning. I now wear Wrangler jeans,…"
"If you are 'out-dated' in a positive way that makes you more intelligent, gentlemanly, and civilized, being 'out-dated' isn't bad. This AofM site is great for bringing back the outdated habits and attitudes that still be in…"
"One of the best ways to improve your own speech is to listen to others and how they talk; hear what they mispronounce and put those words in your memory and use them in the correct way...Listen also to news broadcasters; they are trained to be…"
"I have had a moustache since 1979 and it has gradually turned into a short, well trimmed beard....if a man is decent looking a moustache makes him look better; if he is good looking a moustache makes him irresistible!"
Best I can tell, your complaint is that men -- particularly Asian or Korean men -- aren't into dark-skinned women. You say your parents immigrated to the U.S., so it doesn't sound like you live in Asia. You call yourself a…"
"I'll have to think about this some more, but one things comes to mind right off.
The volatility of the classes makes for some of the mismatches you mention. Purely income-wise I grew up probably somewhere between middle-class and…"
1. You seem to have self-loathing, low self esteem, and bad self image.
2. You live in Korea? Asian countries can be tough to deal with if you are not Asian. However, I can tell you many other countries in the world DO in fact like black…"
Just saw this and figured Id reply. I was a BLM/Forest Service firefighter for four years, two on engines and last two on a hotshot crew. The biggest thing honestly is calling and or visiting fire captains to show your interest. Some of…"
"I'm not sure what I could say to help, although I'd like to. It sounds like you are dealing with some specific problems that feel like general ones. I don't know what your experiences are, but they sound…"
"Isn't it obvious? She's gone to an almost all-male, mostly white, board, to see if she gets honored or trashed. Because she is in such distress that she, well, makes that post. I'd say she's been trashed enough.…"