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Coed friendships while in a relationship

Started this discussion. Last reply by Kevin Mack May 30, 2013. 24 Replies

So a previous post of mine brought up an interesting debate.  Is it okay to hang out with people of the opposite gender while you are in a relationship?  What are the limits to this?  Is it okay in a…Continue

Tags: coed, relationships, marriage, dating, friendship

Need girl advice

Started this discussion. Last reply by Rick Shelton May 24, 2013. 19 Replies

I'm sorry this is so long, but I need some serious advice about a girl.  This question is the sole reason I actually signed up, though I've been frequenting this site for years.  I have been dating…Continue

Tags: dating, girls, love, communication, jealousy

 

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Kevin Mack replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"I'll have been married for eight years in July. Here's my take: yes when dating, no when married (incidentally, that's also my answer to whether it is acceptable to pursue a woman who is in a relationship). I travel a lot for work and…"
May 30, 2013
Sir replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"Why do people ever make things personal?  Not my kind of fun."
May 29, 2013
Vytautas replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"Who said it was personal? Your words, not mine."
May 29, 2013
D.J. replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"Why do you have to make it personal? I was just answering the question. "
May 28, 2013
Vytautas replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"I think oftentimes insecure guys will trust their girlfriends to go hang out with another male. More likely insecure guys are overprotective, have trust issues, freak out when their girlfriend does something like get drunk without their approval.…"
May 28, 2013
D.J. replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"I think it depends. There are good friendships and there are bad ones. You just have to observe and be trusting- but not stupid. I think oftentimes insecure guys will trust their girlfriends to go hang out with another male. But that trust can be…"
May 28, 2013
Sir replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"That actually happened to a friend of mine."
May 28, 2013
Vytautas replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"One of your female friends invite you to her place cause she wants your opinion about her lingerie. Reads too much of the Letters section of Penthouse magazine?"
May 28, 2013
Vytautas replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"Unless it's an epipen and she's going into anaphylactic shock."
May 28, 2013
Alexandre Wiechers Vaz replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"Such a great debate, dude! I've read the replies and got some points to note. My answer to this question is yes. But after reading such great replies yesterday, i caught myself thinking and there's my conclusion: - Age matters a lot!…"
May 28, 2013
chad replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"My opinion on the subject is very similar to JB's.  My own personal experience is that when the appearance and/or opportunity of wrong-doing is present, problems will be caused in the relationship.  I myself have plenty of female…"
May 24, 2013
J.L. replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"Yup..."
May 24, 2013
Nick H replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"Marry or move in with your girlfriend and then get back to us about how comfortable she is with you spending alone time with your other close female friends."
May 24, 2013
Edward G replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"Nothing wrong with having opposite gender friends in a relationship. I have plenty of female friends, close and regular, and do plenty of group activities as well as one-on-one activities with them, in both public and private situations. My…"
May 24, 2013
Jack Bauer replied to chad's discussion Coed friendships while in a relationship
"I'm with you.  Friendships are fine.  Close friendships probably aren't fine.  Alone time definitely isn't.  If you have a closer opposite-sex friend than your spouse, you've done something wrong.   In a…"
May 24, 2013
Anthony Williams replied to chad's discussion Need girl advice
"I think you handled that pretty well.  Just watch your own emotions and put as little thought as possible into that "give it another go" thing.  Actively keep yourself from daydreaming about her, for instance.  Sure, when…"
May 24, 2013

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