Hello all, this is my first post here. I have been dating this girl for 6 months. We started senior year just weeks after we met.Now, looking back at it, it has been a very good relationship. i have…Continue
"Figured that was the way it was going. Starting college (4 year live-at, not-home-college) is tough on relationships. Being apart, especially when young, is hard on relationships. She has a whole crap-load of stuff going on, with college which is…"
"Sucks bro. Its not fun at all but you never know what will happen. The girl I started dating senior year and I broke up after around a year and a half. We spent a about 2 months apart, both seeing other people, and now were back together and happier…"
"Just a thought for you going forward: 25 miles isn't the problem, don't be afraid to date girls at that distance. The problem was that you went from being around her all the time, to being at a bit of a distance while a bunch of…"
"and not overthink, and not worry, and have fun, and find somebody with the same interests as I do, and not waste gas to that stupid college 25 miles away!! It still is hard to get past it but this too shall pass"
"Thank you man, I guess if i had to post my concerns online it wasn't a good sign either. I am already starting to think of the positives of what I can do now, I will live.
you are good too! knowing an hour before the fact!"
"You're not going to want to hear this ... but high school relationships rarely survive separate colleges. You two lasting the semester is an extreme longshot.
It is the way of the world. You're the highschool sweetheart. …"
"I felt like this for quite a bit these last few months with my relationship (she seemed unexcited about us, we hardly talked anymore, etc) and after talking with her about it a couple times as nicely as I could, things seem to be getting back where…"
Hello all, this is my first post here. I have been dating this girl for 6 months. We started senior year just weeks after we met.Now, looking back at it, it has been a very good relationship. i have been mainly happy. We figure out our problems well, talk through it, and never get in fights. We had a great summer together too!And now college is coming in to play. we talked about it during the summer, and said that we can do it! She has moved to university about 25 minutes away from my house, as…See More
"Adultery is not illegal. Though it may be grounds for a divorce.
Incest certainly is in most cases - though you can make a compelling argument that consent is compromised due to family roles, as well as a compelling state interest in preventing…"
"We decide as a society which things are acceptable behavior. A consenting relationship between adults, is no business of mine or yours. And no reason to discriminate.
We draw lines legally surrounding issues of consent (and sometimes harm). A…"
"You are comparing laws and customs that yoked the lives of fellow human beings in involuntary solitude and chattel slavery, broke families, and put millions of people through hardships that you could never fucking fathom,
to the laws that say, hey,…"
"I'm torn on the issue. On the one hand, I consider sexuality in the same category as I do age, race, and sex - that is, things you are born with. Discriminating against someone because they are black, or a woman, or over 50, is pretty shitty.…"
"Opening up the door for legally obligated cake baking despite the baker's objections and convictions is similar to fundamentalist christian's efforts to "get god back in schools" or "teach the controversy", in that it…"
""So the problem with the self seems to be that it's whatever anyone says whenever anyone says, & it can changed endlessly."
I think God changes at near the same rate as the self, which, I suspect, is less swift and less endless…"