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High school to college relationship, Help!

Started this discussion. Last reply by Steve Dallas Sep 3, 2013. 11 Replies

Hello all, this is my first post here. I have been dating this girl for 6 months. We started senior year just weeks after we met.Now, looking back at it, it has been a very good relationship. i have…Continue

 

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Steve Dallas replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
" Remember, this works both ways. Seriously, you will never be in a better position to not only redefine yourself, but actually fully define yourself."
Sep 3, 2013
Rick Shelton replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
"Figured that was the way it was going. Starting college (4 year live-at, not-home-college) is tough on relationships. Being apart, especially when young, is hard on relationships. She has a whole crap-load of stuff going on, with college which is…"
Sep 2, 2013
Jordan P replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
"Sucks bro. Its not fun at all but you never know what will happen. The girl I started dating senior year and I broke up after around a year and a half. We spent a about 2 months apart, both seeing other people, and now were back together and happier…"
Sep 2, 2013
Nathanael replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
"Just a thought for you going forward: 25 miles isn't the problem, don't be afraid to date girls at that distance.  The problem was that you went from being around her all the time, to being at a bit of a distance while a bunch of…"
Sep 2, 2013
Zach Everett replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
"and not overthink, and not worry, and have fun, and find somebody with the same interests as I do, and not waste gas to that stupid college 25 miles away!! It still is hard to get past it but this too shall pass"
Sep 2, 2013
Zach Everett replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
"Thank you man, I guess if i had to post my concerns online it wasn't a good sign either. I am already starting to think of the positives of what I can do now, I will live. you are good too! knowing an hour before the fact!"
Sep 1, 2013
Jack Bauer replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
"I'm rarely proven right quite that fast.  Heh. It'll suck for a while ... but you will get over her, and you'll end up better off for it.  Happens to the best of us.  Good luck. JB"
Sep 1, 2013
Zach Everett replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
"welp she ended it....just now, gah this sucks"
Sep 1, 2013
Jack Bauer replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
"You're not going to want to hear this ... but high school relationships rarely survive separate colleges.  You two lasting the semester is an extreme longshot. It is the way of the world.  You're the highschool sweetheart. …"
Sep 1, 2013
Tyler M. replied to Zach Everett's discussion High school to college relationship, Help!
"I felt like this for quite a bit these last few months with my relationship (she seemed unexcited about us, we hardly talked anymore, etc) and after talking with her about it a couple times as nicely as I could, things seem to be getting back where…"
Sep 1, 2013
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High school to college relationship, Help!

Hello all, this is my first post here. I have been dating this girl for 6 months. We started senior year just weeks after we met.Now, looking back at it, it has been a very good relationship. i have been mainly happy. We figure out our problems well, talk through it, and never get in fights. We had a great summer together too!And now college is coming in to play. we talked about it during the summer, and said that we can do it! She has moved to university about 25 minutes away from my house, as…See More
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