Hello all, this is my first post here. I have been dating this girl for 6 months. We started senior year just weeks after we met.Now, looking back at it, it has been a very good relationship. i have…Continue
"Figured that was the way it was going. Starting college (4 year live-at, not-home-college) is tough on relationships. Being apart, especially when young, is hard on relationships. She has a whole crap-load of stuff going on, with college which is…"
"Sucks bro. Its not fun at all but you never know what will happen. The girl I started dating senior year and I broke up after around a year and a half. We spent a about 2 months apart, both seeing other people, and now were back together and happier…"
"Just a thought for you going forward: 25 miles isn't the problem, don't be afraid to date girls at that distance. The problem was that you went from being around her all the time, to being at a bit of a distance while a bunch of…"
"and not overthink, and not worry, and have fun, and find somebody with the same interests as I do, and not waste gas to that stupid college 25 miles away!! It still is hard to get past it but this too shall pass"
"Thank you man, I guess if i had to post my concerns online it wasn't a good sign either. I am already starting to think of the positives of what I can do now, I will live.
you are good too! knowing an hour before the fact!"
"You're not going to want to hear this ... but high school relationships rarely survive separate colleges. You two lasting the semester is an extreme longshot.
It is the way of the world. You're the highschool sweetheart. …"
"I felt like this for quite a bit these last few months with my relationship (she seemed unexcited about us, we hardly talked anymore, etc) and after talking with her about it a couple times as nicely as I could, things seem to be getting back where…"
Hello all, this is my first post here. I have been dating this girl for 6 months. We started senior year just weeks after we met.Now, looking back at it, it has been a very good relationship. i have been mainly happy. We figure out our problems well, talk through it, and never get in fights. We had a great summer together too!And now college is coming in to play. we talked about it during the summer, and said that we can do it! She has moved to university about 25 minutes away from my house, as…See More
"I'm going out on a limb here- stop apologizing for no longer believing in a superstition. If there was a catholic sister in a Protestant family? Or a Methodist brother in a group of Presbyterians- would that even deserve comment? Just go to…"
"Don't attack them for their faith. It does nothing but make them more and more against you. I found that I would have days where I would want nothing more to burn a church down, bash down religion. But it's their life, and you have yours.…"
Since losing the faith I find I have a difficult time maintaining close relationships with my parents and siblings who are strong believers. We don't fight, we all love each other, but there is a barrier that prevents anything too deep from happening. They are still faithfully waiting and expecting a prodigal son to return, so things seem to be a state of arrested development.I'd love to read about anybody's experience/success with bridging this divide in a healthy way, or of what potential…See More
"You're probably looking in the wrong place and at the wrong girls.
Ignore these idiots who say you "shouldn't judge" or whatever. You laid our your criteria and you know exactly what you want in a woman. Find her and hope you…"
""Silly" and "rigamarole" are hardly personal insults. Perhaps he does find your position silly. He was still respectful of the people supporting it, as far as I read.
I think you're trying to find an excuse to avoid his…"
"I agree that Faith without deeds is dead. God helps, but I have to work at it too. I don't think that praying out of money for your own ambitions that do not have God is good. For example I think its good to pray for success in Him through many…"
"Reread what he wrote. If he was interested in morals or values he'd be asking women about their beliefs and how they behave now, not whether they've ever had casual sex. This is about his own psychological and sexual hang-ups,…"