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The future scares me.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Rick Shelton Nov 5, 2012. 44 Replies

I'm not very good at making posts on any website, but I figured this would be the place to really put this out there. I'm hoping to gain some wisdom and possibly some confidence...My name is Victor,…Continue

 

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Marlie replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"I keep imagining him alone in this scenario. But using your example, maybe... "your mommy will always love you, and she'll always be your mommy, but she can't live with us anymore.""
Nov 5, 2012
Marlie replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"About your edit... "I would never tell a child that their mommy can't be their mommy, ever. Reason, they'll believe that it was something about them that made mommy not want to be their mommy, kids do this all the time. They blame…"
Nov 5, 2012
Marlie replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"Maybe I'm giving her too much credit, but I expect it's just a matter of time before she realizes what it is she's done. And when she does, she's going to want those kids back. I hope he gets his paperwork squared away quickly."
Nov 5, 2012
Marlie replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"That's not a bad way to put it. My concern is that the children would blame themselves for mommy not wanting to live with them. But that may be more of a concern for the five year old, whereas the two year old would know mommy was gone but…"
Nov 5, 2012
Chuck Knight replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"One of my neighbors is going through something similar, with similarly young children.  He told the younger one that...Mommy decided she didn't want to live with us, anymore.   Obviously I am not privy to the rest of the conversation,…"
Nov 5, 2012
Marlie replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"I agree that it's not a good idea to bad mouth their mother at this point. After all, the kids are two and five. But about the truth. The truth is too harsh. Do you mean a version of the truth? Maybe something like, "your mommy can't…"
Nov 5, 2012
Andrew replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"Good on you for taking care of yourself and your kids!"
Nov 5, 2012
J. R. Manard replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"Good luck Victor. Keep your chin up"
Nov 4, 2012
Michael D. Denny replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"Be strong young Man, be strong. You WILL come out ahead and on top. "
Nov 3, 2012
Ian Wilson replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"this is good news.  i do wish you and your children the best. (and what mom says that he children are keeping her from being her true self)"
Nov 3, 2012
Victor Paul replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"As of this morning, I am officially on my own. My children are with me, and we have the full support of friends and family. My wife has spoken to my lawyer and has offered to sign over custodial rights to me. She feels the children are holding her…"
Nov 3, 2012
Claude replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"Sounds like you've been given and accepted the best advice already.  I just want to add that you don't need to question your manliness.  You've shown yourself to be a good man in every stage of this.  Keep the faith,…"
Nov 1, 2012
David replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"What everyone else said. We're all behind you sir. Hang in there. And don't feel that wanting to trust the person you're married to makes you unmanly. What you're doing and having to go through is the epitome of the hell that is…"
Nov 1, 2012
Michael D. Denny replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"Like the famous Dr. Laura, I believe in divorce in only three circumstances. Affairs, Abuse and Addiction.   The well has been poisoned beyond belief. I think you've only one real option, dude ....."
Oct 28, 2012
John S. replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"I'm going to echo what everyone else has said because I think it is important. 1. Get a lawyer 2. Get a divorce 3. Get the kids You don't need me to tell you that your life with her is only miserable. You need to do what is best for you…"
Oct 28, 2012
Tanner replied to Victor Paul's discussion The future scares me.
"No long conversations. Definitely talk with lawyers first, as many as you can as was suggested. I echo what Will said, she will likely have an awesome sob story that implicates you for whatever she can dream up. My mom made these types of threats…"
Oct 27, 2012

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