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Advice needed to obtain a love interest

Started this discussion. Last reply by Tom L Dec 26, 2012. 12 Replies

Ok... I'm not looking to get into a relationship just yet. I know I'm not that great of a prize for the time being. I took a couple real hard punches to the kidneys when the economy took a giant…Continue

hello I'm Tom and I'm new here

Started this discussion. Last reply by Niles Dec 17, 2012. 1 Reply

Hello, I'm Tom and I'm new here to the AoM community. I have been a reader online for a while; also a proud owner of Manovationals. I'm looking forward to tapping into the collective knowledge of…Continue

 

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Tom L replied to Tom L's discussion Advice needed to obtain a love interest
"Thanks for the thoughts and replies. Sorry it has taken me a little while to get back online.  I am working on an apprenticeship. Right now it's sort of on hold because it is for a pest control company. Pretty cool job, sweet money, I…"
Dec 26, 2012
Andy Fogarty replied to Tom L's discussion Advice needed to obtain a love interest
"I'm going to switch things up a bit. I think you're using this search for a relationship as way to ignore dealing with not being part of any meaningful work.  Don't get me wrong. Love is wonderful and important. But without the…"
Dec 21, 2012
D.J. replied to Tom L's discussion Advice needed to obtain a love interest
"Maybe not, but they make for some damn good reading."
Dec 21, 2012
StaggerLee replied to Tom L's discussion Advice needed to obtain a love interest
"The best way to "find a woman" is go out your front door. They are everywhere!  What I think you are asking is how to get involved in a lasting and meaningful relationship. My suggestion is to quit looking. Just go about your life…"
Dec 20, 2012
Paul replied to Tom L's discussion Advice needed to obtain a love interest
"I've never met a girl I liked while "on the search". I go out and live a social life and they come along when I least expect it."
Dec 20, 2012
Penelope replied to Tom L's discussion Advice needed to obtain a love interest
"You can meet them in school, or in lanes, or at sea, In church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea Yup, everywhere."
Dec 20, 2012
Jack Bauer replied to Tom L's discussion Advice needed to obtain a love interest
"  For what its worth, the woman that genuinely loves you when you're "not that great a prize" is the one you want around when you are.  Relationships tend to come along when you're "not looking", so don't…"
Dec 20, 2012
Penelope replied to Tom L's discussion Advice needed to obtain a love interest
"With apologies to the regulars who've heard this story 100 times... I was in a similar position in the summer of 2010. I forced myself to "get out there" and engage in my interests - reading in coffee shops and specialty libraries…"
Dec 20, 2012
Michael D. Denny replied to Tom L's discussion Advice needed to obtain a love interest
"1. Leave the house 2. See a pretty girl. 3. Introduce yourself 4. Repeat as necessary"
Dec 20, 2012
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Advice needed to obtain a love interest

Ok... I'm not looking to get into a relationship just yet. I know I'm not that great of a prize for the time being. I took a couple real hard punches to the kidneys when the economy took a giant dump. I'm 30, living with my mother, working in a part time gig in the mean time trying to get my resume and skills up to par... In the mean time I need some food for thought. I had been in a relationship through the summer, it ended late October. Single again, and I don't even have a glimmer on the…See More
Dec 20, 2012
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hello I'm Tom and I'm new here

Hello, I'm Tom and I'm new here to the AoM community. I have been a reader online for a while; also a proud owner of Manovationals. I'm looking forward to tapping into the collective knowledge of everyone in the community.Thanks,TomSee More
Dec 17, 2012
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At 3:02pm on December 18, 2012, mr mordzifa frank said…

Good Day,
 
How is everything with you, I picked interest on you after going through your short profile and deemed it necessary to write you immediately.I have something very vital to disclose to you, but I found it difficult to express myself here, since it's a public site.Could you please get back to me on:( mr.mordzifafrank010@gmail.com ) for the full details.

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