Ok, so this seems like a weird thing to ask, but I just need some further opinions because my mind is running away with things I don't want to be thinking about right now.So I'm with this girl. Both…Continue
"Why would asking her if there is a problem be a ridiculously stupid idea? If there is one you can discuss it and see what she has to say, or work on alleviating it. Just the fact that you would want to know would indicate to her that you…"
""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here."
Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
"That would have been helpful to know, about the jobless state. Often one issue will overflow into other areas, which I think your joblessness did. You were feeling insecure in yourself and you projected that insecurity onto your…"
"Yeah good call.
What I neglected to include in the OP for reasons unknown,
We just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here.
I start a new job here (arguably the best of…"
"Ok, so a little time has passed, and I've learned two things.
Firstly, I'm pretty sure my girlfriend hasn't cheated, or been unfaithful in any way.
Secondly, my jealousy and insecurity is a way more significant problem than I…"
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
"I wouldn't be so quick to write it off though since this awkwardness is an ongoing thing. A few days, sure. But how long has this been going on?
You'll never get an answer from us, only advice. See my first comment."
"It's hard to assess the situation without knowing why and in what context you made that statement about physical strength but, assuming that you had positive intentions, and keeping in mind that I'm a full-on bleeding heart far left…"
"What makes you think vanity is the reason for that. My wife almost never drives when I'm in the car ... but it isn't because I care at all about being seen in the passenger's seat.
I like to drive. She…"
"Since I'm in Alabama I looked them up and they are in the same boat as Colorado, it is on the books but currently shuttered. But I'm thining something that isn't deployable, more just emergency response.
And I disagree…"