""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here."
Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
"That would have been helpful to know, about the jobless state. Often one issue will overflow into other areas, which I think your joblessness did. You were feeling insecure in yourself and you projected that insecurity onto your…"
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
"You are going to have the normal crew here telling you that she banged him. You are going to have another crew here saying you are over thinking it.
Put me on the side of you over thinking it, esp with the whole period thing mixed with getting…"
First thing: Take a deep breath and count to ten!
My story sounds similar to yours: Left a great job/career to move to Amsterdam (from South Africa in my case). Wife quickly found excellent employment, I didn't, our…"
"Let me clarify. Sous vide isn't a seasoning, it is a method of water bath cooking to control temperature. The only seasoning I used in this process was Himalayan sea salt. I agree about dry aged steaks. They can be spectacular. The aging…"
"Let me be clear. If your home is your castle, then your wife is the Lady of the house. This isn't to say " My way or the highway" but rather " I have the same authority as you." Yes, there should be some comprises. In BOTH…"
"Again, I think many people confuse the concept of privilege with racism and the whole guilt and blame thing.
I lived in Washington, DC during the late 70's, early 80's. Was a time of serious racial tension. I lived in a mostly…"
"We're not talking racism. We're talking privilege. Doesn't that just prove the point that as a white person in Philadelphia, I would have privilege?
Take person A, straight as an arrow, white. Person B, straight as an…"
"I didn't defer when I was under-employed, but I don't regret deferring when I was unemployed. Something's gotta give. Student loans, or healthcare, or rent. I do understand, though I often forget, that I have a very low interest rate…"
"Also, most USA student loans are guaranteed by our government, which means the government also writes the loan terms, more or less.
But not all student loans are guaranteed by our government. It's hard to consolidate the 2 types of loans, and…"