Ok, so this seems like a weird thing to ask, but I just need some further opinions because my mind is running away with things I don't want to be thinking about right now.So I'm with this girl. Both…Continue
"Why would asking her if there is a problem be a ridiculously stupid idea? If there is one you can discuss it and see what she has to say, or work on alleviating it. Just the fact that you would want to know would indicate to her that you…"
""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here."
Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
"That would have been helpful to know, about the jobless state. Often one issue will overflow into other areas, which I think your joblessness did. You were feeling insecure in yourself and you projected that insecurity onto your…"
"Yeah good call.
What I neglected to include in the OP for reasons unknown,
We just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here.
I start a new job here (arguably the best of…"
"Ok, so a little time has passed, and I've learned two things.
Firstly, I'm pretty sure my girlfriend hasn't cheated, or been unfaithful in any way.
Secondly, my jealousy and insecurity is a way more significant problem than I…"
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
"I wouldn't be so quick to write it off though since this awkwardness is an ongoing thing. A few days, sure. But how long has this been going on?
You'll never get an answer from us, only advice. See my first comment."
Hello everyone,My name is Josh. Although I am a new member, I have been reading and watching AoM for years.About me: I'm 18 years old, I live in the mountains of Virginia, I'm an Eagle Scout, I love doing anything outdoors related but I also enjoy things like cooking and reading good books (and great websites like AoM). I'm just starting college with the goal of graduating with a degree in mechanical engineering. I have two favorite quotes:"Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the…See More
"I see this as a fine basis for a Britcom. Hunting for birds (it looks like) with the cane made me LOL.
Compare to Mrs. Bucket (Keeping Up Appearances), or To the Manor Born, or the defunct Web "advice columnist" Sir Charles…"
"Dear Rob,i think that it would be better for us to give advice if you provide your photos here)In general, i would just say that you probably need to go to the gym to keep you fit, maybe start a diet? and get a modern haircut :)"