That TJ Guy
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Rick Shelton replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Oh, and have her punish-fuck you for being a jealous ass. d;D"
Aug 15, 2014
Sir replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I suspected from the opening post.   Glad to know it's ok. Now you know you have a jealousy problem and it's not her.  Good to know!  You can explore how to change,  offline, without involving her."
Aug 15, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here." Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
Aug 15, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I agree. "
Aug 15, 2014
Rick Shelton replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"That would have been helpful to know, about the jobless state.  Often one issue will overflow into other areas, which I think your joblessness did.  You were feeling insecure in yourself and you projected that insecurity onto your…"
Aug 15, 2014
Leto Atreides II replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You should seek professional counseling."
Aug 15, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Solid advice. He can't lose!"
Aug 6, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
Aug 6, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"So admit it to yourself and accept it. Otherwise you will probably cause the problems you are trying to avoid. Don't be that guy. Don't be a shitty wingman to yourself. You're better than that. "
Aug 6, 2014
Rick Shelton replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You have to decide whether you trust her or not, it's not an automatic thing."
Aug 6, 2014
Jack Bauer replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I don't see any reason to think she cheated.  That other chick just got into your head.  You're jumping at shadows.   That you think she could cheat on you isn't a good sign, though.  You don't trust…"
Aug 6, 2014
Nathanael replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Put me in the overthinking it camp.  Being drunk at a party for her new job and on her period could explain everything and your previous inclination to jealousy makes you inclined to see problems."
Aug 6, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You're not being irrational but it's clear that your lack of self-confidence is clouding your judgement and perhaps even influencing how you perceive her behaviours and disposition.  "
Aug 6, 2014
Steve Dallas replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You are going to have the normal crew here telling you that she banged him. You are going to have another crew here saying you are over thinking it. Put me on the side of you over thinking it, esp with the whole period thing mixed with getting…"
Aug 6, 2014
Quagga replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Hey Man,  First thing: Take a deep breath and count to ten!  My story sounds similar to yours: Left a great job/career to move to Amsterdam (from South Africa in my case). Wife quickly found excellent employment, I didn't, our…"
Jul 2, 2014

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