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Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Joseph Aug 15. 28 Replies

Ok, so this seems like a weird thing to ask, but I just need some further opinions because my mind is running away with things I don't want to be thinking about right now.So I'm with this girl. Both…Continue

 

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Joseph replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Why would asking her if there is a problem be a ridiculously stupid idea?  If there is one you can discuss it and see what she has to say, or work on alleviating it.  Just the fact that you would want to know would indicate to her that you…"
Aug 15
Rick Shelton replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Oh, and have her punish-fuck you for being a jealous ass. d;D"
Aug 15
Will replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I suspected from the opening post.   Glad to know it's ok. Now you know you have a jealousy problem and it's not her.  Good to know!  You can explore how to change,  offline, without involving her."
Aug 15
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here." Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
Aug 15
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I agree. "
Aug 15
Andrew replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"+1 on this!"
Aug 15
Rick Shelton replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"That would have been helpful to know, about the jobless state.  Often one issue will overflow into other areas, which I think your joblessness did.  You were feeling insecure in yourself and you projected that insecurity onto your…"
Aug 15
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Yeah good call. What I neglected to include in the OP for reasons unknown, We just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here. I start a new job here (arguably the best of…"
Aug 15
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I did. Kind of. They don't have a copy room but I asked if there was any sucking in the stock cupboard. She said no. I fucked her anyway but I wouldn't have said it was punishment."
Aug 15
John Lee Pettimore replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You should seek professional counseling."
Aug 15
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Ok, so a little time has passed, and I've learned two things. Firstly, I'm pretty sure my girlfriend hasn't cheated, or been unfaithful in any way. Secondly, my jealousy and insecurity is a way more significant problem than I…"
Aug 15
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Solid advice. He can't lose!"
Aug 6
Thomas Patrick replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You have to talk to/confront her about it before you do anything"
Aug 6
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
Aug 6
Demetri Martinez replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I wouldn't be so quick to write it off though since this awkwardness is an ongoing thing. A few days, sure. But how long has this been going on? You'll never get an answer from us, only advice. See my first comment."
Aug 6
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"So admit it to yourself and accept it. Otherwise you will probably cause the problems you are trying to avoid. Don't be that guy. Don't be a shitty wingman to yourself. You're better than that. "
Aug 6

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