""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here."
Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
"You are going to have the normal crew here telling you that she banged him. You are going to have another crew here saying you are over thinking it.
Put me on the side of you over thinking it, esp with the whole period thing mixed with getting…"
First thing: Take a deep breath and count to ten!
My story sounds similar to yours: Left a great job/career to move to Amsterdam (from South Africa in my case). Wife quickly found excellent employment, I didn't, our…"
"Thanks so much for the replies, it's great to get some perspective here.
Regarding her priorities. The more I think about it, the more I think that she's actually right not to consider leaving her job, for the relationship or otherwise.…"
"Thanks David, that's not a bad suggestion at all and I've started to do it.
I've personally never worked at a studio that has offices in Amsterdam, but some of my former colleagues have. The problem seems to literally be that…"
I think I just miss a lot of things in London. I was spoiled, admittedly, I just find myself constantly comparing things to the equivalent in London, and everything has fallen short so far. Even the 'vibe' here grates on me…"
"I think it depends on what you mean by "whining"...
For instance, I think a good amount of pining and romanticism about women is a good thing. Women are great, truly one of the best parts of life and worthy of whining about when things…"
"While the idea has never been appealing to me, I have never found there to be anything morally wrong with the practice.
I think the most important thing is two make sure both parties know what the situation is when going into it. This way no…"
Hello Friends,My name is Oz, I am 29 years old and from the East Coast. I am married to a wonderful woman, and have two children, a 7 year old (step)son and a 9 month old son.I have been an avid reader of AoM for a few years now, and have actually been signed up for the community for a long time, but never found the time to post. However, I am entering a strange, new era of my life and find myself desiring to further take on the role of a student, learning as much about life from as many people…See More
"Jeans or a nice pair of Dickey's or other work style cargo/slacks. Not dress slacks, but work slacks. A good sturdy button up.
Basically, dress like a manager of that job that would still look good for customers, but could easily take the same…"