Ok, so this seems like a weird thing to ask, but I just need some further opinions because my mind is running away with things I don't want to be thinking about right now.So I'm with this girl. Both…Continue
"Why would asking her if there is a problem be a ridiculously stupid idea? If there is one you can discuss it and see what she has to say, or work on alleviating it. Just the fact that you would want to know would indicate to her that you…"
""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here."
Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
"That would have been helpful to know, about the jobless state. Often one issue will overflow into other areas, which I think your joblessness did. You were feeling insecure in yourself and you projected that insecurity onto your…"
"Yeah good call.
What I neglected to include in the OP for reasons unknown,
We just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here.
I start a new job here (arguably the best of…"
"Ok, so a little time has passed, and I've learned two things.
Firstly, I'm pretty sure my girlfriend hasn't cheated, or been unfaithful in any way.
Secondly, my jealousy and insecurity is a way more significant problem than I…"
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
"I wouldn't be so quick to write it off though since this awkwardness is an ongoing thing. A few days, sure. But how long has this been going on?
You'll never get an answer from us, only advice. See my first comment."
"I have a question.
What if you meet a cool girl whom you're interested in. You ask her this question about her past. She reveals that, let's say once or twice she had sex with a guy she barely knew. One was a promising…"
"Its only natural! Don't be embarrassed or ashamed of it, embrace the feeling!
And please stop thinking of roadkill while making out with your girl, its such a waste. Go more in depth with her and EXPERIENCE the feelings of the body and the…"
How is my criteria random? I know I am not compatible with someone who views sex as a very casual thing as I've always viewed it as powerful and sacred.
Another great AoM post I believe is very…"
"Ok Shane slow down there a sec...
I said my *personal* deal breaker has been based on sex without committed love...I gave you my experience as to what spoke of commitment, not to what arbitrary length of time defines it."