""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here."
Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
"That would have been helpful to know, about the jobless state. Often one issue will overflow into other areas, which I think your joblessness did. You were feeling insecure in yourself and you projected that insecurity onto your…"
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
"You are going to have the normal crew here telling you that she banged him. You are going to have another crew here saying you are over thinking it.
Put me on the side of you over thinking it, esp with the whole period thing mixed with getting…"
First thing: Take a deep breath and count to ten!
My story sounds similar to yours: Left a great job/career to move to Amsterdam (from South Africa in my case). Wife quickly found excellent employment, I didn't, our…"
"What's ery intersting about this thread is how the procrastinating OP has managed to involve the well-intentioned AoM community in enabling his procrastination.
To the OP: You need to drop all the social media stuff for a while. If…"
"While I am not in full-time ministry I am a minister and can relate to your position to some degree.
Ministry can be a long and lonely road to begin with. People expect a lot out of you. People often times want more than you can give and they…"
"I'm not qualified to advise beyond this. My faith tradition is highly structured with a clear chain of authority. With this comes the ability for the pastors to ask for help. Reach out to the elders in your faith and talk to…"
"If something walks like a duck, craps like a duck, and talks like a duck then you're F8cK'n crazy 'cuz ducks don't talk.
I just looked at the site and Regular Joe's right. It's a bunch of guys talking crap about…"