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Rick Shelton replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Oh, and have her punish-fuck you for being a jealous ass. d;D"
Aug 15, 2014
Will replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I suspected from the opening post.   Glad to know it's ok. Now you know you have a jealousy problem and it's not her.  Good to know!  You can explore how to change,  offline, without involving her."
Aug 15, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here." Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
Aug 15, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I agree. "
Aug 15, 2014
Rick Shelton replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"That would have been helpful to know, about the jobless state.  Often one issue will overflow into other areas, which I think your joblessness did.  You were feeling insecure in yourself and you projected that insecurity onto your…"
Aug 15, 2014
Leto Atreides II replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You should seek professional counseling."
Aug 15, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Solid advice. He can't lose!"
Aug 6, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
Aug 6, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"So admit it to yourself and accept it. Otherwise you will probably cause the problems you are trying to avoid. Don't be that guy. Don't be a shitty wingman to yourself. You're better than that. "
Aug 6, 2014
Rick Shelton replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You have to decide whether you trust her or not, it's not an automatic thing."
Aug 6, 2014
Jack Bauer replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I don't see any reason to think she cheated.  That other chick just got into your head.  You're jumping at shadows.   That you think she could cheat on you isn't a good sign, though.  You don't trust…"
Aug 6, 2014
Nathanael replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Put me in the overthinking it camp.  Being drunk at a party for her new job and on her period could explain everything and your previous inclination to jealousy makes you inclined to see problems."
Aug 6, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You're not being irrational but it's clear that your lack of self-confidence is clouding your judgement and perhaps even influencing how you perceive her behaviours and disposition.  "
Aug 6, 2014
Steve Dallas replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You are going to have the normal crew here telling you that she banged him. You are going to have another crew here saying you are over thinking it. Put me on the side of you over thinking it, esp with the whole period thing mixed with getting…"
Aug 6, 2014
Quagga replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Hey Man,  First thing: Take a deep breath and count to ten!  My story sounds similar to yours: Left a great job/career to move to Amsterdam (from South Africa in my case). Wife quickly found excellent employment, I didn't, our…"
Jul 2, 2014

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East London Gent replied to East London Gent's discussion Breaking up is hard to do... And possibly not the right answer
"Thanks guys, Regarding the lies. 99% of the time they are simply embellishments as you say. Which is fine. There was one lie, which I get the impression was justified but feel free to put me right if not. A guy's name came up in conversation…"
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DOJ Report on the Ferguson PD

The DOJ has released a report of its investigation into the Ferguson police department.One thing that stuck out for me, were the example anecdotes which really brought home that just "not breaking the law/doing something wrong" is no protection.A few non-criminal (in that no criminal charges were filed, despite the arrests and municipal charges) examples via the NYTimes piece:In 2012, a 32-year-old black man was sitting in his car, cooling off after playing basketball in a public park in the…See More
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Will replied to East London Gent's discussion Breaking up is hard to do... And possibly not the right answer
"On the one hand, being tempted is not a sin. On the other hand, if you're tempted now when you're in the full flush of being in love, you're going to be way more tempted later when the new wears off. ...except that you're not in…"
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"Sex, Sport and Weed."
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Jack Bauer replied to East London Gent's discussion Breaking up is hard to do... And possibly not the right answer
""Didn't I teach you anything?  You gotta problem with your woman you don't go out and get another one. Then you got two problems." -- Frank Barone JB"
1 hour ago
Vendetta5885 replied to East London Gent's discussion Breaking up is hard to do... And possibly not the right answer
"Hey East London, Everyone has their idiosyncrasies.  You have them, she has them, I have them. EVERYONE has them.  The thing is you have to decide if you can live with those in your partner and love them despite their little ticks. I…"
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Pale Horse replied to Pale Horse's discussion Acifidity Bags
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