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Quagga replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Hey Man,  First thing: Take a deep breath and count to ten!  My story sounds similar to yours: Left a great job/career to move to Amsterdam (from South Africa in my case). Wife quickly found excellent employment, I didn't, our…"
Jul 2
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Thanks so much for the replies, it's great to get some perspective here. Regarding her priorities. The more I think about it, the more I think that she's actually right not to consider leaving her job, for the relationship or otherwise.…"
Jul 2
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Thanks David, that's not a bad suggestion at all and I've started to do it.  I've personally never worked at a studio that has offices in Amsterdam, but some of my former colleagues have. The problem seems to literally be that…"
Jul 1
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Thanks Brad. I think I just miss a lot of things in London. I was spoiled, admittedly, I just find myself constantly comparing things to the equivalent in London, and everything has fallen short so far. Even the 'vibe' here grates on me…"
Jul 1
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"That's a good id"
Jul 1
Andrew replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
"Exactly!  She's likely to come to a conclusion that you don't trust her (whether it true or not) and get annoyed by that. She's laughing off your insecurities, I'd say that's a good sign that the thought of cheating…"
Jun 16
Jeremy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
"Dude I have to ask... Are you cheating on her? Or have you? Usually when people suspect their partner of cheating its because they're the ones being unfaithful. Either that or you must've had some bad things with other women happen in the…"
Jun 16
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
"I agree.  She was cool about it . . . this time. But I suspect that your paranoia has hit her harder than you think and, if you don't do something about yourself ASAP, you're well on your way to a self-fulfilling prophecy.  "
Jun 16
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
"So go get counselling or therapy, man. "
Jun 16
Jeremy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
"All I can say is that if a woman is going to cheat on you, theres absolutely nothing you can do.  You just have to ask yourself do you trust her?  Also is she trustworthy?  If she's a good woman you have nothing to worry about.…"
Jun 3
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
"Ok thanks for the further advice, I'm getting the idea here. A long way from 'comfortable' but better than before I started this thread. I've spent the last few days embracing what we have and it feels comforting to deliberately…"
May 31
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
"Yeah . . . girls who "test" you, regardless of at which point you are in your relationship, seem like an awful lot of trouble. Definitely a flag to consider. "
May 27
Andrew replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
"You don't have any reason not to trust her....so why don't you?? I'm telling ya, you need to relax before it's too late.  I struggled with the same issue after my girl went to college a couple of hours from home. I told her…"
May 27
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
"I get the analogy now, Works well!  Thanks for the info about the boards. For some reason, I thought they were solid pieces. (I've been to Hawaii twice but never tried surfing.) "
May 26
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Help me beat this jealousy into submission...
""like sand inside a surfboard" That's the only part I didn't get.  Is that a bad thing? How does it happen?"
May 26

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Regular Joe replied to Charles Neill's discussion Did Christ doubt The Father? in the group Christian Men
"If the Father is God and Jesus is God then the questions becomes "Did Jesus doubt himself?", correct? "
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Rick Shelton replied to Man O Mission's discussion Have Gun Will Travel?
"No.  As a Federal Agent or member of the military you are inelligble for the bounty, sorry."
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Tim Dienes replied to Landen Augur's discussion Eligible Bachelor who can never get a date
"I agree with some things, but that last paragraph? Guaranteed, my ass! I never owned a house, let alone a nicer one, my pay has not increased, but decreased. Yes, my morals are also high, and the only way I can have any peace about this painful…"
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Rick Shelton replied to Man O Mission's discussion Have Gun Will Travel?
"The hiring process can be quite lengthy.  I applied for a position back in 2002 in August.  It took me the better part of a week to write the my answers for the KSAs (knowlege, skills, and abilities).  In March 2003 I got a…"
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Regular Joe replied to adamkevinlee's discussion Meet Your Perfect Partner
"In other words, you have impossible standards that the majority of women on earth can't meet."
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"CHINESE FOOD YOU BLASPHEMOUS BASTARD! /sarcasm"
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