""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here."
Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
"That would have been helpful to know, about the jobless state. Often one issue will overflow into other areas, which I think your joblessness did. You were feeling insecure in yourself and you projected that insecurity onto your…"
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
"You are going to have the normal crew here telling you that she banged him. You are going to have another crew here saying you are over thinking it.
Put me on the side of you over thinking it, esp with the whole period thing mixed with getting…"
First thing: Take a deep breath and count to ten!
My story sounds similar to yours: Left a great job/career to move to Amsterdam (from South Africa in my case). Wife quickly found excellent employment, I didn't, our…"
"Thanks for the great reply, RJ, and the many examples. Fascinating.
As a kid, I lived in France and I remember the language purists being upset at the Americanization of French. They didn't want French people to say "le…"
"Creationism is not taught in US public schools. If it is taught in private schools -- I suppose there must be some somewhere that do this -- it is because our Constitution forbids our government to decide for us what we are allowed to say,…"
"Acknowledging privilege or injustice doesn't mean:
1. you are responsible for it
2. you must be punished for it
3. that it can't be overcome through individual determination or effort
4. that you must feel sorry for those who don't…"