That TJ Guy
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Sir replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I suspected from the opening post.   Glad to know it's ok. Now you know you have a jealousy problem and it's not her.  Good to know!  You can explore how to change,  offline, without involving her."
Aug 15, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
""As well as her new job, we just moved to a new city, I've been jobless since we got here a couple months ago, and yet to make new friends here." Those are certainly contributing factors but you should still look into some pro…"
Aug 15, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I agree. "
Aug 15, 2014
Leto Atreides II replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You should seek professional counseling."
Aug 15, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Solid advice. He can't lose!"
Aug 6, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I don't think he doesn't trust her; I think he lacks self-confidence and doesn't see value in himself. The result is that he believes that it's only a matter of time before his GF recognizes his lack of value and gets swept away…"
Aug 6, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"So admit it to yourself and accept it. Otherwise you will probably cause the problems you are trying to avoid. Don't be that guy. Don't be a shitty wingman to yourself. You're better than that. "
Aug 6, 2014
Jack Bauer replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"I don't see any reason to think she cheated.  That other chick just got into your head.  You're jumping at shadows.   That you think she could cheat on you isn't a good sign, though.  You don't trust…"
Aug 6, 2014
Nathanael replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"Put me in the overthinking it camp.  Being drunk at a party for her new job and on her period could explain everything and your previous inclination to jealousy makes you inclined to see problems."
Aug 6, 2014
Regular Joe replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You're not being irrational but it's clear that your lack of self-confidence is clouding your judgement and perhaps even influencing how you perceive her behaviours and disposition.  "
Aug 6, 2014
Steve Dallas replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Did my girlfriend cheat on me, or am I just completely overthinking this?
"You are going to have the normal crew here telling you that she banged him. You are going to have another crew here saying you are over thinking it. Put me on the side of you over thinking it, esp with the whole period thing mixed with getting…"
Aug 6, 2014
Quagga replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Hey Man,  First thing: Take a deep breath and count to ten!  My story sounds similar to yours: Left a great job/career to move to Amsterdam (from South Africa in my case). Wife quickly found excellent employment, I didn't, our…"
Jul 2, 2014
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Thanks so much for the replies, it's great to get some perspective here. Regarding her priorities. The more I think about it, the more I think that she's actually right not to consider leaving her job, for the relationship or otherwise.…"
Jul 2, 2014
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Thanks David, that's not a bad suggestion at all and I've started to do it.  I've personally never worked at a studio that has offices in Amsterdam, but some of my former colleagues have. The problem seems to literally be that…"
Jul 1, 2014
That TJ Guy replied to That TJ Guy's discussion Weighty Decision
"Thanks Brad. I think I just miss a lot of things in London. I was spoiled, admittedly, I just find myself constantly comparing things to the equivalent in London, and everything has fallen short so far. Even the 'vibe' here grates on me…"
Jul 1, 2014

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Oz Brooks replied to Persona non Grata's discussion Men who whine about women?
"I think it depends on what you mean by "whining"... For instance, I think a good amount of pining and romanticism about women is a good thing. Women are great, truly one of the best parts of life and worthy of whining about when things…"
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Oz Brooks replied to John Bravo's discussion What does the AoM communtiy think about one night stands?
"While the idea has never been appealing to me, I have never found there to be anything morally wrong with the practice. I think the most important thing is two make sure both parties know what the situation is when going into it. This way no…"
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Hello Friends

Hello Friends,My name is Oz, I am 29 years old and from the East Coast. I am married to a wonderful woman, and have two children, a 7 year old (step)son and a 9 month old son.I have been an avid reader of AoM for a few years now, and have actually been signed up for the community for a long time, but never found the time to post. However, I am entering a strange, new era of my life and find myself desiring to further take on the role of a student, learning as much about life from as many people…See More
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Steve Dallas replied to John Bravo's discussion What does the AoM communtiy think about one night stands?
"Who the hell talks like that? Seed deep in someone?"
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Steve Dallas replied to Dave H's discussion New job, induction dress code
"Jeans or a nice pair of Dickey's or other work style cargo/slacks. Not dress slacks, but work slacks. A good sturdy button up. Basically, dress like a manager of that job that would still look good for customers, but could easily take the same…"
38 minutes ago
Daniel replied to John Bravo's discussion What does the AoM communtiy think about one night stands?
"It doesn't have to be so heavy. Just two folks having orgasms. The only baggage that comes with it is baggage you already carry. And of course watch out for AIDS and babies, but you know that."
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