"You met your man via your interests.  I think that everyone is a weirdo if you are not part of that interest group. "

"When I met my girlfriend I was myself. A crazy Weirdo.... And i met another crazy Weirdo :D... She just needs to participate in her interest, and activities... IF a guy and She shares same interests, people can meet people like themselfs.  A…"

"She needs to get a hobby that gets her out to meet ups with like minded people.  I met my wife doing historical re-enactment.  I knew my lady for years before we started dating.   "

"This site should have personals. There seems to be some fine gentlement here. This site seems to attract good men."

"It seems like the only constant in the equation is her, she needs to stop passing the buck off to the guys that SHE chooses to date. More and more people are shirking responsibility for how their life is turning out and can't except…"

"I'm with most of the posts above. She could join a sports club, professional organization, churgh group..... Oh hell I don't have a damn clue, I had the same situation before I met my wife who I met at a singles-mingle held by a local…"

"Your a cynical prick , the question was where are all the men and that's where I see them in my movements , for starters there's an American muscle car wine tour in the California wine region over four days , ya think maybe they can talk…"

"I wouldnt call age that big a factor.. my first girlfriend was 32 I was 27"

"Im wondering if you friend found someone yet . I did a sailing course about 4-5 years ago and was surprised that the ratio was about even and if I were single at the time would have been a great meeting place . Also I go to a lot of classic bike and…"

"Classic , will use that one ."

"Ha. I did get engaged 2 weeks after this. I'm trying to remember how I was so aware of the timeline. I think he was just waiting for a chance to talk to my parents. My advice stands. The only thing I'd tweak is she should have interests…"

"yep, usually three at a time coming through AOM"

"I have a few friends that fly Southwest and check 2 "luggage" containers ( bags fly free) of beer from California to the Oklahoma from the craft breweries unavailable here. Containers with styrofoam sleeves will hold about fifteen 22 oz.…"

"i'd like to throw Savannah, Ga's hat in the ring for the 2012 trip.  moon river brew pub is phenominal (drink there; don't eat there), plus you can get yuengling out here, which any beer lover should try (it's the…"

"I'd like to add that this is normally considered a "do or die" type progression. Once you cross than threshold from friend to lover, it better work because the friendship is over if it doesn't.  I know of many…"

"It been many years since I saw Bambi, so for the record   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Qq-dGMVOzc&feature=related so watch out! Yeh, great classic stuff."