"Cam games are good if you can separate reality from the fantasy of it. For the LARP be the character. Play a Malcavion, they are crazy anyway you wish to play it. Which means you can't mis-step with the interactions…"
"I have a friend who was the shy guy in High School. His first few years of college where Shy. When he found out the girl he was interested in for a few years was also interested in him but he was too shy to ask he got mad enough at…"
"Sorry for taking so long to reply, school got in the way and then I forgot replying for a while. I still am not getting email notifications for replies yet I have a post on the forum about that but no one has helped me with it yet.I checked out the…"
"The first real vacation I remember taking was a scuba trip to Cozumel. In order to do this, I had to first learn scuba, so it was quite an involved undertaking. it was a fantastic adventure and, as I booked it through a dive shop, I…"
"Hey, I seen a really good TV show last week I think might be helpful and relevant to your situation.
It was on British TV(I'm Scottish), and I'm guessing your american, but if you search on youtube " Derren brown: fear and faith…"
"She's suggesting a trip. Out of the country.
By going somewhere totally different than you're used to, your experiences will be broadened, and you'll see new things. That's a given. But what that does for…"
"Unwrap yourself from the cotton wool, before someone else does it for you.
Sorry to be blunt, but nobody got anywhere in life without experiencing a lot of hard truths.
Take a look at anyone who made it big, or even just made it. No fairytales…"
"How to find yourself? You mean character building.
Do something that literally scares the hell out of you and make sure it has a hard physical element to it. It has to drive you almost to the end of your tether.
Yes, it will suck. Yes, you will hate…"
"I've told Brett, but, yeah, the "report a problem" link is there, but invisible. Here's how to find it:
1. Minimize chat.
2. Scroll all the way to the bottom of the community home page. There's a light brown or orange bar at…"
I can't find a support page or email so I decided to post this here.For some reason I'm not getting emails when people reply to my discussions. I've checked all the options is settings and I am folloring the last discussion I started so its set to automatically follow any discussion I start. I checked if the email for this account is correct and I don't have the bottom check box checked that says "I don't want to receive emails from Art of Manliness". I checked my spam folder and everywhere…See More
"I agree with Native Son. I would also add that going abroad is probably not the best thing to do. I would suggest picking up a craft or trade as a hobby. Find something you enjoy doing--be it woodworking, metalworking, etc.--and dedicate yourself to…"
"First, I want to say that I'm new here too and I've been dealing/dealt with a lot of the same things in mind that you have. I can't tell you I can help you because this stuff is nearly impossible to understand without you…"
"Given the extremely limited contraints of an online community, here's a possible take on your situation.
You have a problem.
You have sufficient self-awareness to have a glimmer of what your problem is.
Your problem is you are well…"
"A friend of mine is shy about being seen shirtless because he is a little overweight. So how would I get him to start walking around the house with his shirt off more frequently come spring and summer?"
"Another vote for a text the next day.
Mention one thing she said, like "I had a great time with you yesterday, what you said about ... was especially funny." or whatever and see how she responds. I wouldn't push for a next date but…"
"When I say it, I mean that he is the be-all and end-all of my existence; that anything I think I want is inferior to him; that any moral standard I can come up with is inferior to him; that everything is temporary, fickle, joyless, and useless…"