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Lady Needs Advice

Started this discussion. Last reply by Jed May 10. 31 Replies

Hi all,First up, yes I am a woman that's part of The Art of Manliness chat forum because women's forums are very water-down and sugar coating. Thus, I am here. I love the podcast, I find the advice…Continue

A lady that loves The Art of Manliness

Started this discussion. Last reply by R. Max Apr 15, 2016. 52 Replies

Hello all!My name is Tess, I'm 23 years old and I am a lady that loves The Art of Manliness. I live in Virginia and I grew up in New Hampshire. I work as a multimedia producer. I enjoy cooking…Continue

 

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Jed replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"Perhaps this is a case of the Nice Guy Syndrome (see Dr Robert Glover podcast on this site or alternatively see Glover's book, No More Mr. Nice Guy). I recently read the book and it discusses men who are emotionally needy on their partner. I…"
May 10
Salt Dragon replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"Thumbs up to you.  Better to be two wholes trying to navigate a relationship together, often diverging, than seeking a better half (person or things) to make us balanced and complete.  We are the gift and the answer as we are.…"
May 10
Nature of a Man replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"True"
May 9
Sir replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"There is a difference between taking care of self and taking care of self first."
May 9
Kit the Odd replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"But do you care what kind of car your favorite chef drives?  Or how good of cook your mechanic is? You can take care of people in some ways even while struggling with others."
May 9
Nature of a Man replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"Well, I think it would be helpful to know what his own life situation is before jumping to a conclusion; because it would help make it more clear whether he's motivated more by genuine love, or an excess of dependency, possibly due to not being…"
May 9
Nature of a Man replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"I don't see how one who does not take care of themselves can take care of another, much as how I would not hire a man to repair my car who isn't even willing or able to repair his own, but that's just me."
May 9
Nature of a Man replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"Hi, just out of curiosity, what hobbies or passions does he have outside of his work right now? Or does he have any good male friends that he hangs out with in his spare time?My personal view is that if a man doesn't have enough passions or…"
May 9
Sir replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"It is possible to put the beloved first without giving up all your hobbies and stopping exercising!  I'm living proof.  So's my wife.  I expect Muir and his other half can also attest. So is it just semantics?  It makes…"
Apr 15
Salt Dragon replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"I admire your wisdom and insight.  There's probably more men in your relationship dynamics than women, but then again Im twice your age and wish women were more independent in relationships.  Could you invite your boyfriend to work…"
Apr 15
Todd McFarland replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"I might have phrased that poorly. What I meant is that if you don't feel good about yourself because you give up all your hobbies and stop exercising, you won't be of much good to anyone else."
Apr 15
Stewart M. Davenport replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"Just a thought: you value your time exercising, right? He wants more time with you, right? Why not invite him along? Shared exercise time can be a great way for him to spend some quality time together, while allowing you to continue your hobbies. I…"
Apr 9
Jack Bauer replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"It sounds like you're his top priority ... and your top priority. He's into you. And you're into you, but will let him come along when it's convenient for you. If you value your single life as much as you value your relationship…"
Apr 8
Kit the Odd replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"I kind of agree and kind of disagree. You need to take care of yourself as far not bringing problems into the relationship.  Never completely possible, of course.  But things like learning to handle money instead of just depending of the…"
Apr 8
John Muir replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"I disagree. I think the key to being a good spouse/partner is to take care of the other first"
Apr 8
Sir replied to Jane's discussion Lady Needs Advice
"Putting yourself first is natural before you're in love.  Love values the other as much as the self."
Apr 8

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