I had a friend go through a break up a few months ago and he told me the members on this site helped him quite a bit, so I thought I would give it a shot since I'm at a standstill. Prepare for a…Continue
"This entire tale reeks of emotional immaturity. I don't know your circumstances but you come off as being very young. Nothing wrong with that, as we all have been there. My advice would be to forget about any relationships for a time and spend…"
"Dear Ken (if I may),
First of all, let me say that - while reading the comments to your post - I was positively surprised to learn that you are only 20. I'm a university professor, so I deal exactly with people of your age, and I can tell you…"
"There is a principle which protects men from problems and makes the correct course of action clear in all situations. Unfortunately it takes a lot of work. Because of amount of work and self sacrifice involved, it is seldom even taught…"
"Honestly, neither. You don't like Girl B enough ... and Girl A doesn't like you enough.
You're doing the same thing to B that A did to you. And, its going to end for you just like its ending for B. A's going to…"
"there is one thing you have to know in life, this applies to work, relationships, everything.
YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S HAPPINESS. NO OTHER PERSON IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS.
understand this and make decisions…"
"I completely agree. I wrote my long-ass post when there were zero responses and by the time I'd written it and posted, there were others before me. So I wasn't targeting my comments at you or anyone. I agree with all…"
"I believe that the relationship that you have built up in your mind is greater than the reality with this girl. Also, you are continuing to communicate with your ex-girlfriend, correct? Why? Also, which of these girls, if either, can you not live…"
"A lot of people with laugh at this post and deride you for it. The view of the older and wiser crowd is often to crack up at the younger, less experienced and troubles which seem inconsequential. But I guess I'm not older and wiser…"
"Mike nailed it, listen to him. You'll know if your'e with the one you want to spend your life with. I think I'd be surprised if either on of them are the one. Girl A isn't going to be the one when you the long-distance…"
"Hey, thank you for the quick reply.
You're right, I am young. I'm only 20. The amount of time I've known girl A (a pseudonym I only used so I wouldn't need to use her real name) has been all throughout highschool. So we have been…"
"First, and I apologize for sounding insulting, but how old are you? Girl A, Girl B, Girl C at the bar, Girl D..... They are pretty much interchangeable aren't they? They'll pretty much (in retrospect) be that way until you are with the one…"
"When I was in college and had access to a swimming pool, I swam 3x a day in the summer. I loved to swim! It was the only exercise I did. It gave me broad shoulders, larger...umm..... attributes, and a small waist. The boys…"
"Hi I congratulate you for your positive lifestyle changes you have made. I dont relate to your specifics but know that change is always disruptive and sometimes uncomfortable in the short term. Be easy on yourself and adjust slowly and…"
"Thankyou, Jack. I think you echo my husbands sentiments. I graduated college on the Dean's list, have been a news reporter, a teacher, an actress, and have been involved with sales and publicity. For non-paying jobs, I have…"
Be Average: watch and learn from her mistakes so that you won't make them when you are at that level.
Be Great: learn how to "sell" your ideas to your boss. Make her a success and she'll be an ally long past this…"
"I have been swimming recreationally basically since I was a kid and, in recent years, for exercise for 30 +/- years (62 now). I do it because I love the feeling I get from it but I also try to make it beneficial physically by working at it.…"
Hello Gentlemen.I'm very excited to say that I'm down about 50 pounds in the last 5 or so months. I'm still losing. I was very overweight, and I decided to do something about it. I'd like to lose about 20 more pounds if at all possible. I stopped eating as much. I took up cooking. As a 23-year-old bachelor, I can attest that those of my species don't eat the greatest. I set out to break that stereotype. I eat well, but I control what I put in the tank, so to speak. Being creative in my kitchen…See More
"i agree with king of the dudes. it take a lot of strength and stamina to keep going for the amount of time there. that is how some guy get there ass kick they do not know how to get out of joint-lock"