I had a friend go through a break up a few months ago and he told me the members on this site helped him quite a bit, so I thought I would give it a shot since I'm at a standstill. Prepare for a…Continue
"This entire tale reeks of emotional immaturity. I don't know your circumstances but you come off as being very young. Nothing wrong with that, as we all have been there. My advice would be to forget about any relationships for a time and spend…"
"YOU need to figure out what you want and who you want to be with. You're jacking these two 'girls' around and f*ing with their emotions. Stop. You're going to end up with neither the way you're going and…"
"Dear Ken (if I may),
First of all, let me say that - while reading the comments to your post - I was positively surprised to learn that you are only 20. I'm a university professor, so I deal exactly with people of your age, and I can tell you…"
"There is a principle which protects men from problems and makes the correct course of action clear in all situations. Unfortunately it takes a lot of work. Because of amount of work and self sacrifice involved, it is seldom even taught…"
"Honestly, neither. You don't like Girl B enough ... and Girl A doesn't like you enough.
You're doing the same thing to B that A did to you. And, its going to end for you just like its ending for B. A's going to…"
"there is one thing you have to know in life, this applies to work, relationships, everything.
YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S HAPPINESS. NO OTHER PERSON IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS.
understand this and make decisions…"
"I completely agree. I wrote my long-ass post when there were zero responses and by the time I'd written it and posted, there were others before me. So I wasn't targeting my comments at you or anyone. I agree with all…"
"I believe that the relationship that you have built up in your mind is greater than the reality with this girl. Also, you are continuing to communicate with your ex-girlfriend, correct? Why? Also, which of these girls, if either, can you not live…"
"A lot of people with laugh at this post and deride you for it. The view of the older and wiser crowd is often to crack up at the younger, less experienced and troubles which seem inconsequential. But I guess I'm not older and wiser…"
"Mike nailed it, listen to him. You'll know if your'e with the one you want to spend your life with. I think I'd be surprised if either on of them are the one. Girl A isn't going to be the one when you the long-distance…"
"Hey, thank you for the quick reply.
You're right, I am young. I'm only 20. The amount of time I've known girl A (a pseudonym I only used so I wouldn't need to use her real name) has been all throughout highschool. So we have been…"
"First of all you are 20, so the feelings are natural and normal. Actually it is a positive sign that you are thinking and aware.
I am a lawyer. It took for years of college and three years of law school. I loved being in school. Your career has to…"
"Providing goes under responsibility which is a virtue for women and men alike. But there is masculinity and femininity. And those things set the genders apart. Thats not the same as manliness
Masculinity is to a big degree a physical thing. If i…"
"Iam far away from earning six figures, but i made the transition from beeing a blue collar worker towards beeing a office worker.
Alltogether both sides do have their disatvantages and advantages. I made the change for a multitude of reasons. Some…"
"I don't know what you mean 'more' masculine. What is more masculine than providing a good living for your family? Manliness doesn't come from what you do, it's more than that. I know really manly business…"
"It sounds like you think white collar is all dull and less than manly. It can be, but doesn’t have to be. I spent time at two huge corporations, and yes, they were what I would call stodgy. Now, I’m at a small company…"
""Koreans are not enslaved."
I think that you're just thinking about South Korea there Will. From all the reports I've seen North Koreans are enslaved by their own government pretty damn well. If Koreans were some…"
I have long been thinking about adding a CPA to my name.I graduated with a bachelor's degree in history and an economics minor when I was an undegrad. I then went to a master's program in accounting; having completed financial, managerial, cost, and intermediate accounting classes. While I was in the master's program, I received a job offer working for a union funds office as a collections/delinquency coordinator for a multi-employer health and welfare plan. I've been working at this job for 2…See More
""I believe it more likely that I would be the slaver if I were involved in it."
You've shown that you have the morals to be a slave seller, which requires simply the lack of moral character and zero physical capabilities.