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Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice

Started this discussion. Last reply by JonEdanger Jan 17. 23 Replies

I had a friend go through a break up a few months ago and he told me the members on this site helped him quite a bit, so I thought I would give it a shot since I'm at a standstill. Prepare for a…Continue

 

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StaggerLee replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"This entire tale reeks of emotional immaturity. I don't know your circumstances but you come off as being very young. Nothing wrong with that, as we all have been there. My advice would be to forget about any relationships for a time and spend…"
Jan 17
Regular Joe replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"  Widsom."
Jan 17
Regular Joe replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"a) This made me literally LOL   b) AGREED"
Jan 17
Rick Shelton replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"YOU need to figure out what you want and who you want to be with.  You're jacking these two 'girls' around and f*ing with their emotions.  Stop.  You're going to end up with neither the way you're going and…"
Jan 17
Dario replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"Dear Ken (if I may), First of all, let me say that - while reading the comments to your post - I was positively surprised to learn that you are only 20. I'm a university professor, so I deal exactly with people of your age, and I can tell you…"
Jan 17
Boondocker replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"There is a principle which protects men from problems and makes the correct course of action clear in all situations.  Unfortunately it takes a lot of work.  Because of amount of work and self sacrifice involved, it is seldom even taught…"
Jan 17
Stuart Charles replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"I agree. Find a new A."
Jan 16
Jack Bauer replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"Honestly, neither.  You don't like Girl B enough ... and Girl A doesn't like you enough. You're doing the same thing to B that A did to you.  And, its going to end for you just like its ending for B.  A's going to…"
Jan 16
Rufus T Switters replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"there is one thing you have to know in life, this applies to work, relationships, everything. YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S HAPPINESS.  NO OTHER PERSON IS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS. understand this and make decisions…"
Jan 16
Brad Williams replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"I completely agree.  I wrote my long-ass post when there were zero responses and by the time I'd written it and posted, there were others before me.  So I wasn't targeting my comments at you or anyone.  I agree with all…"
Jan 16
Will replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"I really don't know.  But I know that there are times when it's OK to simply date, without being "in a relationship."  Maybe this is one of these times -- so you can get to know if there's more to…"
Jan 16
Mike replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"I believe that the relationship that you have built up in your mind is greater than the reality with this girl. Also, you are continuing to communicate with your ex-girlfriend, correct? Why? Also, which of these girls, if either, can you not live…"
Jan 16
Brad Williams replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"A lot of people with laugh at this post and deride you for it.  The view of the older and wiser crowd is often to crack up at the younger, less experienced and troubles which seem inconsequential.  But I guess I'm not older and wiser…"
Jan 16
Joseph Robert replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"Mike nailed it, listen to him. You'll know if your'e with the one you want to spend your life with. I think I'd be surprised if either on of them are the one. Girl A isn't going to be the one when you the long-distance…"
Jan 16
Ken Adams replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"Hey, thank you for the quick reply. You're right, I am young. I'm only 20. The amount of time I've known girl A (a pseudonym I only used so I wouldn't need to use her real name) has been all throughout highschool. So we have been…"
Jan 16
Pale Horse replied to Ken Adams's discussion Huge relationship dilemma. Would love some wisdom/advice
"Choo choo..."
Jan 16

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