Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya
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An intricate college dating situation

Started this discussion. Last reply by Elon Erani Dec 4, 2014. 50 Replies

Hello my fellow AoM members,I have come to a point in my life, as a senior in college, where I am frankly not interested in being a child anymore and have arrived at the point where, simply put,…Continue

Tags: competition, future, college, rivalry, situation

Journaling with a Different Thought

Started this discussion. Last reply by Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya Nov 14, 2013. 15 Replies

Hello everyone!I live in the great Pacific Northwest, in Oregon state, of the United States, for those of you who are from other countries. I once started the habit of journaling, of keeping a diary,…Continue

Tags: thanks, thanksgiving, wisdom, thankfulness, thankful

My Twenties

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dino Silone Oct 11, 2013. 26 Replies

Hello, Gentlemen and stewards of manliness!My name  is Silviu and I am in need of some advice, not from family, because that advice has not changed and, though helpful, is somewhat narrow, but from…Continue

Tags: social, networking, hobbies, future, life

Do not advertise glee on AoM

Started this discussion. Last reply by Justin Cook Jun 6, 2012. 31 Replies

Hello,  Let's please not advertise 'Glee' on AoM website. Thank you.  STContinue

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Elon Erani replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"U are a smart man. There is no rush. u are a young man with your entire life ahead. Be your genuine self. Do not feel the competition with the other guy. Do not feel that u have 2 be the one 2 push this friendship along. Any relationship, be it…"
Dec 4, 2014
Regular Joe replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"This. "
Dec 4, 2014
Wasatch replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
""If her and I aren't, then I'll go back to WA"--seems a bit overkill to plan your professional path around a girl who you aren't in a relationship with.  I have a feeling that you 10 years from now will wish that he…"
Dec 4, 2014
Wasatch replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"My thoughts are you seem to have a tendency to complicate things and you probably over analyze details and end up with mountains for mole hills, at least when it comes to women.  99% chance she is not interested in you. The writing is on the…"
Dec 4, 2014
Ben Dial replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"I think you should just accept the status quo with her and start dating other girls. Don't hide it. When she finds out you're not crazy/stalker dude and are being a typical bachelor dating respectable girls and playing the field, then you…"
Dec 4, 2014
Leto Atreides II replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"Does she have a sister?"
Dec 2, 2014
QuackXP replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"Be her friend. It can't hurt. But don't put in the effort you would if you where courting someone for a romantic relationship.  Keep the outings (not dates yet) to activities that are not normally considered romantic. Go carts for…"
Dec 2, 2014
N. Vest replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
""...there is another guy of interest" You're not exclusive would like us to get to know each other as friends, "on a friendly level" She's not ready to get physical(See above) Is she religious? This kind of behavior…"
Dec 2, 2014
Regular Joe replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"PS: Your dating situation is hardly intricate. ;) "
Dec 1, 2014
Regular Joe replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"My other thought:  You've only had one date, dude. You're over-analysing things. You, too, should be evaluating all of your options and you certainly shouldn't put all of your eggs in the same basket at this point. "
Dec 1, 2014
Regular Joe replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"Right. It was one fucking date. "
Dec 1, 2014
Leto Atreides II replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"Brad Pitt rule."
Dec 1, 2014
Regular Joe replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"If her initiating a conversation is a big deal then up to two things are happening:  You're far more into her than she is into you. She is dating (evaluating her options) whereas you have all your eggs in the same basket.  IMO you…"
Dec 1, 2014
Regular Joe replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
""She has a boyfriend right now. You're on back up. Though maybe not on deck. Deal with that as you see fit." This is just my opinion but I don't think that's the case. I think she's simply dating and being upfront…"
Dec 1, 2014
Regular Joe replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"Hints? Thoughts? Have any of you been in this situation before? Here are my thoughts:  1. Whether she states that there's another guy of interest, until you're in a explicitly stated exclusive relationship with a girl, you should…"
Nov 30, 2014
Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya replied to Silviu Ilyevich Tulbya's discussion An intricate college dating situation
"Yeah, I guess! I was texting her on a "every-other-day" basis, but then one day I didn't text her for two days straight and the next morning she writes. So I thought: okay! That's something. haha"
Nov 30, 2014

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Today is not just about what you want to do. Today is also about who you want to be. -Silviu Tulbya

Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in that gray twilight which knows not victory nor defeat.

- Theodore Roosevelt

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"Lessons Learned"

Posted on November 3, 2013 at 7:30pm 0 Comments

Hello everyone!

I live in the great Pacific Northwest, in Oregon state, of the United States, for those of you who are from other countries. 

I once started the habit of journaling, of keeping a diary, but found it distasteful because of all the negative things I was writing and because I couldn't quite find something that was really worth going back to read over, again. Since then, I've switched to another system and I'd like to share it with everyone here to…

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Reading List

Posted on August 30, 2011 at 8:27pm 0 Comments

My Reading List for the Fall goes like this:

 

1. Desiring God by John Piper

2. Mornings on Horseback by David McCullough

3. The Greater Journey by David…

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