Hey all, had a question I wanted to pose to everyone about how to potentially influence emotional states. What i'm about to discuss is going to sound pretty straight forward at first, something…Continue
"The thought of all the shops closing at 4pm is enough to ruin my Sunday. I like Mondays as its when I get most stuff done in work, but I hate Sundays.
I make Sunday a day of habit and a 'me' day. My partner works Sundays so it's…"
"Hey Penelope, yeah i love the idea of "rewarding" a monday. In fact, i've given myself permission to not go to the gym on mondays and instead make dinner and watch TV at night.
But I want to reiterate, i really enjoy my job. It…"
"I'm not seeing the whining about the soul-crushing misery of Monday being tomorrow, just a sort of inquiry ("for the sake of an interesting exploration," OP says) into why emotions work the way they do, and how easy they are to…"
"Way to get rid of it - Find a job you like better than or equal to your weekends OR set up some small reward for the day of the week you like the least. Monday will be the one workday you pack cookies in your lunch, or whatever."
"Im confused as to where this idea of a bad day is coming from. I'm not complaining about a bad day, i'm curious about how certain emotions are only available at certain times and if/how we might influence that. "
Best I can tell, your complaint is that men -- particularly Asian or Korean men -- aren't into dark-skinned women. You say your parents immigrated to the U.S., so it doesn't sound like you live in Asia. You call yourself a…"
"I'll have to think about this some more, but one things comes to mind right off.
The volatility of the classes makes for some of the mismatches you mention. Purely income-wise I grew up probably somewhere between middle-class and…"
1. You seem to have self-loathing, low self esteem, and bad self image.
2. You live in Korea? Asian countries can be tough to deal with if you are not Asian. However, I can tell you many other countries in the world DO in fact like black…"
Just saw this and figured Id reply. I was a BLM/Forest Service firefighter for four years, two on engines and last two on a hotshot crew. The biggest thing honestly is calling and or visiting fire captains to show your interest. Some of…"
"I'm not sure what I could say to help, although I'd like to. It sounds like you are dealing with some specific problems that feel like general ones. I don't know what your experiences are, but they sound…"
"Isn't it obvious? She's gone to an almost all-male, mostly white, board, to see if she gets honored or trashed. Because she is in such distress that she, well, makes that post. I'd say she's been trashed enough.…"