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Abusive Brother

Started this discussion. Last reply by Seth Jul 1, 2013. 25 Replies

Quick intro of me, I frequent this site a lot and finally decided to join to get some advice as I have no one else to really ask. I am 22 year old commuting to college and working part time. Live…Continue

Tags: manipulative, abusive, crazy, sibling, brother

 

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Seth replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"For now I have decided, because my options and funds are limited, to still live at home but never be there except to sleep and shower and laundry. I told my mom I would be leaving if she let him back, she got all upset and tries to guilt trip me but…"
Jul 1, 2013
Seth replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"Thanks. Yes many times, and my girlfriend agrees, it seems I am the only one willing to do anything about it. My family usually just ignores things until it's too late, then they whine about it, but nothing changes. For instance NO ONE tried to…"
Jul 1, 2013
Nick H replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
Jun 30, 2013
Brian Splash replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"Is the sane option always the right option ? Every time I read in the paper of a child or a woman being beaten to death I always wonder where the real men are in these situations , in most cases it's a father or husband with a violent history ,…"
Jun 29, 2013
Haydn Deal replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"You are absolutely in the right here. Just keep in mind that it is very common, and normal for family members in situations like the one you described, to become angry at the members who decide to leave, or walk away, or even try to fix the…"
Jun 29, 2013
Nick H replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"Your brother may be crazy but sounds like your family is enabling him. Tough situation. Don't know what to tell you other than get the heck away from it."
Jun 28, 2013
Jonathan Winkler replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"This.  x2.  Especially if there are small children around him. "
Jun 27, 2013
Seth replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"Wow that was great. I really wish my family was as level headed and clear as this. Exactly that's what I try to tell them, he is almost 40 years old and can't seem to support himself. All she is doing is enabling him to live at home for…"
Jun 27, 2013
Brian Splash replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"Well the way I see it the brother does serious time or or he can work into his mothers or nieces eulogy how he wished he did something ."
Jun 27, 2013
Todd Serveto replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"Seth---I have not the other entries on this thread yet as I want to give you my own perspective. When things are topsey-turvey in a deranged situation, we need to step out of it and get our bearings by looking at what objectively normal reality…"
Jun 27, 2013
Seth replied to R. Max's discussion losing my Dad
"Sorry to hear buddy, that's real tough. How old are you? I lost my father too, 2 weeks before I turned 19 to cancer. It was nasty, cancer is no joke. It wasn't fun to see him suffer through the years. It did help to know he wasn't in…"
Jun 26, 2013
Seth replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"Well he has been in and out of jail many a times. In fact after he was kicked out (march 2012) by September he got arrested down in SC, one of my drama-loving sisters googled it. And he has been down there since at least then. My other sister went…"
Jun 26, 2013
Seth replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"I tried the police route, I mentioned in response to Rick. They took him to the hospital and duped the doc's because they didn't see anything mentally wrong with him, depsite his long rap sheet and hospitalizations. I'm sure they just…"
Jun 26, 2013
Seth replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"I sort of tried to the judge thing, well not directly to a judge. After the time I came down to him attacking my sister I went to the police the next day before work. I forget exactly what the form was called, but I had to write a statement of why…"
Jun 26, 2013
Seth replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"I have about a year left of college until I will have my four year degree in Criminal Justice (ironic huh?) I actually have been looking for a second or full time job to save money up.  Hm oddly I didn't think about going to library or…"
Jun 26, 2013
Sir replied to Seth's discussion Abusive Brother
"One other thing I'm wondering, from responders:  the focus is on OP getting out of the house.  But he's an adult man and has successfully stopped his brother more than once.  Surely he is not the one who should be…"
Jun 26, 2013

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