"OK, back on topic...
I highly recommend these, in this order, based on your request for books on "wisdom":
1) La Rochefoucauld - Maxims (Best "practical wisdom" book I've found)
2) Baltasar Gracian - Art of Worldly…"
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Unfaithful Women - What to do?
Started this discussion. Last reply by Tim G. Mar 18. 59 Replies 0 Likes
Greetings Gentlemen,I'm typically one giving advice on this site, so it's a bit of a role reversal now for me to ask for your help, as a community.A month ago, I found out my fiancé had cheated on me…Continue
Tags: divorce, marriage, counseling, infidelity
Rules for Marrying My Daughter
Started this discussion. Last reply by Victory Unlimited Show Nov 24, 2010. 44 Replies 0 Likes
My daughter is getting married this winter, and I thought it would be a good idea to put together a "Rules for Marrying My Daughter" book and actually have it published in a nice leatherbound book to…Continue
Tags: love, relationship, marriage, daughter, son-in-law
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Christopher F. replied to Philosopher King's discussion Unfaithful Women - What to do?"I realize that I'm coming into this thread after the fact. I'm truly glad you are happy with the direction you chose.
For my part I would agree that you went the right way. As a side note it would have been the lying that was the…"
Dan Bonello replied to Philosopher King's discussion Unfaithful Women - What to do?"Dump her. Just asking advice on what to do is disturbing. You'll get over it. If you marry her, you'll be divorced within three years anyway."
D.J. replied to Philosopher King's discussion Unfaithful Women - What to do?"I'm glad to hear it worked out for you in the end, and on the timeline it did too."
Philosopher King replied to Philosopher King's discussion Unfaithful Women - What to do?"Just an update to anyone who may stumble across this post in the future:
First of all, I want to thank everyone in the community who provided their perspectives. Having the support and general consensus of the group made it a little easier to face…"
Philosopher King replied to Ian's discussion Found that girlfriend's ex takes her out for dinner"Hey Ian,
I think I responded to your other post, basically telling you to play it cool and not make a big deal of it. I also told you to tread lightly and keep your eyes open for her interest level.
Well, this is a huge red flag.…"
Philosopher King replied to Neil's discussion Need advice."Hey Rebekah,
I'm going to go out on a limb and assume you're talking about my comments. Just wanted to say sorry if you feel I implied that you fit my generalization. I agree that not all in their 20's have rocky relationships.…"
Philosopher King replied to Neil's discussion Need advice.""There's nothing more to be accomplished by talking about that stuff" - sounds like you're getting it.
Interestingly enough, I'm deliberately entering a relationship right now that's just like the movie. Don't ask…"
Philosopher King replied to Neil's discussion Need advice."PS.
This is why you should stick with it, and why she won't if you're too forward with her:
“In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out. Usually, what you wish for doesn't fall in…"
Philosopher King replied to Neil's discussion Need advice."PS Again...
Even if it doesn't work this time, you may now see what you did wrong, and you can fix it for next time.
Each relationship that doesn't work should only improve us to make the next one better. If you don't learn anything…"
Philosopher King replied to Neil's discussion Need advice."Ha, Yes, You should’ve read what I wrote first. BUT, now you get the picture, and you understand (by virtue of doing the wrong thing) what you need to do now.
Here’s your recovery action plan:1) Just say NO to serious texts. No more…"
Philosopher King replied to Ian's discussion Girlfriend called me her 'friend'"Tread, but tread lightly.
Care about her actions more than her words. I once had a "non-girlfriend" for 9 months, but she came home with me everytime we went out, invited me to all her parties, was always available to me. We were…"
Philosopher King replied to Neil's discussion Need advice."PS, When I was in your shoes, it came down to "I don't think this relationship is good for me right now". I said - "Thanks for the dance" - reference to "The Dance" by Garth Brooks. i.e. "I had a wonderful…"
Philosopher King replied to Neil's discussion Need advice."Hey Neil,
I've been through what you're going through so I'm going to weigh in with my advice. I like lists, so here we go:
1) Don't ask her about the reasons. Honestly, SHE probably hasn't identified her true feelings on…"
Philosopher King replied to Blair Brown's discussion Food Survey!"1. Chili, Cheese, Mustard2. Boiled3. Ketchup, Mustard, Cheese, Bacon4. Grilled (only real way to make a burger)5. Naked, but previously marinated in Dale's seasoning6. Medium Rare7. Pepperoni, italian sausage, buffalo chicken strips"
Philosopher King replied to D.J.'s discussion Calling someone out for complete ridiculousness"There's already a ton of answers on here, and I don't have time to read them so forgive me if this is a duplicate. The simple matter is that no owner of a Chic Fil A restaurant can sign a document that in any way implicates or requires an…"
How To Act
- Never under compulsion, out of selfishness, without forethought, with misgivings
- Don't gussy up your thoughts
- No surplus words or unnecessary actions
- Let the spirit in you represent a man, an adult, a citizen, a Roman, a ruler. Taking up his post like a soldier and patiently awaiting his recall from life. Needing no oath or witness.
- Cheerfulness. Without requiring other people's help. Or serenity supplied by others.
- To stand up straight, not straightened.
Marcus Aurelius
- Don't gussy up your thoughts
- No surplus words or unnecessary actions
- Let the spirit in you represent a man, an adult, a citizen, a Roman, a ruler. Taking up his post like a soldier and patiently awaiting his recall from life. Needing no oath or witness.
- Cheerfulness. Without requiring other people's help. Or serenity supplied by others.
- To stand up straight, not straightened.
Marcus Aurelius
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Luxinator replied to Allen's discussion Identity limbo"Well said about the absence of high heels on the necks of men.
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Liam S. commented on Brad Bortz's group Cigars, Cigars, Cigars"There is a group on Tobacco, but none specific to cigars, that I know of. Welcome. "
Cigars, Cigars, Cigars
I've just joined Manliness and don't see a group dedicated to cigar aficionados.Any cigar smokers out there? Let's share experiences, nice smokes, etc.Looking forward to hearing from all of you!See More
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