So I am 18 and a freshman in college, and my girlfriend wanted to take a break from our relationship as we entered university. No big deal, but lately I have been feeling rather anxious to talk to…Continue
Greetings fellow AoM readers! I have been a fan of the site for a long time and have decided to become more active amongst my fellow men. I am just about to enter college and hope to truly learn what…Continue
"You are a freshman in college and on a break. You are in the best time in your entire life to meet women, you don't even have to have superior "game". Forget her in the arms of other women, turst me, she has forgotten you in the arms…"
"It's over. I know this is anecdotal, and there are exceptions... but EVERY relationship that I've seen that has at one point "taken a break" has ended permanently, and ended BADLY.
You're young, and entering a pivotal point…"
"If you're unsure, it must not be a strong desire. But if you are sure ("can't stop thinking about her")... Might look up that post on AoM's main site, stop hanging out with women and start dating them."
So I am 18 and a freshman in college, and my girlfriend wanted to take a break from our relationship as we entered university. No big deal, but lately I have been feeling rather anxious to talk to her, but I don't feel right about it. She said is looking for time to figure out her life, but I can't stop thinking about her.I just want to know if I should just find something to forget about the whole scenario, or pursue a friendship with her at the moment?(We have not spoken in about a month)See More
"To me, the modern gentleman is the man who can stand up for those who cannot; to lead the charge towards virtues during times when it lacks. The modern gentleman is a person who is proud to be a man and shows it by expressing kindness and manners to…"
"Personally, I see nothing at all wrong with stoicism, especially in men. There's a world of difference between keeping your head when others around you are falling apart, and supressing feelings until the pressure is too much and…"
"Nothing to do with politics. Carter was weasley, let others make his decisions, messed up the Iranian hostage big time, and was controlled by his wife and mother. Clinton was/is a whore who screws around on his wife unapologetically. "
Our core of masculinity, mine and yours, Is like a holy of holies, a source into which God poursOil of gladness Not just to anoint, but for fuel to fill the golden candlesticksTo burn and shine and power, to give us light in difficult hour.Why then do we have such trouble this holy place accessing?Do we fear the awesome power? Do we seek to control the blessing?Are we preoccupied with our manly flesh so visible to others?Is all that matters how I compare to my brothers?If we put aside our…See More
This would never happen, but use your imagination here:Suppose there was a day that it was mandatory for ALL men to go shirtless.What would it be like? How would you react? How would others react?Would you be in favor of such a day? Would you extend it to include boys of all ages, or over a certain age?Discuss!See More
"Eh. That's all political. Carter was an honorable man. Dumb as a sack of doorknobs ... but honorable. Clinton was a bit of a cad, but had some solid guys-guy traits. I wouldn't name either of them as…"
"Wow that all just came together. Many thanks fellas, that gives me a better understanding. I figured the ancients might be one good place to begin. Meditations really just caught my eye, but I understand now what Bobby said about it. Thanks for…"