So I am 18 and a freshman in college, and my girlfriend wanted to take a break from our relationship as we entered university. No big deal, but lately I have been feeling rather anxious to talk to…Continue
Greetings fellow AoM readers! I have been a fan of the site for a long time and have decided to become more active amongst my fellow men. I am just about to enter college and hope to truly learn what…Continue
"You are a freshman in college and on a break. You are in the best time in your entire life to meet women, you don't even have to have superior "game". Forget her in the arms of other women, turst me, she has forgotten you in the arms…"
"If you're unsure, it must not be a strong desire. But if you are sure ("can't stop thinking about her")... Might look up that post on AoM's main site, stop hanging out with women and start dating them."
So I am 18 and a freshman in college, and my girlfriend wanted to take a break from our relationship as we entered university. No big deal, but lately I have been feeling rather anxious to talk to her, but I don't feel right about it. She said is looking for time to figure out her life, but I can't stop thinking about her.I just want to know if I should just find something to forget about the whole scenario, or pursue a friendship with her at the moment?(We have not spoken in about a month)See More
"To me, the modern gentleman is the man who can stand up for those who cannot; to lead the charge towards virtues during times when it lacks. The modern gentleman is a person who is proud to be a man and shows it by expressing kindness and manners to…"
"Carl, Thank you so much for the kind words. I am thinking about giving 5/3/1 another go (I gave it a go a year or so ago). I just have to decide on the template I want. I am happy for any suggestions you may have since you have more experience with…"
"In the short term, podcasts, NPR, and youtube. Start with Ted Talks and Kahn Academy - just follow rabbit-holes of topics that sound interesting and see where they lead you.
But longer term, I'd suggest you need to get over "I hate…"
"If you don't know what someone is talking about, say "Tell me more, I am interested in what you know about that!".....everyone likes to talk and they will be flattered you asked them to fill you in...it works every time!"