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Girl likes going to clubs; I don't

Started this discussion. Last reply by Al Salil May 21, 2015. 29 Replies

So there's this issue I'm having that might either have some deeper roots to it that I just can't put my finger on or it doesn't. It's pretty straight-forward, really: my girlfriend likes going to…Continue

Introduction to marketing

Started this discussion. Last reply by Milo Morris Mar 24, 2015. 3 Replies

Dear AoM friends,I'm a beginning entrepreneur, studying jewelry making under the watchful eye of my father with prospects of soon joining as a partner in the family business. Before I dive right into…Continue

International shipment fees on Amazon.com are killing me.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Red Garland Sep 15, 2014. 10 Replies

Hey guys, I'm having a little problem that I hope you could help me solve. First of all, thank you for bothering to read the thread and allow me to explain my situation. I want to purchase a few…Continue

Separation in a fresh relationship

Started this discussion. Last reply by Steve Dallas Aug 1, 2014. 3 Replies

I'm trying to be a kind of guy who doesn't wallow in his problems and tries to take everything as it is, but I'm having a hard time dealing with something right now.I've just entered a relationship…Continue

 

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Al Salil replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"+1"
May 21, 2015
Sir replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"Actually, we like to have someone else handle being DJ, have someone else refill the drinks, and have a feeling of being out on a date.  If we thought people were payaing particular attention to our moves, we wouldnt like it."
May 21, 2015
Austin replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"This is correct. Also, even women who aren't explicitly seeking to get laid are still trying to get the rush of being pursued and the ego boost of known that they still could get laid if they wanted. The "just to dance"…"
May 21, 2015
Ricky replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"I've been in worse situations. I was in your shoes, but it was my friends who dragged me out, so I didn't even have a girl to dance with! Here's what I would do: 1) Be assertive if you feel comfortable doing so 2) If #1…"
May 11, 2015
Al Salil replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"+10"
May 3, 2015
dwest replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"I'm suprised at the number of people who suggesting "just go with her" "learn to dance" makes me think they haven't stepped in a night club for a while ;D I like the first-ish comment, "lead; find what you want…"
Apr 27, 2015
Rick Shelton replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"You're there not to be around strangers, you're there to be around your girlfriend so it's not pointless and shallow.   Learn to dance, take lessons in the modern style of dance. If she's going with her girlfriends then you…"
Apr 23, 2015
David F. replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"Find a night club you enjoy and trade off with her style and yours. "
Apr 23, 2015
Shane replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"Both are fun. But this does bring up a good point. Maybe some dance lessons are in order."
Apr 23, 2015
John Muir replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"I'm an old man. Tango, marimba, etc - but that's really dances couples that are already having sex do... weddings, corporate and private dinner parties, etc... like this: Whereas when I think "Club Dancing", I think Satanist…"
Apr 23, 2015
Sir replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"OK.  It wasn't my intention to suggest you should have researched it.  You may be right.  It may also depend on the club. On the rare occasions that I go, it's to dance.  It's to the venue known for its blues…"
Apr 23, 2015
Shane replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"No salsa dancing. Got it."
Apr 23, 2015
John Muir replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"I suppose into an environment that's 60% people trying to get laid, 30% people drug along by people trying to get laid, 5% friends of staff and performers, and 5% people that just wanna dance. "
Apr 23, 2015
John Muir replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"So I'd: A) Rather sip my junk up in my fly on accident than be in that environment, and B) put liking an environment like that right up there with "daddy issues" on the "Things To Avoid In A Girlfriend" list but…"
Apr 23, 2015
Sir replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"Nice."
Apr 23, 2015
Sir replied to Red Garland's discussion Girl likes going to clubs; I don't
"I haven't done a survey, so I don't know.  But where do you go when you want to dance?"
Apr 23, 2015

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