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Girl at work

Started this discussion. Last reply by Andrew Jul 24, 2014. 17 Replies

So I have been working with this woman for 7 months. She’s very attractive and in general we get a long well in a professional setting. I told her a few months ago that I enjoyed her energy and found…Continue

Finding my personal manhood

Started this discussion. Last reply by Leto Atreides II Jun 11, 2014. 71 Replies

I am 25 and I have struggled with my masculinity quite a bit.  I am not a trypical guy- into sports, video games, etc.  I wouldn't say my interests are feminine either.  I am into music, nature, and…Continue

Advice on Courting a Woman

Started this discussion. Last reply by Regular Joe Apr 4, 2014. 8 Replies

Hi,I need some advice on how to deal with this beautiful female at work. I have had a job for a few months and I found a very attractive woman I work with. I find her physically attractive and she is…Continue

Lose a friend over a girl?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Steve Mar 21, 2014. 27 Replies

I've been working at a new company for about 3 months. I made a friend (guy) in the IT dept and we have been hanging out quite a bit. I revealed to my friend that I think a woman in marketing is…Continue

 

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Andrew replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"I don't think women like making a decision under pressure. That's a fair point, Will "
Jul 24, 2014
Rick Shelton replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"+1 If she gets weird about you asking her out on an 'actual' date then drop the subject but keep her as a friend.  More relationships have started through friends of friends than any other method (yes, even online matching…"
Jul 24, 2014
Sir replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"Which, unless she's madly in love with you (and maybe even if she is), will get you a "no."  That kind of question is too much pressure.  "
Jul 24, 2014
Regular Joe replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"Now you in the friend zone, son. "
Jul 24, 2014
Andrew replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"^^ This is my thought also ^^ Ask her to something more "date worthy" if you will....If she is weird about it, stop guessing and ask her straight up if the feelings are mutual. "
Jul 24, 2014
Pale Horse replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"LOL"
Jul 23, 2014
Regular Joe replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
Jul 23, 2014
Pale Horse replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"Or you can exchange it for what's behind curtain #2."
Jul 23, 2014
Regular Joe replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"Good. I've been waiting for one of those for a while.  "
Jul 23, 2014
Pale Horse replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"Agreed. Eating with someone on a lunch break is what you do with associates."
Jul 23, 2014
Vytautas replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"One internet."
Jul 23, 2014
Rick Shelton replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"I have to agree with Joe on this one.  If she didn't open up to you at the lunch then she's not that interested in you."
Jul 22, 2014
Jack Bauer replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"Invite her somewhere outside of business hours.  Lunch on Wednesday is ambiguous (friend, colleague, date?).  Dinner and dancing on Saturday night is not.  That'll get you the clear answer you're wanting ... though…"
Jul 22, 2014
Regular Joe replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"What do I get? "
Jul 22, 2014
Vytautas replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
"Man, you are just killing it lately. You win."
Jul 22, 2014
Regular Joe replied to RM's discussion Girl at work
Jul 22, 2014

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Motivation

Posted on September 12, 2013 at 7:30pm 0 Comments

Hi, I am in some major need of motivation. I am 24 unemployed, single, and mostly friendless. My trouble started at 16--I was a high achieving high school student determined to get into a top college and be premed. I noticed at around this age, everything became a battle---my friends stopped just being friends--everything was a war. My emotions didn't matter to my family- it was all about performance..I had no motivation to apply for college or anything...the only way I did is because my… Continue

How do I get over anxiety in sports?

Posted on May 12, 2012 at 6:22pm 1 Comment

Hi,
I'm actually a fairly athletic guy. I'm 6 feet, and have a fairly muscular build. Since I was a kid, I always thought way too much about things then necessary. This is something I believe I learned from my parents. For example, when I play basketball, I always start strong, score a few points and play well on defense, but then I soon get in my head, and I start losing confidence. Soon, I can't perform. This affects me…
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