Dear husbands,I am struggling with a decision to make and I thought maybe if you could share your experience that might be helpful. Here's the story:I am 33 years old and I am thinking of starting…Continue
"My first thought is that you are putting a lot of pressure on this woman. If she made the same vow as you did, then two innocent virgins, with open minds and hearts can be a beautiful thing, sometimes. You've had all this time to…"
"I think we should cut him some slack. His priorities seem out of whack because he has never had sex. Remember how much you thought about sex as a teenager and early twenties?
Lots of good advice here though. Good sex is a product of a…"
"As far as erectile dysfunction goes, I had it and then found a wonderful solution that works great for my wife and me. There are quite a few options, so guys with E.D. should not give up. You can see more in my discussion…"
"I think you are missing the point of what marriage or indeed relationships are all about.
You have not even asked the girl out and you are coldly wondering what sex might be like five years down the line. You have survived until the ripe old age of…"
"I think if you find her attractive now, then you can still see her as one when you decide to marry her out of love. Would it not be an answer?
In 5 years time, if you still maintain to make your marriage and sex life new and interesting every day…"
""Sex eventually dies down. Not completely but it becomes more of a occasional thing rather than regular."
Speak for yourself, Bud. At 72 years young and 46 + years of marriage, I can attest that sex with my wife has not died down but has…"
"In 5 years you should be madly in love with her mind and spirit, that will have a consequence on how you look to her body. Be assured over 5 years you will find her body sexy as hell.
Just wondering, whats your defintion of "dating"? A…"
"Sex is great in the beginning - However, marriage is about LOVE not sex. You will be spending time with one girl for a long time - eventually sex won't be everything. For me it ain't - 5 years later - I'm 33 too - heck I'm afraid…"
"Here's my opinion. I've been married 35 years. Sex is a really important part of marriage; learn all you can (yes, sex is something that is more complicated than just two people horizontal) about sex so that, when the opportunity presents…"
"I missed the part where you where not dating her yet.
Honestly, go date her. Figure out if anything is there or you like the shell you see.
And if not date someone else. Things will work out as you date and pray.
But go on dates, enjoy…"
"Our workplace has an in-house gym. Naturally there are showers there. I have seen coworkers and even company execs naked in the showers. For my coworkers, it was no big deal to see the other guys naked although it was not flaunted. The executives…"
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"I used to go to a Korean sauna with a coworker. We tried to get a couple other guys to join but, as expected, none were interested after he explained the custom of mandatory nudity. We had no issue with it.
At my current place of employment, we…"
"I thought I knew the mean of the word "sanction", and I did.
But apparently it also means the exact opposite:
1. a threatened penalty for disobeying a law or rule.
2. official permission or approval for an action.