Dear husbands,I am struggling with a decision to make and I thought maybe if you could share your experience that might be helpful. Here's the story:I am 33 years old and I am thinking of starting…Continue
"My first thought is that you are putting a lot of pressure on this woman. If she made the same vow as you did, then two innocent virgins, with open minds and hearts can be a beautiful thing, sometimes. You've had all this time to…"
"I think we should cut him some slack. His priorities seem out of whack because he has never had sex. Remember how much you thought about sex as a teenager and early twenties?
Lots of good advice here though. Good sex is a product of a…"
"As far as erectile dysfunction goes, I had it and then found a wonderful solution that works great for my wife and me. There are quite a few options, so guys with E.D. should not give up. You can see more in my discussion…"
"I think you are missing the point of what marriage or indeed relationships are all about.
You have not even asked the girl out and you are coldly wondering what sex might be like five years down the line. You have survived until the ripe old age of…"
"I think if you find her attractive now, then you can still see her as one when you decide to marry her out of love. Would it not be an answer?
In 5 years time, if you still maintain to make your marriage and sex life new and interesting every day…"
""Sex eventually dies down. Not completely but it becomes more of a occasional thing rather than regular."
Speak for yourself, Bud. At 72 years young and 46 + years of marriage, I can attest that sex with my wife has not died down but has…"
"In 5 years you should be madly in love with her mind and spirit, that will have a consequence on how you look to her body. Be assured over 5 years you will find her body sexy as hell.
Just wondering, whats your defintion of "dating"? A…"
"Sex is great in the beginning - However, marriage is about LOVE not sex. You will be spending time with one girl for a long time - eventually sex won't be everything. For me it ain't - 5 years later - I'm 33 too - heck I'm afraid…"
"Here's my opinion. I've been married 35 years. Sex is a really important part of marriage; learn all you can (yes, sex is something that is more complicated than just two people horizontal) about sex so that, when the opportunity presents…"
"I missed the part where you where not dating her yet.
Honestly, go date her. Figure out if anything is there or you like the shell you see.
And if not date someone else. Things will work out as you date and pray.
But go on dates, enjoy…"
"Which stories provide the base generic thematic imagery of Asian literature? What are the headwaters from which it all flows? For Western literature it's the Bible and Greek Myth. With that foundation you can understand just about everything…"
Our form of government predates the left/right labels, so how we describe it is skewed from the rest of the world. Republicanism is, of course, a left wing form of government. But, because it's the only one we've ever had,…"
"Essential SF/Fantasy is way easier
Canticle for Leibowitz
Lathe of Heaven
Islands in the Net
Mote in God's Eye
A Million Open Doors etc.
"As a bonus my idea of essential fantasy.
The Hobbit- JRR Tolkien
The Lord of the Rings- JRR Tolkien
A Song of Ice and Fire, the first three books- George RR Martin
Some Conan the Barbarian short stories from Robert E Howard