The United States is a big country and what passes for acceptable behavior among males varies. In some places two men hugging is not only acceptable but expected. In others anything more then a slap…Continue
Writing, gardening, and art.
Radio host on WRSU 88.7 FM where I do a Gay community affairs radio show - www.wrsu.rutgers.edu Thursdays 1pm till 2pm EST.
I enjoy tea and friends to hang out with.
I'm presently reading 'Tis by Frank McCourt,
Mutants edited by Isaac Asimov Martin H. Greenberg and Charles G Waugh, and the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius.
I like classical, Punk, Hardcore, Jazz and Bluegrass.
A strange thing happened to me today.
I saw a big thundercloud move down over Half Dome, and it was so big and clear and brilliant that it made me see many things that were drifting around inside of me; things that relate to those who are loved and those who are real friends.
For the first time I know what love is; what friends are; and what art should be.
Love is a seeking for a way of life; the way that cannot be followed alone; the resonance of all spiritual and physical things...Friendship is another form of love -- more passive perhaps, but full of the transmitting and acceptances of things like thunderclouds and grass and the clean granite of reality.
Art is both love and friendship and understanding: the desire to give. It is not charity, which is the giving of things. It is more than kindness, which is the giving of self.
It is both the taking and giving of beauty, the turning out to the light of the inner folds of the awareness of the spirit.
It is a recreation on another plane of the realities of the world; the tragic and wonderful realities of earth and men, and of all the interrelations of these.
(Ansel Adams from a letter to his brother Cedric, June 10th, 1937)
"There are often opportunities with change.
If the I groups are "tribes" then perhaps a monthly gathering of the tribes (I Groups) would create the community men are looking for. I'd be cool offering my place for gathering. Also I…"
"Sorry for the ludicrous delay in responding. "Being a college town, rents are high even for dumps, so I don't see this sort of collective house sustaining itself for very long."
Houses have gone on for years. Kids who move out tend…"
"touche, well said sir. You got me, fair and square. And yes, from an anthropological perspective, I agree completely with your position that a man who is spreading his seed around does indeed increase the possibility for survival."
"Your statement is about as far from what a gentleman would say What gave you the idea that I was a gentleman?that perhaps you should stop talking so much and read some of the material on this website, if in fact you have ever read any of it...and…"
"Just for perspective, we have an adult, most likely liberal male claiming firing an AR-15 gave him PTSD and felt like a "bazooka".Then here someone made a video of a 7-year old girl firing an AR-15 and feeling just fine.So this guy's…"
"Here are some more for me:
Babies and children aren't cute at all.
German and Russian are beautiful languages.
Megan Fox isn't that arousing.
Italian food is nothing special compared to truly delicious cuisines such as Mexican, Thai, or…"
"I mean change your religion. There's nothing in the Gospels or Acts, or even the Torah, which suggests anyone needs to change their religion to fall under God's grace. And in fact, there are arguments against the necessity."
"For the record the same is obviously true of women - some women act like sluts and then wonder why they only attract cads and can't find a "Prince charming", and some women are angry, man-hating shrews who blame men for not…"
"Most definitely, in fact if anything I'd argue that a man cheating isn't as bad as a woman doing it; just going by biological arguments a woman who is cheating is putting herself (and any potential offspring) at more direct risk than the…"