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Today my relationship has officially ended

Started this discussion. Last reply by Chris Badgett Jan 6, 2013. 9 Replies

Today my relationship of almost 2 years has come to an end. It had been on it's last legs for a few weeks. Over the winter break we took some time out to think, we were still in touch over Skype…Continue

Totally unprepared for those three small words.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Pat Kelly May 28, 2011. 16 Replies

Last night my girlfriend (of 3 months) said to me "I love you". I know she meant it. But I could not reciprocate. In fact I said something like, " I really care for you, I love spending time with you…Continue

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Says she doesn't want to have kids.

Started this discussion. Last reply by TK Apr 5, 2011. 20 Replies

 Has anyone ever dated or married a lady who said that she does not find kids cute, and doesn't want to have one? Just started dating this fantastic girl who told me this and it made me step back a…Continue

Tags: future, family, kids

Introductions

Started this discussion. Last reply by George E. Amon III Jun 24, 2010. 6 Replies

Good day fellas.My names Pat, I'm 20 and I'm living in England. Currently enjoying myself studying towards a medical degree. I enjoy keeping in shape and I'm learning to play guitar. Since stumbling…Continue

 

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Pat Kelly replied to Trenton Willman's discussion to be or not to be the best you can be
"I second that. "
Jan 29, 2013
Chris Badgett replied to Pat Kelly's discussion Today my relationship has officially ended
"I've been there too.  You nailed it about the ambition gap.  Enjoy the freedom.  In my experience it hurts for a while, and then later you'll be grateful. "
Jan 6, 2013
Rob replied to Pat Kelly's discussion Today my relationship has officially ended
"Who teaches you how to live and love? Good question. Most fathers and sons have difficulty talking about personal matters, and even if they could, the chain of passing down the wisdom would have been broken so many times that the advice would lack a…"
Jan 6, 2013
Pat Kelly replied to Pat Kelly's discussion Today my relationship has officially ended
"Thanks guys. Who teaches you how to live and love? I'm learning the hard way. Everyday I can recognise that I'm not a perfect individual. I try very hard to be kind, caring and patient with others. Now I am taking time to focus…"
Jan 5, 2013
Larry replied to Pat Kelly's discussion Today my relationship has officially ended
"Hello, Pat! Not sure what I can (or should) do. I'm here for you!"
Jan 4, 2013
Rob replied to Pat Kelly's discussion Today my relationship has officially ended
"Sorry to hear about the breakup, especially in the context of happening while you are under pressure. Here is some friendly advice, for lack of better: get enough sleep, do not brood over this, but calm and clear your mind before bedtime. It is…"
Jan 3, 2013
Adam Adams replied to Pat Kelly's discussion Today my relationship has officially ended
"Jack, that was wonderfully worded and advice I wish I had received in my past. "
Jan 3, 2013
D.J. replied to Pat Kelly's discussion Today my relationship has officially ended
"JB said it best: this too shall pass. I was in a two year relationship once as well, except I was the one that ended it. I felt guilty for a bit but that was it. However, I was destroyed when my other relationship ended; I felt how you're…"
Jan 3, 2013
Neil replied to Pat Kelly's discussion Today my relationship has officially ended
"Hey Pat, Sorry to hear about this pal. My relationship ended last night and I can definitely empathize with you. I have been reaching out to friends and family because I have been feeling so shitty inside and one thing that has consistently come up…"
Jan 3, 2013
Jack Bauer replied to Pat Kelly's discussion Today my relationship has officially ended
"Sorry.  This too shall pass.   Learn from it so it doesn't happen again.  You can't neglect your girl and expect her to stay around.  You also can't have high expectations of her, and not of yourself.  If…"
Jan 3, 2013
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Today my relationship has officially ended

Today my relationship of almost 2 years has come to an end. It had been on it's last legs for a few weeks. Over the winter break we took some time out to think, we were still in touch over Skype regularly.We had a series a major difficulties over the past 3 months and this has culminated in a mutual break up. She is an emotional fortress, someone who shows amazing affection but has difficulties accepting any form of criticism.I was ready to commit and work harder on improving myself and our…See More
Jan 3, 2013
Pat Kelly replied to D.J.'s discussion Clearing the air with an ex
"Hold back on the beers!"
Jan 1, 2013
Pat Kelly replied to Rob's discussion Greetings across the aether
"Probably the most accurate description of the source of all my relationship and work issues right there."
Dec 30, 2012
Pat Kelly replied to Todd Serveto's discussion EMS 7500---like a TENS unit?
"Hi Todd, You look like a new man - I reviewed an old post the other day, one which you gave me some pretty good advice in. At the time what struck me was how much your appearance had changed! I used EMS before, not as a method of pain relief but as…"
Dec 27, 2012
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Who is lurking in the shadows of our psyche? Best friends? Bad influences? (GOOD FUN!) Role models? Siblings? Children? Parents? Those we love, loathe and lust after the most? What about partners and primary relationships?We do slick rounds of questions, listen to ourselves and one another, get real, hang out, have a laugh. We often get into a topic early on and only one round is done. The funniest, most embarrassing stories can provide the most valuable insights!The name of the game is self…See More
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At 10:18am on February 25, 2013, Herb Munson said…

Alright! Welcome to The Great Debate.

At 5:00pm on June 22, 2010, Herb Munson said…
Hi there Pat. Welcome to AoM. Also, I'd like to give you a friendly invite to check out my group, The Great Debate. Just click on "Groups." It's the one with the colorful galaxy picture. It's also one of the most active groups on AoM. In any case, great to have you with us.
 
 
 

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