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How long does one wait?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Josh Feb 22, 2013. 20 Replies

Hello all,Sorry if this is a long drawn out, convoluted post; I'm not that great at writing threads.I am currently studying abroad in Australia for the semester and am now single. I dated this girl…Continue

 

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Josh replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"Since you were together for a long time, it might be a good idea to wait several weeks, or even months, so that you have time to recover completely. In my experience, rebound relationships tend to turn out pretty badly."
Feb 22, 2013
Nick replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"Wow thanks! Hadn't seen it like that but thank you"
Feb 22, 2013
Sean Michael Bach replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"Do you truly care about how other people see your personal dealings?  Is your love life the business of others?  Do you want to live your life pleasing other people, or doing what's right for you? You want to be with this girl.…"
Feb 21, 2013
Sean Michael Bach replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"One more thing: any man who says he is shy around women is setting himself up for failure.  DON'T.... EVER.... describe yourself as shy around women.  Be more full of yourself.  Be more confident, even arrogant if that suits you.…"
Feb 21, 2013
Sean Michael Bach replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"When you do ask her out... make it clear that you want to go on a date, not just go out to coffee as friends.  Never give her the impression that you're just friendly to her; eventually, you want to be with this person.  So…"
Feb 21, 2013
Nick replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"Okay, thanks Richard! The advice on here has been great!"
Feb 21, 2013
Richard P replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"Honestly Nick just ask her, if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out. Better you know it now than dwell on this 'what if' for another few weeks. Even if you hang out with that many people you are bound to be able to create a…"
Feb 21, 2013
Nick replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"UPDATE: So this girl and I are kind of in the same friend group. There are like 2 or 3 other girls that me and a couple other guys hang out with, we all pretty much met here like a month ago so we're obviously not like best of friends. My…"
Feb 20, 2013
Nick replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"Thanks for your input. I was beginning to think it was too soon but after making this thread I realized what I really thought deep down. Everyone here has been really helpful, and I thank you for that."
Feb 15, 2013
Nick replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"I don't mean the girl that I think is cute. This girl probably doesn't even know the ex, there are a couple different schools in the program. I'm not worried what the girl I want to ask is going to think, but other people in the…"
Feb 15, 2013
Jack Bauer replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"Why wait at all?  Its a break-up, not a death. It was justified, and you'e over it.  No need for a mourning period for a good idea.  She didn't even wait 'til you broke -up ... and you're thinking about…"
Feb 15, 2013
J. R. Manard replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"Just ask her out already. Who cares if she *might* think you are just going from girl to girl. You're putting words in her mouth without giving her the chance to make her own judgement about whether or not she would like to date you. Just do…"
Feb 15, 2013
Nick replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"I understand where you're coming from and it doesn't bother me at all what she would think. I just don't want other people to get the wrong impression. I get that no one here has magic they can give me and that it totally comes from…"
Feb 15, 2013
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Feb 15, 2013
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Feb 15, 2013
Nick replied to Nick's discussion How long does one wait?
"That's another good point. It only takes half a minute haha"
Feb 15, 2013

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