Hello all,Sorry if this is a long drawn out, convoluted post; I'm not that great at writing threads.I am currently studying abroad in Australia for the semester and am now single. I dated this girl…Continue
"Since you were together for a long time, it might be a good idea to wait several weeks, or even months, so that you have time to recover completely. In my experience, rebound relationships tend to turn out pretty badly."
"Do you truly care about how other people see your personal dealings? Is your love life the business of others? Do you want to live your life pleasing other people, or doing what's right for you?
You want to be with this girl.…"
"One more thing: any man who says he is shy around women is setting himself up for failure. DON'T.... EVER.... describe yourself as shy around women. Be more full of yourself. Be more confident, even arrogant if that suits you.…"
"When you do ask her out... make it clear that you want to go on a date, not just go out to coffee as friends. Never give her the impression that you're just friendly to her; eventually, you want to be with this person. So…"
"Honestly Nick just ask her, if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out. Better you know it now than dwell on this 'what if' for another few weeks.
Even if you hang out with that many people you are bound to be able to create a…"
"UPDATE: So this girl and I are kind of in the same friend group. There are like 2 or 3 other girls that me and a couple other guys hang out with, we all pretty much met here like a month ago so we're obviously not like best of friends. My…"
"Thanks for your input. I was beginning to think it was too soon but after making this thread I realized what I really thought deep down. Everyone here has been really helpful, and I thank you for that."
"I don't mean the girl that I think is cute. This girl probably doesn't even know the ex, there are a couple different schools in the program. I'm not worried what the girl I want to ask is going to think, but other people in the…"
"Why wait at all? Its a break-up, not a death. It was justified, and you'e over it. No need for a mourning period for a good idea. She didn't even wait 'til you broke -up ... and you're thinking about…"
"Just ask her out already. Who cares if she *might* think you are just going from girl to girl. You're putting words in her mouth without giving her the chance to make her own judgement about whether or not she would like to date you. Just do…"
"I understand where you're coming from and it doesn't bother me at all what she would think. I just don't want other people to get the wrong impression.
I get that no one here has magic they can give me and that it totally comes from…"
"You think I am trolling? Why? Cant anybody relate? Who hadnt a grandfather who has been in WWII and had great stories. MAny man have a longing for such an archaic experience, hence all the articles such as stand your perimeter etc. I mean it, i hope…"
"Since it's no longer behind the NYTimes paywall, I finally perused the column.
What I read was that the academician who wrote the article really appears not to understand manliness. For one thing, he doesn't understand that it is…"
Hey Guys,I have a dilemma. I want to join the military or the police but I cant because I have an extremely bad cv, been in psychiatry, 27 years old. But I cannot get past that. I have this strong feeling,that I have to be in War or similar Situations one time in my life, or this longing for fighting and manliness cannot be fulfilled in other professions. The way I see it, there arent any alternatives, but I cannot let go either, I have tried for months. I had already crazy ideas, like joining…See More
"A book that really helped me was "The Power of Now" by Eckhard Tolle. It's a bit "out there" for a nuts and bolts science guy like me. But I figured what the hell, and I can't argue with the results. There's also a…"
Asexuality is a sexual orientation, meaning that a person doesn’t experience sexual attraction to anyone of any gender. This is distinct from romantic orientations - Sexual attraction being who you want to have sex with and romantic attraction being who you would like to date. Asexual people are sometimes referred to as “aces”, although there are many labels and varied terminology within the asexual spectrum. What asexuality isA unique sexual orientation - Just like gay, straight, and bisexual,…See More