Hello all,Sorry if this is a long drawn out, convoluted post; I'm not that great at writing threads.I am currently studying abroad in Australia for the semester and am now single. I dated this girl…Continue
"Since you were together for a long time, it might be a good idea to wait several weeks, or even months, so that you have time to recover completely. In my experience, rebound relationships tend to turn out pretty badly."
"Do you truly care about how other people see your personal dealings? Is your love life the business of others? Do you want to live your life pleasing other people, or doing what's right for you?
You want to be with this girl.…"
"One more thing: any man who says he is shy around women is setting himself up for failure. DON'T.... EVER.... describe yourself as shy around women. Be more full of yourself. Be more confident, even arrogant if that suits you.…"
"When you do ask her out... make it clear that you want to go on a date, not just go out to coffee as friends. Never give her the impression that you're just friendly to her; eventually, you want to be with this person. So…"
"Honestly Nick just ask her, if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out. Better you know it now than dwell on this 'what if' for another few weeks.
Even if you hang out with that many people you are bound to be able to create a…"
"UPDATE: So this girl and I are kind of in the same friend group. There are like 2 or 3 other girls that me and a couple other guys hang out with, we all pretty much met here like a month ago so we're obviously not like best of friends. My…"
"Thanks for your input. I was beginning to think it was too soon but after making this thread I realized what I really thought deep down. Everyone here has been really helpful, and I thank you for that."
"I don't mean the girl that I think is cute. This girl probably doesn't even know the ex, there are a couple different schools in the program. I'm not worried what the girl I want to ask is going to think, but other people in the…"
"Why wait at all? Its a break-up, not a death. It was justified, and you'e over it. No need for a mourning period for a good idea. She didn't even wait 'til you broke -up ... and you're thinking about…"
"Just ask her out already. Who cares if she *might* think you are just going from girl to girl. You're putting words in her mouth without giving her the chance to make her own judgement about whether or not she would like to date you. Just do…"
"I understand where you're coming from and it doesn't bother me at all what she would think. I just don't want other people to get the wrong impression.
I get that no one here has magic they can give me and that it totally comes from…"
"Tsk, tsk, little man. Seems you've forgotten the American revolution can be argued to have begun over taxation without representation - the Sugar tax, the Stamp tax, tea taxes, etc. Nothing unhinges citizens more than when their…"
Hi.I've been a reader now for a short time and I decided to join the forum to maybe take part in some discussions. I'm from Ireland, as the title says... any other Irish readers/posters on the forums?See More
"I think it is mostly just internet talk. Once it comes to actually doing something, only the very few willl show up, and even they really don't want anything to actually happen. Just being there with a gun is all that they can…"
"I've heard that definition of "fascist" before ... mostly from anti-capitalists that like to equate, however spuriously, "fascism" and capitalism.
The definition I'm using is ... "a way of organizing a society in…"
"I wouldn't call these militia types sheep, sheep dogs nor wolves. Annoying dogs that upset your wife a little, shit on the lawn, maybe dig up your flowers but in the end they just make a mess and annoying noise. Sure, the other shit dogs…"
"If you think contractual alterations change moral obligations, then you misunderstand the moral obligation.
It is morally wrong to dodge debts you can afford to pay. That includes dodging them by contract, or by legal wrangling, or by lying,…"
"Liam, you come across like the little accounting clerk with pocket protector and eye shades who counts and recounts the money with meticulous care and whose analness can't handle even a single penny out of place.
Your kind are needed and…"