"I can understand your flabbergastedness (is that a word?). Obviously the people involved were not as well versed in the sartorial arts as we here at AoM.
However I would like to think I would take the high ground and give him the compliment that it…"
"Don't sweat it! I do the same and used to get annoyed by it.
Eventually I realised that everybody ties them differently, which is part of why they are so individual. Now I embrace my way of doing it. It's all good
If you want to…"
"You aren't teenagers any more. Maybe you could ask your brother about the ring, he may know what happened to it or may even have it himself.
It belongs to the family as a whole, maybe you cold come to some arrangement? Just a thought"
"Being able to do a job is only part of the equation. Being at work is like a long job inteview, in this case for your next promotion.
A big part of any job inteview is the question "Will he fit in with us?" If you dress in a way that the…"
"I like the Homburg, and one day I may even buy one. In fact one is next on my wish list
They are a more formal hat than the fedora and look very smart as evening wear, especially with an overcoat. During the day I would stick with the fedora or…"
"Just a few suggestions how not to look like a slob.
If you are going to lose weight, there is no sense in spending money on things that won't fit in a few months
Get rid of the sports shoes (runners/trainers) and buy shoes or boots, I…"
"I am just so incredibly intrigued by MKP. I just don't know where to begin becoming involved; and I worry that my own issues might not be things that would translate to a group session or environment."
"You have facts to support your statement? Gallup poll stuff?
Of course it's the butt of sitcoms and Hollywood, where everyone is attractive, lives in lovely huge houses and never seem to work, rather eat at fancy restaurants all the time.
"How long are we talking about between her initial refusal and her change-of-heart? How old is/was she? Bottom line ... you changed in the interim. You grew-up. Maybe she did, too. I wouldn't necessarily write this…"
"Really I think you are over thinking it.
She may not have been attractive to you, not because you where not a man. It could be she did not know anything about you. But since you asked her out and showed interest she double checked and…"
"If you stay with her, this is what you'll get: coldness (if that's what it is), flirting with other men, sleeping with other men, and lying about it. Also the thing about wanting to build a life with you, kids, &c.…"
"It exists, is not the norm, and there's a better way. But: where do you hope to go with this discussion?
If this isn't an Introduction, you can move it to another part of Forums (Relationships & Family?) even after…"