"Well, sir... I have to bear you an unfortunate welcome to the club nobody wants to be a part of.
This type of situation is what landed me at AoM as a reader.
We are now 3 years out, and if steps are taken... it does get better.
I prescribe to one…"
"A lot of men get into this trap because it is the ultimate end of the "nice guy" complex.
You give, and you give, and you give, and you ask for very little in return; and you get very little. So, eventually the resentment builds and boils…"
"You should look into a parallel parenting setup. This will allow you to not ever have to deal with her again.
If she wants to communicate; set up an intermediary between you to filter out real info (things about the children), and her crazy…"
"I didn't make a decision until I was 27 or so. Kicked a lot around in my head. In the meantime, I worked retail/grocery. I was pushing for management.
Sappy as it sounds, the TV was on one night, and the show "Boy Meets World" was…"
"Other than doing the Axel Rose dance to a Poison song...
Is dancing manly?
There was a quick little article in Maxim a few years ago where the writer did a few weeks of MMA training and a few weeks of Ballet training.
The training that left him…"
"I wear a watch for both function and fashion.
I happen to think the right watch is a modest, classy, and manly completion to a wardrobe.
Though, my digital recently suffered a band failure.
As a nurse, timing pulses and…"
"Listen, and don't give unsolicited advice. She's informing you about her day. Listen. Ask clarifying questions when needed. Don't ask questions about solutions, ask questions about details.
Then, inform her about your day.…"
"First off, I would refrain from any and all navel-gazing about the past; family-of-origin issues, issues from past relationships, etc, etc, etc, yadda, yadda, yadda...
If you want to improve your relationship, nothing begins 10-15-35 years…"
"I see nothing wrong with a clean, conservative pair of sneakers... if you can find a dang pair.
I actually have 2 pairs that get constant comment. A white/black leather combo and a black/grey suede. Both are Fila, which I have found to…"
"I'm for historical honesty with a romantic partner, especially if you expect the relationship to be long term.
Though, full down-and-dirty details aren't absolutely needed.
I dated Jenny for 3 years, we slept…"
"Youtube; Mark Gungor - A Tale of Two Brains.
Biochemically, love functions like an addiction. And there is going to be a withdrawal period. When you look up little videos, or remind yourself of her in one way or…"
"Had my life turned on it's ear, ended up broken and emasculated. This is just one of several resources I have used in the rebuilding process and helps me shore up one aspect of my total self.
It's also a little reenforcement for…"
"1. Yes, it is in fact part of the reason that most professional licenses require continuing ed.
2. I'm sure that, as a clinical psychologist, you would be doing some kind of work with a mental health facility or clinic, no? With larger…"
"Over the age of 25.
The faster growing segment of students for 10 years from 2000 to 2010, which is projected to outpace 18-24 year olds again from 2010-2020.
It's not anger, it's a challenge to the idea of what…"
"Second-(third-... fourth-... whatever)ing the "DO SOMETHING" mentality from the other people. Even if it's something as simple as take her home, and starting up a conversation with him -- "hey boss ... is everything…"
"God created our bodies. In the Torah - the first five books of the bible, are given many laws whose soul purpose is to keep us healthy. There are comments about mold on a tent and discolored skin, dietary laws and how to rotate crops. Keeping…"
"I always thought the Sabbath was one of the Jewish laws that was superseded by Christ. Its more of a suggestion than a law for Christians ... its a good idea to set aside first fruits for God, and a great first step when you get off…"