Matt Monsees
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I just found out I had a son

Started this discussion. Last reply by Matt Monsees Nov 14, 2012. 11 Replies

I just got off the phone with an ex, after getting an email a couple days ago that told me I have a son. I knew that she had been pregnant, but we were only together for a couple days around the time…Continue

ideas for a good wedding gift?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Beowulf87 Apr 17, 2011. 7 Replies

hey guys, what are some Ideas for a wedding giftt for a young couple? I have a friend thats getting married this summer, and I have been trying to think of something that would make a good, memorable…Continue

moving from friends to a relationship, but she is ashamed of health problems

Started this discussion. Last reply by Matt Monsees Dec 27, 2009. 3 Replies

ok, so my "best friend" is a girl that i met just over 6 years ago when i was 16. we had been good friends for awhile, but about 2 years ago we began getting really close. although we have never…Continue

gifts for the lady

Started this discussion. Last reply by MaCayn Dec 16, 2009. 2 Replies

AoM has some great tips for what to get guys, but does anybody know of a good list of suggestions on what to get the ladies in our lives? Preferably a list that follows the same values of AoM. I…Continue

 

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Feb 3, 2013
Matt Monsees replied to Nate Desmond's discussion What Have You Been Reading?
""I could never be so lucky again" the autobiography of James "Jimmy" Doolittle. the same Doolittle of the Doolittle raid in WWII. talk about an amazing life, and I'm not even halfway through yet. its an extra plus if you…"
Feb 3, 2013
Matt Monsees replied to Matt Monsees's discussion I just found out I had a son
"thanks for the support guys. I'm set to talk with JAG to get the ball rolling on a paternity test, and I guess i'll just go from there."
Nov 14, 2012
Stein replied to Matt Monsees's discussion I just found out I had a son
"Matt, this child, if he is yours, deserves to have you in his life. You deserve to be part of his life."
Nov 14, 2012
J. Hughes replied to Matt Monsees's discussion I just found out I had a son
"+1 - Matt, Steins offering you pretty solid advise he's been doing this awhile,   Stein - Good to hear from you again - you starting to free up a little, know you been busy lately. Hope you are doing well.   J."
Nov 13, 2012
Stein replied to Matt Monsees's discussion I just found out I had a son
"Listen Brother, I am a family lawyer, and represent a lot of guys in your situation. So this is my advice, and you need to take it. Find a lawyer where you live, and have him file suit to establish your paternity and have access or custody of your…"
Nov 13, 2012
David L replied to Matt Monsees's discussion I just found out I had a son
"You can use the courts if she refuses to get paternity test, which is the general consensus around here. Do this before investing all of your emotions, time, and money into it. Be smart and lawyer up. You can use JAG services for free brother."
Nov 13, 2012
Jirby replied to Matt Monsees's discussion I just found out I had a son
"Maury Povich."
Nov 13, 2012
Matt Monsees replied to Matt Monsees's discussion I just found out I had a son
"for sure, she had said she was fine with a paternity test before i even called her."
Nov 13, 2012
Mike S. replied to Matt Monsees's discussion I just found out I had a son
"Yep. Make sure she isn't dumping some other guy's kid on you."
Nov 13, 2012
Buffalo Bill replied to Matt Monsees's discussion I just found out I had a son
"I absolutely agree with Jon ^^.  You want to make sure this really is your son and then go from there. As a young guy myself (23), I barely manage to take care of myself and my girlfriend, so I'm really in no place to be giving advice…"
Nov 12, 2012
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I just found out I had a son

I just got off the phone with an ex, after getting an email a couple days ago that told me I have a son. I knew that she had been pregnant, but we were only together for a couple days around the time of conception, while i was home on R&R from afghanistan. to make a long story short, at the time she was living with my sister, and had my car. not long after I went back overseas she had completely erased herself out my life, she deleted her facebook, and dumped my car in front of a friends…See More
Nov 12, 2012
Matt Monsees replied to Mike Rissanen's discussion I'm a little confused...
"agreed. chalk one up for experience, and keep the better memories rather than making bad ones."
Oct 29, 2011
Matt Monsees replied to Jordon's discussion 12 Things every man should...
"well, this discussion has kinda swayed from personal items to what a man should know. I will leave a list of possessions because I think that the knowledge/attitudes and what not is best for its own list.   in no particular order:   1: a…"
Oct 29, 2011
Matt Monsees replied to Jonathan's discussion what's in my pockets?
"wallet 2 lucky zippo's (one with an actual 4 leaf clover and a custom order that my bro-in-law gave me) pack of smokes (need to quit) key small notebook 2 pens cell phone mp3 player (sony fan) my camera (panasonic lumix zs5, very highly…"
Aug 9, 2011
Matt Monsees replied to John Moser's discussion Drugs and not-drugs
"wait a second... you were looking at drugs at work? am I the only one that finds this odd?"
Aug 6, 2011

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Living life to its fullest!
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really like dan browns, but anything with some action adventure or something that can make me think
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anything considered socially akward
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anything that can put its roots in the blues
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"Fortes Fortuna Adiuvat"- Latin for fortune favors the brave.

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At 5:24am on March 25, 2010, Michael J. Austin said…
HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!
At 1:33pm on December 15, 2009, thehuhman said…
Welcome to the AoM Forum, Matt!
At 9:54pm on December 14, 2009, Herb Munson said…
Hi there Matt. Welcome to AoM. Also, thought I'd give you a friendly invite to check out my new group The Great Debate. It's the one with the colorful galaxy picture. It's also the most active group on AoM at the moment. In any case, great to have you aboard.
At 9:43pm on December 14, 2009, Michael J. Austin said…
Hello and welcome to the site Matt!!!!
 
 
 

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