Hi ThereSo first of all I want to explain - Obviously the title is a little incorrect when read literally. I'm well aware that most actions should have some thought behind them, and failure to think…Continue
Hello Guys. Been snooping the site for around a month now and learnt some really useful stuff that has helped me move forward from somewhat of a rut I've been stuck in for a while. I figured I would…Continue
"You've misidentified the problem. Laziness has nothing to do with overthinking.
You're not paralyzed by indecisiveness, the mark of overthinking. You're paralyzed by inertia ... the tendency of men at rest…"
"You don't describe yourself as a spoilt child, but you purely do have the earmarks of one. Coast through school, and now are having a life crisis at age 19?
The really old school advise would be to metaphorically give yourself a swift…"
"You could try being a bit more specific in writing down what you did or did not do during the day to accomplish your goal. For example, say you want to learn an instrument, and you set a goal to practice for 20 minutes a day. For me, being able to…"
"The art of doing without thinking and having confidence to do so come from experience and training in something multiple times. Everyone's parents are doing the best they know how to do. Sometimes parents can set their children back by trying…"
"I'm of the opinion that you really won't change until you REALLY want to change and then you'll find a way to do it.
If, and that's a big if, you really are interested in improving your effectiveness (note I didn't say…"
"Yeah that's good advice man thanks.
I keep a journal almost every day. The only problem for me is that I procrastinate through my journal! haha
I'll always be writing stuff I realise and want to do but carrying it out is a different…"
"I gave a similar bit of advice on another post recently on a similar topic. Keep a daily journal. There are a handful of articles on this website concerning the topic and I found it to be incredibly useful in keeping myself accountable. Determine…"
Hi ThereSo first of all I want to explain - Obviously the title is a little incorrect when read literally. I'm well aware that most actions should have some thought behind them, and failure to think things through before doing them can lead to rash decisions and impulsive actions that may harbour undesirable consequences.I simply ask really, is there any method behind becoming a man of action.I know many of the articles on here touch on this in one way or another, but I'm curious to learn more.…See More
"Well with my limited understanding of the music industry I think that degree will certainly help you set yourself up and not get ripped off by anyone. I'm working in Italy (Bolzano) teaching English, I teach the senior managers in an Italian…"
"Hey Liam. That's awesome! I went to Devon a few times when I was younger and loved beaches. Thanks man. I'm hoping the degree will help me out with my music (I'm a music producer) in the long run. Out of interest what are you doing…"
"I don't know why your post caught my eye, but I'm glad I read it. Kudos on the way you handled the situation and the way it transpired. Hope I can do as good a job if something similar comes up with my grandson."
My childhood past had a definite impact on my adult life: anxiety with some PTSD and ADD characteristics, communication and relationship challenges and a pervading sense of alienation and disconnect. But it has also been a gift. I see beyond what happens and understand the reasons and the emotional impact it can have. I am learning to step into the role of healer not just directed to my past and self but others around me. I can do this because I empathize but am no longer willing to carry…See More