Hi ThereSo first of all I want to explain - Obviously the title is a little incorrect when read literally. I'm well aware that most actions should have some thought behind them, and failure to think…Continue
Hello Guys. Been snooping the site for around a month now and learnt some really useful stuff that has helped me move forward from somewhat of a rut I've been stuck in for a while. I figured I would…Continue
"You've misidentified the problem. Laziness has nothing to do with overthinking.
You're not paralyzed by indecisiveness, the mark of overthinking. You're paralyzed by inertia ... the tendency of men at rest…"
"You don't describe yourself as a spoilt child, but you purely do have the earmarks of one. Coast through school, and now are having a life crisis at age 19?
The really old school advise would be to metaphorically give yourself a swift…"
"You could try being a bit more specific in writing down what you did or did not do during the day to accomplish your goal. For example, say you want to learn an instrument, and you set a goal to practice for 20 minutes a day. For me, being able to…"
"The art of doing without thinking and having confidence to do so come from experience and training in something multiple times. Everyone's parents are doing the best they know how to do. Sometimes parents can set their children back by trying…"
"Yeah that's good advice man thanks.
I keep a journal almost every day. The only problem for me is that I procrastinate through my journal! haha
I'll always be writing stuff I realise and want to do but carrying it out is a different…"
"I gave a similar bit of advice on another post recently on a similar topic. Keep a daily journal. There are a handful of articles on this website concerning the topic and I found it to be incredibly useful in keeping myself accountable. Determine…"
Hi ThereSo first of all I want to explain - Obviously the title is a little incorrect when read literally. I'm well aware that most actions should have some thought behind them, and failure to think things through before doing them can lead to rash decisions and impulsive actions that may harbour undesirable consequences.I simply ask really, is there any method behind becoming a man of action.I know many of the articles on here touch on this in one way or another, but I'm curious to learn more.…See More
"Well with my limited understanding of the music industry I think that degree will certainly help you set yourself up and not get ripped off by anyone. I'm working in Italy (Bolzano) teaching English, I teach the senior managers in an Italian…"
"Hey Liam. That's awesome! I went to Devon a few times when I was younger and loved beaches. Thanks man. I'm hoping the degree will help me out with my music (I'm a music producer) in the long run. Out of interest what are you doing…"
"Straight from one of the ladies I've been talking to. Compressed version: she works at a game store and finds that the major attitude is dismissive of her being any expert on the subject. Encourages teaching children about strong females in…"
Sometimes a man feels he needs to express things visually that aren't all that attractive. Respect for our thoughts and ideas are hard to come by in our current "politically correct" world. No need to be polite here. Show us what you got. It could be a drawing, painting, political cartoon, caricature -- any kind of art -- by you or someone else.See More
"Forget the books. Set an example by being the kind of man you would want your sister to end up with. And set the expectations (politely) for the live-in about how he needs to act in the home. Some rent, yard work, clean the bathrooms, etc. Not try…"
"I live in the Land of 10,000 lakes and grew up here fishing a number of them. Unfortunately, geography and the type of fish you're looking to catch plays a large role into how to fish. I don't have any experience in Nevada, so…"
"I'm well aware that this dynamic can exist between two men as well, I just thought that most of the guys here wouldn't have any insight on that situation, which I found equally confusing. I've never wanted anything like a male-female…"
"Thank you for the insight. I'm realizing that I value traditionally masculine attributes much more than traditionally feminine attributes like being supportive and nurturing, which never even occurred to me as something to view positively…"