"ok block it on your computer go to the gym see friends if you feel low see your DR
just work on things that are not making you happy it worked for me :) "
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Where to find a mentor? How to...
Started Jan 24 0 Replies 0 Likes
Hello all, I'm a guy 20 years old. I feel like I've ran down the mill. I live with my dad but with him we don't get along that well at times. So I'm really at a pinch where I feel lost without…Continue
Porn addicted, please help!
Started this discussion. Last reply by William Jan 29. 33 Replies 1 Like
It's a problem common for many young men. And I hope art of manliness might pick this problem up for the young men. However I'm addicted and I want to stop it's hard and though and I wondered if…Continue
Regarding necklaces rings and bracelets
Started this discussion. Last reply by Rebekah Oct 28, 2011. 24 Replies 0 Likes
Hello, I somehow do like to dress nicely, a nice blouse(seems like a language problem I meant shirt. But shirt is a thing without buttons with short sleeves is it not?). With nice shoes, and a nice…Continue
Good way to aproach a ladie ?
Started this discussion. Last reply by Mark Last Name Nov 8, 2010. 88 Replies 0 Likes
I'm trying to change my life but now I have one big problem which prevents me:When I see a nice looking lady, which from observation is kinda kind to other also, I always wonder why can't I talk to…Continue
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Tom replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"YOU MAY want to find a C-SAT; a Certified Sex-Addiction Therapist."
Salmon replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"Just don't watch. Either porn videos or pics. Try to avoid.
Be with a real women! If it's not real, don't do it.
You'll know that you are back to normal if you have an erection just by look at an attractive woman."
Joseph CB replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"Porn or any sort of sex addiction is a toughie...and I think all of us men must admit we have had to face it in one form or another. What make an individual more susceptible to porn than others? Who knows? But a good indicator that it has…"
Michael B. replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"Moods are part psychological, largely physiological.
The operative brain structure in addictions is the Nucleus accumbens, and the neurotransmitter involved is dopamine.
The physiological definition of addiction would be; an abnormal…"
Michael B. replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"The only problem is, modern addiction science and neurobiology completely disagree with you about "that addiction nonsense.... that's a cop-out."
And cold-turkey on porn is one of the rising methods for treatment of,…"
Mark Last Name posted a discussionWhere to find a mentor? How to...
Hello all, I'm a guy 20 years old. I feel like I've ran down the mill. I live with my dad but with him we don't get along that well at times. So I'm really at a pinch where I feel lost without purpose. It would be nice to have someone to push me, I live in the Netherlands here there's no mentor programs or something that I know off. I tried to find some salvation in the church and became a christian, but I'm still lost... I don't feel like I used my time/life well. I want to be like Maximus…See More
Mudinyeri replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"First, I think the term "addiction" gets thrown around quite a bit without the user really understanding its meaning. An addiction is "the continued use of a mood-altering substance or behavior despite adverse dependency…"
Settecase replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"Top three: (1) ACCOUNTABILITY--who else cares that you are doing this?
(2) Pursue authentic, meaningful and non-sexual relationships with women
(3) PRAY, PRAY, PRAY
(4) Read and pray through the Psalms, esp. 51
(5) You need a mentor, a married man…"
David F. replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"Further as life events change people, there will be times where sex will not be desired by the lady. What then?"
Rick Shelton replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"It doesn't matter, married, head-over-heels-in-love, or not. What the addiction is has nothing to do with the sight it has to do with the brain chemistry that comes with sexual pleasure, here I am assuming that when he looks at porn he is…"
David F. replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"Getting around such programs. Put OS on USB, boot from USB drive, skip the hard drive entirely. Or boot from DVD. Easy work a rounds.
Still such systems help. The key to dealing with any simulation that has gotten…"
Nathan DeParis replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"I read the one fro young men. That was a game changer for me. I don't think these guys are Catholic but honestly comparing this series with Christopher West's TOB, I saw minor differences but nothing really noticeable, which I was really…"
Matt J K replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"I have struggled a lot with porn addiction. I used to view it for hours every day. And I got totally, totally free, not viewing it for a few years. However, after undergoing some major life changes, I ended up back involved in it…"
Michael replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"But if they do not have self control, let them marry; for it is better to marry than to be inflamed.
Find a girl you can love AND that you like AND that shares the same outlook on children as you AND that shares the same outlook on finances as you,…"
Joe replied to Mark Last Name's discussion Porn addicted, please help!"I highly recommend this book: Every Man's Battle"
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Bill replied to Bill's discussion Shave of the Day - May 2013 in the group Wet Shaving (No Spam!)"Tuesday, 21 May 2013, Shaving Ritual
Razor: ’68 Slim Adjustable Gillette (Nickel) N4 (set on 7)
Blade: Gillette 7 O’clock Green (5)
Brush: Semogue 610
Cream: Unknown Soap
A/S:…"
Nick H replied to James Head's discussion Women, my curse!"I guess you have the freedom to choose hookers without needing to consider the social implications and thus not have to factor that into the final price. Sort of like how a burger is cheaper in North America than in Scandinavia."
Mike Wisbrock replied to Will's discussion Your sheeplike mind"Seems to me, a man's formative years, to an extent, try to condition him to that sheeplike mentality. In public school (the only thing I knew), aside from state-mandated courses, if one was not part of the accepted norm, one was derided,…"
"Matthew 6, I love those verses."
Jax replied to Bill's discussion Shave of the Day - May 2013 in the group Wet Shaving (No Spam!)"Hey everyone. Sorry for not posting more. Things have been really busy around here. Here is another catch-up post
Friday 5/17
Razor: Merkur 34c
Blade: Treet Classic Carbon Steel (3)
Brush: Semogue 1800
Soap/Cream: Van Der Hagen Luxury…"
"Funny, you bring up the Christmas tree as a positive memory for YOU, yet you deride people for looking out for their own pleasure in your next paragraph stating that this selfish nature is the cause of the downward spiral.
What is the…"
Carl Monster replied to Will's discussion Your sheeplike mind"I see myself as a sheep with no herd.
I've always kept away from mass behavior of any kind, structuring my life so I'm usually alone (or with my family) whether it be commuting to work (I have the road to myself), being on a…"
Will posted a discussionYour sheeplike mind
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/05/20/are-you-a-sheep-or-sheepdog-part-ii-8-reasons-youre-hardwired-for-sheepness/This helps explain a lot about the ganging-up phenomenon -- and helps me have less disdain for the gangers-up.Especially this bit:by this point I am sure a lot of you are like, “All of this just completely reinforced what a total sheepdog I am! I…See More
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