I have a good buddy who I'm worried about.We're both from similar backgrounds, being knockabout kids in our youth and growing up with some pretty bad guys around.He's grown up, has a great job, good…Continue
"It's tough, Meth has become so common here in Melbourne. It seems to have become more widely accepted.
Other drugs like cocaine are incredibly expensive here compared to the rest of the world so this seems to have filled a gap in the market.
"I opened this link expecting you to talk about your friend with a marijuana "problem". He has a job and seems to be able to support himself pretty well, so I was about to laugh and close the page until I saw the dreaded METH…"
"My deepest sypathy, my friend. Having been on both ends of this (having treated meth users as patients and having to deal with a problem of my own), the only real way is for him to crash, and hope he doesnt burn. You may be able to talk him out of…"
"Sound words David F.
Having been fooled around myself, I can comfortably say that neither my parents, siblings or friends could sway me at the time. I had to fall to stand up again. Once I decided to stand up again, that's when all the support…"
"I had a my best friend go the route of drugs. I did not. At one point we stopped hanging out because he just wanted to go hang out and get high. As I did not I was not much fun to be with anymore.
Tell him what you told us about…"
"In a nutshell, that's pretty much it. Beyond what Shane said here, it's neither your business, your responsibility, your place or your right.
Let him know that he is wasting his life, enabling his girlfriend to throw…"
"Pretty good advice Milo,
I think his use has been becoming more regular since Christmas/New Years. He's financially very stable and it's a cheap drug here so there's not the fear of the immediate financial issues that would be faced…"
"Here are some things that I think you should consider.
- Remember that there is a big difference between being "judgmental," and being analytical.
- Is he just experimenting, or has this gone beyond experimentation and into addiction?
"If you just want a job to get some cash coming in, there's always several industries with a high level of staff turnover you could look at.
Identify them (where I studied it was caring for people with disabilities and food packing. Both…"
I have a good buddy who I'm worried about.We're both from similar backgrounds, being knockabout kids in our youth and growing up with some pretty bad guys around.He's grown up, has a great job, good apartment, financially very secure.He had a girlfriend that kept focused finanacially, but provided no love or emotional support. They broke up, he has a new girlfriend who's lovely, but less motivated and he now enjoys a lot more freedom.This means some old friends are back in his life, they just…See More
"Finding a good housemate is always a challenge regardless of gender.
Focus on what you want in a housemate first, try to align this with what you will need to succeed in you study and how to meet other goals you may have.
Write it down! Keep this…"
"As a side bar, I was told years ago that when Playgirl magazine was first published, men for the first time got to feel what it's been like for women forever it seems. (No one of either gender can compete with the perfect air-brushed…"
""I'll also add: if there needs to be a change, the leaders of the change should be members of the group. For self-appointed guardians to decide for other ethnicities what they should be offended by seems pretty demeaning."
"The whole "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" thing is B.S. I remember meeting a woman in her 80s a few years ago who shared with me that when she was a child she was called ugly, and that stuck with…"
"Those times when I hear (even in the 21st century!) someone use "Jew" as a verb really upsets me (I am not Jewish). C'mon, people. "The times, they are a-changin' " is the truth, and many of those changes…"
""White became... white."
Depends who you ask. Some people prefer Caucasian. (Even though it's not technically correct most of the time.) Some people prefer American of European ancestry. Some people prefer white. Some people…"
"On the topic of education, particularly post-secondary education, I just want to point out that my wife's law degree probably cost her less than 15,000 CAD in total. (Including her undergrad!) She graduated in more or less 2007 I think.…"
Thanks for the reply, its good having a female perspective on this. I've been with her about 5 years so I know about the 'up in arms about every little thing' issue haha.
On a serious note, I don't think her mum realised…"
[I]n the past fifty years, education costs have doubled, college costs have dectupled, health insurance costs have dectupled, subway costs have at least dectupled, and housing costs have increased by about fifty percent. US health care costs about four times as much as equivalent health care in other First World countries; US subways cost about eight times as much as equivalent subways in other First World countries...[A]ll of the numbers above are inflation-adjusted....And this is especially…See More