I have a good buddy who I'm worried about.We're both from similar backgrounds, being knockabout kids in our youth and growing up with some pretty bad guys around.He's grown up, has a great job, good…Continue
"It's tough, Meth has become so common here in Melbourne. It seems to have become more widely accepted.
Other drugs like cocaine are incredibly expensive here compared to the rest of the world so this seems to have filled a gap in the market.
"I opened this link expecting you to talk about your friend with a marijuana "problem". He has a job and seems to be able to support himself pretty well, so I was about to laugh and close the page until I saw the dreaded METH…"
"My deepest sypathy, my friend. Having been on both ends of this (having treated meth users as patients and having to deal with a problem of my own), the only real way is for him to crash, and hope he doesnt burn. You may be able to talk him out of…"
"Sound words David F.
Having been fooled around myself, I can comfortably say that neither my parents, siblings or friends could sway me at the time. I had to fall to stand up again. Once I decided to stand up again, that's when all the support…"
"I had a my best friend go the route of drugs. I did not. At one point we stopped hanging out because he just wanted to go hang out and get high. As I did not I was not much fun to be with anymore.
Tell him what you told us about…"
"In a nutshell, that's pretty much it. Beyond what Shane said here, it's neither your business, your responsibility, your place or your right.
Let him know that he is wasting his life, enabling his girlfriend to throw…"
"Pretty good advice Milo,
I think his use has been becoming more regular since Christmas/New Years. He's financially very stable and it's a cheap drug here so there's not the fear of the immediate financial issues that would be faced…"
"Here are some things that I think you should consider.
- Remember that there is a big difference between being "judgmental," and being analytical.
- Is he just experimenting, or has this gone beyond experimentation and into addiction?
"If you just want a job to get some cash coming in, there's always several industries with a high level of staff turnover you could look at.
Identify them (where I studied it was caring for people with disabilities and food packing. Both…"
I have a good buddy who I'm worried about.We're both from similar backgrounds, being knockabout kids in our youth and growing up with some pretty bad guys around.He's grown up, has a great job, good apartment, financially very secure.He had a girlfriend that kept focused finanacially, but provided no love or emotional support. They broke up, he has a new girlfriend who's lovely, but less motivated and he now enjoys a lot more freedom.This means some old friends are back in his life, they just…See More
"Finding a good housemate is always a challenge regardless of gender.
Focus on what you want in a housemate first, try to align this with what you will need to succeed in you study and how to meet other goals you may have.
Write it down! Keep this…"
"Good analysis David. There have been times when I have thought how wonderful it was that God said "no" to something. He cares for each of us and we have to entrust that He knows what is best. We may not understand why…"
We frequently hear stories of how an extremely important need was "saved" after prayer, such asShe was near death but we prayed for her and she lived.Our marriage almost fell apart but we prayed and God saved our marriage.My job was nearing being taken from me but we prayed and God saved my job.But if we think of God as a Father, any parent does not always say, "Yes" when a request is made. Sometimes a parent says, "No," and sometimes a parent says, "Not now," and sometimes a parent says,…See More
"For what it's worth, God gave us the ability to figure out how to do all kinds of things that are wrong. That we discovered the ability to do it doesn't necessarily mean it isn't "automatically wrong".
To answer the…"
"I was hoping she did but no. I don't even think it should matter, it's still me asking her out no matter how I do it. Wish I could've known. So there's 0 chance now? Calling her after getting a no through text probably won't…"
"Sounds like you and your dad need to listen to your Johnny Cash singing about his Cadillac
My view on the whole thing though is that if God gave us the ability to figure this stuff out, then it can't automatically be wrong. For a discussion…"
"In that case I share your beliefs and concerns. As I too would worry about that being, being an empty shell. I see no way that a truly "artificial being" could possess a soul, and that is truly what worries me more than just…"