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Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend

Started this discussion. Last reply by Steven Carpenter Aug 11, 2013. 24 Replies

Okay, first off, no abuse please. I find men are quite touchy about when a man complains about this, under the impression that the said man is 'ungrateful', or 'has something wrong with him'. So…Continue

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Steven Carpenter replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"Spice it up! Read She Comes First. Cunnilingus will add some fire with restraint. I'm for real!"
Aug 11, 2013
The Dutch Dastard replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"This.... Even as a young guy i've had some periods of low libido, even to the point of not wanting to have sex at all. For me the reason was pure stress..... Stress about other things, or stress about the relationship itself. Please don't…"
Aug 11, 2013
Rick in NY replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"I'm glad I found this thread. I've been dating my GF for nearly three years. I'm one lucky guy  She's absolutely terrific. We live together, best friends, you name it. I think she's beautiful and sexy and I could easily…"
Aug 11, 2013
Adrian Miranda replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"perhaps as already mentioned, start dating again.  have some intrigue, go out for a nice dinner and get a room for the night, make the reservations and pick up the key prior to the date night."
Jul 23, 2013
Paralytic Poison replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"This does not sound good! Of course, go ahead and talk with her, as others very well suggested! If you two manage to get some comunication on the matter, I'm sure you can have a much better sex life. 3 years is a big relationship and not having…"
Jul 7, 2013
Claude replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"I just meant to generalize that eating healthier could lead to stronger drive.  Not based on anything, honestly.  I'm just currently trying to be healthier and less meat is part of my choice. "
Jul 5, 2013
Combover replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"My 2 pence: I had a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend. She was gorgeous and  we were both into eachother, both physically fit and had plenty of opportunity. It just didn't happen - for quite a while.  We eventually put it down…"
Jul 5, 2013
Jack Bauer replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"Kinda hoping the meat-as-libido-suppressant thing is true.  I'm very carnivorous, and the wife can barely satiate me as it is ... I rather like the idea that this is me with my libido 'suppressed'.  Heh.   JB"
Jul 3, 2013
Alan Andrews replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"Same here.  That goes opposite to what I've studied and experienced recently."
Jul 3, 2013
Liam replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"Claude on what basis does eating less meat raise your libido? That isn't something I have heard before. Definitely agree about cutting out porn. "
Jul 3, 2013
Claude replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"Lack of drive could be a result of diet.  Less meat, more veggies and fruit, and you might see a difference.  Also, if you look at porn, stop.  I don't think I had an addiction, but I gave up looking at porn at my wife's…"
Jul 3, 2013
Chad H replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"I agree with most of the things said. The macho man talk you have heard most of your life has led to you thinking there is something wrong.. which might be the case or it could be something normal such as when the new wears off passion is not self…"
Jul 3, 2013
David F. replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"I agree with Allen. My take is as follows. Congratulations on being with her for three years.  Your hormones are probably changing to more of a married state.  You need to talk to her about what is going on.  Be clear that this is not…"
Jul 3, 2013
Matt Eo replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"Talk to her about what's going on or you will both just be frustrated.  In my own experience, stress at work, lack of sleep (Why am up right now? This is the last thread I am commenting on...), and lack of working out regularly usually…"
Jul 3, 2013
Carl Monster replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"No abuse from me; totally empathize with your situation.  Sometimes many physical things that are supposed to be pleasurable just annoy the hell of out me; eating and sex included. It's usually a sign some I'm stressed/freaked out…"
Jul 2, 2013
Travis Spuhler replied to Marcus Henderson's discussion Can't be bothered to have sex with girlfriend
"Umm, sounds to me like you're not dating her, you're married to her. Lol, trust me man, we all get there eventually. Depending on her, and the timing you bring it up, as others have said, talking things through, changing things up, etc.…"
Jul 2, 2013

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