"It sounds a little like you're having trouble talking to guys that you know are straight. It could just be nerves. I was one of the only openly gay guys when I joined my fraternity in college and spending a couple years living in a house with…"
"I think the temptation is to fit others, in this case women, into our framework. We tend to think "passive" is bad (I sure do), but my wife does not have "passive" as a bad word in her way of thinking. (Irresponsible,…"
"Thank you for the reply. I realize that different people are attracted to different people, but I'm just trying to get inside the head of people who are attracted to the type of woman who, on the surface, appears passive. Trying to…"