I've been with this girl for 14 months. She moved in with me and my family to get away from her abusive / neglectful family. We took her in and provided for her the things her family wouldn't even…Continue
"That's right. Get out, and spend time with your family and friends, and give them your attention. Get out of your own head for a while. It will be a relief, and it will stop you from brooding over things in an unhelpful frame of mind. BTW,…"
"First, nothing will make it go away quickly. If you were someone who could get over her in a day, you'd be someone who didn't love deeply. Celebrate the way you miss her -- and hope you don't lose that loving nature.
"I appreciate all the advice and Rob you hit the nail on the head.
It's been a day and it's slightly better. The biggest problem, as my mom even put it, is that she's a habit. Waking up and not seeing her is really hard, as is…"
"As many have said: Embrace the hurt. I've come from a long and painful relationship and somehow I did not let it affect me much. It was so very wrong.... Allow yourself to be miserable and angry. Be angry at the situation. Do whatever…"
"Sorry to hear about your hurt, Bud.
It sounds as though this relationship was doomed from the start. From what you have said about her past, she is likely to have entered your life with problems that needed to be resolved before she was ready for a…"
"Good tips so far. And I have found that handling the emotions head on as opposed to fighting them has truly helped. That, and as others said, time. It's still just hard to let it be when we've been through so much and shared so much. I…"
"Your words remind me exactly of this song. Sometimes a sad song is healing.
Feeling this way happens after breakups. I know it did for me. In terms of hard advice, one thing you have to realize is that she's an adult and will make her own…"
"For the time being, get angry, cry, listen to music that reminds you. It is going to hurt no matter what. Embrace it for a week or so, don't fight it. Allow yourself some time to deal with it, then set a schedule of what you want to change and…"
"So you would agree that a father should be paid less than a childless man? Afterall - 52% of men still showed up on that research as "having a job and family is difficult."
Does "it's difficult" mean that they necessarily…"
"It shows that women have a harder time holding a job while raising a family than men do. fwiw, my original statement that you quoted used intentionally general terms, to make it about mothers compared to non-mothers, instead of mothers compared to…"
As one who desires to honor God's decision in giving me the XY chromosome, I'm pretty curious, when has the goal of manhood been successfully achieved, when has one successfully proven that he is a man? How can a young man know, that he is a real, masculine man, God's idea of masculinity? Can a man without a girlfriend be a real man? Can he fulfill his expectations as a man without being in a relationship? Or is he trapped in childhood until he officially has a girlfriend?I have often…See More
"Speaking of, I was stuck watching last night on NBC. My God, they're a bunch of pinheads. I would convey an exaggerated imitation of Tom Brokaw on here if it were possible, so please mentally insert that into this post."
"Ok, I'll give her that, but what if it's not some type of sexism, just good business. Why should I have to pay a woman who isn't as profitable to me because she is distracted as much as I pay someone whose work is focused and…"