I've been with this girl for 14 months. She moved in with me and my family to get away from her abusive / neglectful family. We took her in and provided for her the things her family wouldn't even…Continue
"That's right. Get out, and spend time with your family and friends, and give them your attention. Get out of your own head for a while. It will be a relief, and it will stop you from brooding over things in an unhelpful frame of mind. BTW,…"
"First, nothing will make it go away quickly. If you were someone who could get over her in a day, you'd be someone who didn't love deeply. Celebrate the way you miss her -- and hope you don't lose that loving nature.
"I appreciate all the advice and Rob you hit the nail on the head.
It's been a day and it's slightly better. The biggest problem, as my mom even put it, is that she's a habit. Waking up and not seeing her is really hard, as is…"
"As many have said: Embrace the hurt. I've come from a long and painful relationship and somehow I did not let it affect me much. It was so very wrong.... Allow yourself to be miserable and angry. Be angry at the situation. Do whatever…"
"Sorry to hear about your hurt, Bud.
It sounds as though this relationship was doomed from the start. From what you have said about her past, she is likely to have entered your life with problems that needed to be resolved before she was ready for a…"
"Good tips so far. And I have found that handling the emotions head on as opposed to fighting them has truly helped. That, and as others said, time. It's still just hard to let it be when we've been through so much and shared so much. I…"
"Your words remind me exactly of this song. Sometimes a sad song is healing.
Feeling this way happens after breakups. I know it did for me. In terms of hard advice, one thing you have to realize is that she's an adult and will make her own…"
"For the time being, get angry, cry, listen to music that reminds you. It is going to hurt no matter what. Embrace it for a week or so, don't fight it. Allow yourself some time to deal with it, then set a schedule of what you want to change and…"
"There's an aweful lot to unpack in the story.
Didjya know the Lentil Soup meal has significance?
It was a mourning meal
every word in the story has significance.... the lineage of the characters before and after has significance....…"
""The Amalekites were descended from Esau. Esau gave up his birthright for a bowl of soup"
In his defense, he was starving. Jacob could have just given him the fucking soup. Jacob also tricks his dad so that he (Jacob) got the…"
""Ritual train" isn't the official term, I'm sure, but I'm pretty sure you get my drift. In the movie, each priest from the local temple got a turn.
In the movie, you could tell that the mom was very sad about what was…"
" I can see how promiscuity with proper health education can be liberating and not damaging psychologically. No moral guilt for self pleasure or sharing pleasure with a partner. Removing this guilt allows couples to find joyful ways…"
"Consider the different heritages of the different city states:
The Amalekites were descended from Esau. Esau gave up his birthright for a bowl of soup, and cast his lot with the Ishmaelites. In the old testament, the Amalekites are symbolic of…"
" I had my 1st rectal & psa blood taken at 49. I had no symptoms, just wanted 2 get it done. I heard so many horror stories. My psa was .9, so I thought that all was ok. My doctor told me that he wanted me 2 have a biopsy. It took 2 weeks 2…"