I've been with this girl for 14 months. She moved in with me and my family to get away from her abusive / neglectful family. We took her in and provided for her the things her family wouldn't even…Continue
"That's right. Get out, and spend time with your family and friends, and give them your attention. Get out of your own head for a while. It will be a relief, and it will stop you from brooding over things in an unhelpful frame of mind. BTW,…"
"First, nothing will make it go away quickly. If you were someone who could get over her in a day, you'd be someone who didn't love deeply. Celebrate the way you miss her -- and hope you don't lose that loving nature.
"I appreciate all the advice and Rob you hit the nail on the head.
It's been a day and it's slightly better. The biggest problem, as my mom even put it, is that she's a habit. Waking up and not seeing her is really hard, as is…"
"As many have said: Embrace the hurt. I've come from a long and painful relationship and somehow I did not let it affect me much. It was so very wrong.... Allow yourself to be miserable and angry. Be angry at the situation. Do whatever…"
"Sorry to hear about your hurt, Bud.
It sounds as though this relationship was doomed from the start. From what you have said about her past, she is likely to have entered your life with problems that needed to be resolved before she was ready for a…"
"Good tips so far. And I have found that handling the emotions head on as opposed to fighting them has truly helped. That, and as others said, time. It's still just hard to let it be when we've been through so much and shared so much. I…"
"Your words remind me exactly of this song. Sometimes a sad song is healing.
Feeling this way happens after breakups. I know it did for me. In terms of hard advice, one thing you have to realize is that she's an adult and will make her own…"
"For the time being, get angry, cry, listen to music that reminds you. It is going to hurt no matter what. Embrace it for a week or so, don't fight it. Allow yourself some time to deal with it, then set a schedule of what you want to change and…"
"That wasn't really the system last year. People were allowed to use the restroom of whatever sex they looked like ... not of whatever they were 'comfortable with'. It was more about what others were comfortable with. …"
"A tyranny of the majority actually is better than a tyranny of the minority. No tyranny at all would be preferable ... but, with a tyranny of the majority, at least most people are on board. With a tyranny of the minority, most people…"
"This is exactly what I don't get. Did I miss something major in the news over the last year or something? I don't understand why all of a sudden what bathroom Transgender individuals use is all of a sudden an issue. Has…"
"If that's not a defense of the status quo, what would be? What can people who don't want men to be allowed in the ladies' room do to keep that status quo? How would you write the 'status quo' into a written rule…"
"Thanks great points. I should have said the reason I know my son has a 60% shot at learning disabilities is because I have them, Dyslexia and ADD. So we are looking for them but also trying not to jump to the idea that he does have it.…"