• Blog Posts
  • Discussions (33)
  • Groups
  • Photos
  • Photo Albums
  • Videos

Justin's Discussions

She's too friendly

Started this discussion. Last reply by JonEdanger Jan 8. 150 Replies

Hey, so I've got sort of a confusing situation with a girl. I've been going to a Swing dancing group for a year now, and there's a girl I'd often seen there but never talked to. But a few weeks ago I…Continue

Conflicting Signals

Started this discussion. Last reply by Justin Oct 22, 2013. 8 Replies

Hello everyone. So I have a bit of a confusing situation. For the past few months I've been talking to a girl more and more often. We've known each other for a few years, and have a bit of a history.…Continue

 

Justin's Page

Latest Activity

Boondocker replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"Yes, I know exactly what is going on.  You are stuck in your head trying to "figure things out" when you should be talking to her and telling her the truth.  People are far to complex to be figured out by others.  Talk to…"
Jan 8
Benjamin Edward replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"I'm a Christian myself and grew up in fundamentalist Christian circles... therefore I've seen a lot of awkward guy/girl interactions. She probably things you're too nice... a lot of Christian guys are.  But a cursory reading of…"
Jan 8
Kluk J. replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"I liked the quote from Tolkien. I don't know if there's the one, but certainly, with certain ones, we need to do less effort to things go well =D"
Jan 5
Nathanael replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"Maybe, but it would be better still to be neither an aloof partial asshole nor desperate/overeager."
Jan 5
MDBuss replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"Maybe. But in my experience, it works. Not saying he should be a total asshole, just that an aloof approach is more likely to succeed than coming off as desperate/overeager. "
Jan 5
Nathanael replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"But what I described is hardly how the "One" is commonly understood.  It is understood to be someone out there, somewhere, who a person is "meant" to be with, who will be an ideal fit for them, who one will never fall out of…"
Jan 5
Michael D. Denny replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"Nathanael, the dumbass here is you.   You just described what makes the "One" the one.  Dumbass. "
Jan 5
Mark replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"If you like her then ask her out, and if you do not turn out to like her then just leave her alone or stay friends"
Jan 5
Pale Horse replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"My uncle says he hates LaForge because he doesn't have to bang on the engine and cuss at it like Scotty. :P"
Jan 4
Nathanael replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"I know your comment was for Justin, but since you're spreading stupid ideas on a public forum, I felt free to comment.  The concept is bullshit.  It makes no sense from a naturalistic perspective, and fares little better in most…"
Jan 4
Thor Heyerdahl replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
">Pic Related "
Jan 4
Jérôme Denis Andre replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
">Advicing to look into PUA for establishing a commited, loving LT relationship. No, I think if at all, then you are the troll here. PUA will ... might (it mainly seems a numbers game) work with a drunk girl in a bar. But every woman of decent…"
Jan 4
Jérôme Denis Andre replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"How about beeing in a comitted relationship, without having married, and having a loving partner at your side?Dude ... What you have wrote here is essentially why I, as a german, really have a problem with the US concept of "dating".…"
Jan 4
Nathanael replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"Internet players are hilarious."
Jan 4
Nathanael replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"There is no One, dumbass. "
Jan 4
MDBuss replied to Justin's discussion She's too friendly
"You need to make yourself a valuable commodity - show her that you're not a lapdog that will follow her everywhere. Don't return her phone calls (or Snapchats (?) or whatever), make a date and cancel last minute etc.. Girls have no…"
Jan 3

Comment Wall

You need to be a member of Art of Manliness to add comments!

Join Art of Manliness

  • No comments yet!
 
 
 

Latest Activity

Will replied to Rafael's discussion Explain this anti-rape add to me, please
"Yeah, I'm more careful too. I want to make"
9 minutes ago
Will replied to Rafael's discussion Explain this anti-rape add to me, please
"Statistically, she was at greater risk. Per Wikipedia, female on male rapes account for 0.2% of rapes in the US. I couldn't find how many homosexual rapes there were, but there's no way it's the majority.  So she's be…"
14 minutes ago
Alifianto Adi Nugroho updated their profile
17 minutes ago
Penelope replied to Rafael's discussion Explain this anti-rape add to me, please
"Yeah.  I don't know how much of it is gender issues and how much is other issues my husband has.  But it makes sense to me that at least some new husbands have to learn to remember that their wives shouldn't be alone everywhere…"
17 minutes ago
Steve Dallas replied to Rafael's discussion Explain this anti-rape add to me, please
"Back before the wife I was doing the whole online dating thing. I can think of 3 dates where the girl showed up with a friend. One time I asked the friend to let me buy her a drink, she left after that. Another time the friend never left, and the…"
25 minutes ago
Wes Johnson joined Jeff Bates's group
Thumbnail

Manly Camping

A discussion place for all things camping...equipment, advice, cooking, tips, recommendations, etc.
26 minutes ago
Wes Johnson joined Dwane Lay's group
Thumbnail

Book of the Month

Each month, a book will be selected by the members to be read and discussed. The image for the group will be updated with the cover of the current book selection.See More
27 minutes ago
Nathanael replied to Rafael's discussion Explain this anti-rape add to me, please
"That seems odd to me.  I tend to be a good deal more protective/paranoid when my wife is around, especially at night or in unsafe areas."
28 minutes ago

© 2014   Created by Brett McKay.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service