Joseph Oldman
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How do I leave a bad group of friends?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Liam Nov 10, 2013. 19 Replies

I'l give you guys a bit of a back story, right now i'm at a point in my life where the only friends I have take advantage of me and even thought I help them every day they never do anything in…Continue

 

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Liam replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"Joseph, I assume from one of your other posts that you've left school and haven't gone to sixth form? I know when you've first left school finding friends can seem a bit daunting but it needn't be. You need to create a lifestyle…"
Nov 10, 2013
Michael D. Denny replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"Get out more. Church, charities, your local VFD, etc. "
Nov 9, 2013
Thomas replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"Another course of action: the next time one of these parasites ask for for a favor, tell him "No" point blank. When he asks why, remind of how he still owes you for all the other stuff you've done for him.  You never know, it…"
Nov 9, 2013
Milo Morris replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"The Scottish are great. And they're white. I'm rather fond of them."
Nov 9, 2013
Joseph Oldman replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"Thanks for the ideas guys, just what I was looking for."
Nov 9, 2013
Ricky replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"i have to say -- There are no victims only volunteers - Just for in the future, you shouldn't give money or do favors under the assumption that you will be paid back in kind. It just a resentment waiting to happen. If you can't do it…"
Nov 8, 2013
David F. replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"You said you where out of High School. When and where do you meet up with them.  If it is after hours, plan other things to do.  Change the places you hang out.  When they ask to meet up have other plans and don't tell them…"
Nov 8, 2013
Regular Joe replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"Get a job Volunteer Join a club Register for social or athletic activities Join a fraternal organization Join a team Got a favourite sports team? Join a supporters club. These are all ways to meet people who aren't part of your current group…"
Nov 8, 2013
Rick Shelton replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"Are there other interest groups you could join?  In the US there are hiking, biking, running, work-out, church, religious, art, business, cooking, as well as other types of groups one can join and then there are the fraternal groups such as…"
Nov 8, 2013
Rick Shelton replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"'great white north', would that be Scotland?  Not good for the Scots."
Nov 8, 2013
Joseph Oldman replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"Thanks, those are good ideas, just what I was looking for. In regards with your first point I understand what you mean, problem is that when I was in a bad situation and asked my friends for help they simply refused, I feel that maybe they should…"
Nov 8, 2013
Joseph Oldman replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"Thanks for the support. "
Nov 8, 2013
Will replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"I can propose a few ideas: * Look into whether friendship is about getting people to return favors.  I don't think it is. * ...but it still may be that your friends are now people you don't like and don't find to be good…"
Nov 8, 2013
Joseph Oldman replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"I'm 17 but live in the UK where you leave high school at the age of 16 so I can't make friends there. "
Nov 8, 2013
Mike Smith replied to Joseph Oldman's discussion How do I leave a bad group of friends?
"I'd very much like a response to this myself. I also live in an area where most young men and women move away almost immediately after high school if they can which makes dating and group bonding tricky. The friends I do have have gotten used…"
Nov 8, 2013
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How do I leave a bad group of friends?

I'l give you guys a bit of a back story, right now i'm at a point in my life where the only friends I have take advantage of me and even thought I help them every day they never do anything in return. I am sick of this situation, and I just want to leave this group of friends and never see them again. The problem is I have literally no other friends and where I live there isn't that many places to make new friends. What do you guys think I should do? Thanks in advance.See More
Nov 8, 2013

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