"I was just in Los Angeles for a 3-day solo vacation over MLK weekend. One thing I wanted to do was make it a bit of a spa sampler as it's winter and good men's spas don't really exist in the Midwest. I went…"
Though they aren't common in the United States, Jjimjilbangs, Banyas, Onsens, and Hamams are a great places to hang out. This is a group for men comfortable in their own skin and appreciate the eastern ideas of public bath houses.See More
"I attended an i-Group Wednesday night and I have a question for you guys. One thing I'm looking for in my life is brothers,I want to be transparent in my friendships but also experience a fair amount of camaderie -…"
"Very happy you were "on", and glad to help!
Did you make any meaningful reconnections at this?
I've been "on" for several decades now, I project such a good show someone last year called me Golden Boy.
I keep my true self…"
Maybe the same here. My earliest memories on the playground included the feeling WTF is wrong with me?
I just had it rubbed in my face this week, so it's been on my mind more than usual lately."
"Morning Carl. I've really struggled with this one this week. I feel also that whatever it is that I do, it becomes self-fulfilling.
I don't know what the hell they did to me before I was old enough to…"
"I understand where you're coming from but when I read the responses I wondered if my issue was an attraction of males (non-blacks) or if it was something else....embarrassingly enough at a party...I danced with an Asian dude that's too…"
"I used to draw or invest my time in art, however, I failed several classes due to absence. My teacher loved my work. He told me that I used simple dots and circles in one of the most cryptic ways he's ever seen, and ever since I failed art (and…"
"Eh, blocking him in the chat was a recent development. Yes, I know, he was an arty officer in the Marines and now he teaches Greek. But, I still think he is a dickwad, and that's why I put him on ignore. I still see what he posts on…"
"Ameretta, what do you do that brings you joy and gets you around people? Forget about men right now. Concentrate on being with all kinds of people doing interesting things. I'm not making light of your predicament, trust me on…"