"I was just in Los Angeles for a 3-day solo vacation over MLK weekend. One thing I wanted to do was make it a bit of a spa sampler as it's winter and good men's spas don't really exist in the Midwest. I went…"
Though they aren't common in the United States, Jjimjilbangs, Banyas, Onsens, and Hamams are a great places to hang out. This is a group for men comfortable in their own skin and appreciate the eastern ideas of public bath houses.See More
"I attended an i-Group Wednesday night and I have a question for you guys. One thing I'm looking for in my life is brothers,I want to be transparent in my friendships but also experience a fair amount of camaderie -…"
"Very happy you were "on", and glad to help!
Did you make any meaningful reconnections at this?
I've been "on" for several decades now, I project such a good show someone last year called me Golden Boy.
I keep my true self…"
Maybe the same here. My earliest memories on the playground included the feeling WTF is wrong with me?
I just had it rubbed in my face this week, so it's been on my mind more than usual lately."
"Morning Carl. I've really struggled with this one this week. I feel also that whatever it is that I do, it becomes self-fulfilling.
I don't know what the hell they did to me before I was old enough to…"
"Just a man? I find women equally worth consulting; they bring their own perspective and can actually be more analytic in a confrontational decision as there's no testosterone getting in the way of their judgement."
"How do I make difficult decisions? Most people say they make decisions based on logic but I find that not to be the case. Humans are not rational they rationalize, they make decisions based on their feelings and rationalize it to…"
"Difficult decisions? For me it's a balance of gut and brain, facts and feelings.
Also bouncing my decision off a very few trusted advisor/friends.
Connections? Volunteer. Volunteer up the wazoo. There IS so much to be done, and you'll meet…"