"Be proactive. Do not set aside and let this fall into a friend zone as men so often do. Let her know that you have both emotional and physical attraction to her and that you want to be more than friends. Taking it slow is fine. Become comfortable…"
"Iron sharpens iron." A place for men to impact each other by debate and exchange of ideas. This is a group where no ideas are off limits. If your motto is, "I never talk about politics or religion," this group is probably not for you. A "gym" for thinkers.See More
"Incidentally, you mentioned "very depressed." If that is the case, you do need to see a professional.
Remember: depression is a complex medical condition which affects multiple systems and processes. ONE symptom of depression is that it…"
"A) There is no "foolproof" way. Humans are all individuals, and we all have different motivators. Therefore, none of us can present you with a foolproof way.
B) Ask yourself: "Who is an expert in tweaking personality traits?"…"
"Re: "school kills...creativity:"
After one has mastered the task at hand, the student can be as creative with the skill as possible. But, while learning the task, it is a necessary fact that the learning be very controlled (appearing less…"
The older I get the less time I want to be around / spend time with / listen to / talk with / argue with / Fs and Is. Any more I give them a courtesy listen then move on. This includes guys at work and even some former friends. I guess I just don't care that much anymore. Yes, I have a wide variety of friends. I just feel I want my life to be a little more contented. BTW It seems like it is almost always men. Life is not always hard but it can often be difficult.See More
"I feel like school kills most of any sort of creativity, even in those classes, and I only did the bare minimum to pass. I did okay in those classes, but wasn't particularly interested in them due to the structure. But my opinion is that modern…"