"John Smith, it's not a big thing to organize home actually I want to appreciate you about your interest in maintaining the home because most people I am talking about "MALES" we do not do home chores because we have our own jobs and…"
"I second the Power of Now. You don't even have to read the whole book to grasp the idea - that it all - everything, is right here right now, The past the future are all distractions.
Stay in the moment and enjoy all that it…"
"Well put, JB. I remember well when I was put into my very first leadership position (assistant manager at a fast food restaurant) that was over those who had been my peers. I was not at all confident those I had joked around and partied…"
"Confidence is earned. Do things that scare you, and they will scare you less-and-less every time. There's no shortcut. There's no way to become confident without being uncomfortable. There's no way to become unafraid without standing…"
"I really appreciate the feedback on this issue, guys. Thank you.
You're all correct in saying that there's a lot of nuance here: a lot of this is about personality, upbringing, and temperament.
What I'm looking for is a quiet,…"
"This is a very loaded question and a good one. Can you really change the way in which you were raised, and is there anything truly wrong with being a conflict avoidance type of person.
In my opinion avoiding conflict can lead to never…"
"I don't know if iam to one to speak for that, since my method of solving conflicts is in 90% of the time to solve them in a kind/cooperative way.
First of all think about, what you actually want to achieve when entering a conflict.…"
"If you find out please let me know.
I find it way more than an intellectual exercise, or a matter of practice, like mastering chess or a strong backhand.
Needs to go way deeper in the psyche, with roots that go way down to the original programming…"
"Not sure if those two examples are the same thing. In the DMV I'm guessing you didn't want to risk having the guy fight you. In the second you're upset because you aren't assertive enough.
If the first is your issue then maybe…"
Gentlemen,I grew up in a household where I didn't see conflict modeled in healthy, open ways. "Conflict avoiders" would be the best way to describe my family. As such, I'm a very "nice guy" and while I'm by no means a total push-over, I have noticed a frustrating pattern in my life:When faced with conflict, my knee-jerk is to avoid it.Here's an example: I'm standing line at the DMV the other day and a man is blaring his cell phone...talk radio. It was annoying everybody around and I immediately…See More
"As far as life coaches Tony Robbins is bar none, top tier, the best. As a writer, he's meh...okay. Watch his old, old stuff on youtube where he's like 20 something years old whereing a full suit with suspenders, it's much better than…"
I recently watched the Netflix documentary on Tony Robbins ("I am not your guru"). It was my first introduction to him. I would be curious to hear if anyone of you have read any of his books? I was particularly struck by his confidence and ability to be completely vulnerable while maintaining strength. Would love to hear your experience with Tony if you've had any.See More
"Man, I definitely hear you on this... it takes a while to overcome.
Two quick recommendations for you:
1. Set up an "inbox" system. Basically, it's just a box or a tray - if you leave stuff everywhere, you or your wife just puts it…"
"First learn to put your dishes in the sink. It takes less time then handling it twice.
Next organize your stuff. Find a place for it. Designate it and get used to putting it back. Its hard to build the habit to put your stuff…"
"Understandably? Why understandably? I can think of plenty of sub-cultures in similar situations that nonetheless welcome noobies so long as the latter demonstrate a certain respect in regards to the sub-culture itself."
"I have always been on the skinny side. I just end up with an extra layer on. It may just be a simple fact that you need a few extra layers.
As to friends drifting away. I hit that when my son was born. All my friends did not…"
There is also, understandably, a culture of exclusion in most fandom-type groups, against great numbers of incoming "fans." Nobody wants their hobby invaded by poseurs and wannabes. This is exacerbated when those wannabes not only think…"
"I admit I don't know anything about that. But the movie, on its own, was simply terrible. Not terrible because it was cramming feminism down anyone's throat, though, because IMO that never happened at any point in the movie. It was just…"
"With GB, the politics was in the choice of director and the casting, and in the extra-curricular statements and press. Not in the script. Mostly. It certainly wasn't an "assumption", though. It was said outright.
"For the last several months, I've been listening to music from an organization named "Playing For Change".
They promote music education around the world, and cultural interaction. They have a program called "Songs Around The…"
""* Politics is a story-killer. Stories prosper when they're about characters, not when those characters are there to serve an ideology, whatever the ideology is. I suspect the blowback on the new Ghostbusters! was not just…"