"In a way, I'm with your wife on this ...
When you're in a lifeboat enduring a storm -- pray for help and guidance ... but freaking row for shore. You prayed, but forgot to row ... and everybody else in the boat was justifiably…"
"LShieldes, you're absolutely correct. I've certainly been guilty of that mistake. I guess in my most recent situation I was at a point in my life where I had no clear direction, no option that seemed best. And every day…"
"God gave you the ability to make decisions, so that you could make them responsibily or badly. He isn't there to make the decision for you, that is entirely your job. Sitting there waiting for God to tell you what to do means that you…"