Hello,Been keeping track of the website for a few months but just now signed up for the forums. In these precious hours on insomnia I am too sleepy to get any work done and too alert to stare at the…Continue
With all the frevor on my CNN and my Daily Show lately, I've come to wonder how my fellow men feel about gays in the military and also about women in the military. I never quite made up my mind on…Continue
"A good question, one I had not thought of before. I played both a lot as a kid. Now at 23, I feel like a loser when I play video games and like a man when I play chess. I would have answered simply -- Chess: Manly. Video games: Childish. But,…"
"For most bikes, the gas flow from the tank is controlled by a petcock located on the underside of the gas tank. Just turn it to the "OFF" position and you should be able to remove it without spilling anyt gas. Always, check your manual…"
"To be truthful, in my experience in student services at my University, I have learned that the terms homo-, bi- and heterosexual are not to be used in non-scientific fields.
According to a Psychology professor and an English professor both assisting…"
"Like you said, they are already dealing with it, and just like any band aid, it doesn't get any less painful by waiting until later. This is something that is not ever going to go away. People are naturally fearful of people that aren't…"
"truthfully when it comes to defending our constitution and our rights as free americans,i could care less if the marine sailor or soldier fighting on the front lines is a homosexual,they are risking their lifes to protect mine and everyone elses I…"
"As a member of the military, I really don't care. I love having women in te military, an as far as other men go, it really doesn't matter to me. I know that this may not be the most popular opinion, but what someone does in their bedroom…"
""What bothers me the most is that these arguments are based on the assumption that these men have no self control."
I responded to that mischaracterization here.
"To say that because of this one fact that we have to assume that…"
"I don't know why fear always has to be bandied about in these discussions. I, for one, don't have an ounce of fear that I'll ever be raped by a gay man. I don't for one moment believe that those serving in our military would fear…"
"Yes, politics is like a sport or a soap opera. Maybe more like a soap opera, in that it often brings out the worst in characters. When posting in this thread, please consider, will your post help you develop your own manliness, or help others…"
Admittedly appropriated from AoM:
"In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing."
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"Hi Brad, thanks for your comment I am glad you understood what I was saying unlike so many others on here who just try to attack me. Just as you said it seems like everyone wishes to make fun of me because everyone else is doing it, so many people…"
"It is hard being young and married and with a child.
As a foster parent and someone who helped raise a brother in law that was
having a great deal of problems, I would say find a few or at least one great man close enough to visit from time to…"
Do you mentor? Have an interest in doing so? Want to connect with others who are making a positive difference in the lives of younger men? Mentoring is not for every man, but if you've felt the call... this is definitely YOUR group!See More
"I am not an expert in how folks do credit ratings, but I would say take the hit. I worked at one of the largest credit card issuers and I can tell you that people settling on accounts at a certain percent is done quite often. However, sometimes they…"
I am going start with the disclaimer: Yes I realize the mistakes I have made to get to this point.As a results of a departure from a job and lifestyle I did not enjoy, and things "not going as well as forecasted" in my early 20s it appears I have accumulated a large debt on a credit card of mine. The minimum payments are manageable, however don't really get me anywhere, too large of payments are over extending myself since I do have other financial obligations.These obligations are normal ones…See More