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Started this discussion. Last reply by Liam Aug 31, 2013. 23 Replies

Theres this girl I like and she likes me as well. Shes 21 and im 23 so ud think i would know about dating and stuff but im afraid to do the wrong thing and lose her so im looking for some advice. So…Continue

 

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Liam replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"I would suggest trying Jeremy's advice above. In my opinion over analysis is a symptom of what we have been saying. It isn't that you are thinking too much but your thinking is stemming from some issues of self esteem. "
Aug 31, 2013
Joe replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"I over analyse things and its always my downfall. I need to stop worrying so much and just let things happen"
Aug 31, 2013
Jeremy replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"Don't focus on that, Liam is right.  The overly clingy behavior often goes hand in hand with the overly critical behavior that you mentioned in another post, and they usually stem from low self-esteem.  Those kinds of things…"
Aug 30, 2013
Joe replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"I tend to over explain myself and worry about the dimbest stuff so i probably got other shit to get over"
Aug 30, 2013
Joe replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"And also a lifetime of deniail"
Aug 30, 2013
Liam replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"Which comes from a lack of confidence and self esteem. So those are the things you need to work on. Start by watching this which has some interesting ideas on the subject. The first 40 minutes are the most important."
Aug 29, 2013
Joe replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"I figured it out im to clingy"
Aug 29, 2013
Liam replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"You may be right. But I think that the reason he is worrying is in part down to some object fears which need some work to over come. There probably is some manning up to be done too but it seems to me (and I may be wrong of course) that there is…"
Aug 29, 2013
Jeremy replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"I read his post as some guy who was trying to convince himself that he was doomed to fail with a girl that he's pretty sure likes him.  My advice was meant to suggest he be up front with her and to not dwell on other issues that are…"
Aug 29, 2013
Liam replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"Jeremy, I think he is past the asking her out stage. They know they like each other but there are clearly some other personal issues here which I am pretty sure aren't going to be solved by looking at his testicles. And ignoring them in the…"
Aug 29, 2013
Liam replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"Take pen and paper. Give yourself a couple of hours or an evening and sit down with them until you end up with some idea of what is bothering you on the paper in front of you. Ask yourself what you are afraid of? What are the barriers to things…"
Aug 29, 2013
Jeremy replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"Go in the bathroom and look down in your pants.  You see that hair down there?  It's time to prove that it grows there for a reason. Now, go to her, say, "hello," and tell her you would like to go on a date with her, use the…"
Aug 29, 2013
Steve Dallas replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"Rejection sucks for all of us, just a part of becoming a man and realizing that it is just her saying no, it doesn't change who you are.   As far as what to say, I think most guys agree, ask questions, listen to what she says and ask more…"
Aug 29, 2013
N. Vest replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"Just a thought, the pain of rejection or failure is nothing compared to the pain of "what if"."
Aug 29, 2013
J. D. replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"Joe:  As a grown man with a significant disability (and somewhat older than you as well), allow me to share some of my thoughts.  First, the dating world is a very different place for us.  Whether we like it or not, no matter how…"
Aug 28, 2013
TKM replied to Joe's discussion Relationship
"Virgins are not a whole seperate species (granted, I don't think there are many female virgins out there as there once was) so you don't have to do anything special.    I understand what you mean. I'm 22 and I feel the same…"
Aug 28, 2013

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