Theres this girl I like and she likes me as well. Shes 21 and im 23 so ud think i would know about dating and stuff but im afraid to do the wrong thing and lose her so im looking for some advice. So…Continue
"I would suggest trying Jeremy's advice above. In my opinion over analysis is a symptom of what we have been saying. It isn't that you are thinking too much but your thinking is stemming from some issues of self esteem. "
"Don't focus on that, Liam is right. The overly clingy behavior often goes hand in hand with the overly critical behavior that you mentioned in another post, and they usually stem from low self-esteem. Those kinds of things…"
"Which comes from a lack of confidence and self esteem. So those are the things you need to work on. Start by watching this which has some interesting ideas on the subject. The first 40 minutes are the most important."
"You may be right. But I think that the reason he is worrying is in part down to some object fears which need some work to over come. There probably is some manning up to be done too but it seems to me (and I may be wrong of course) that there is…"
"I read his post as some guy who was trying to convince himself that he was doomed to fail with a girl that he's pretty sure likes him. My advice was meant to suggest he be up front with her and to not dwell on other issues that are…"
"Jeremy, I think he is past the asking her out stage. They know they like each other but there are clearly some other personal issues here which I am pretty sure aren't going to be solved by looking at his testicles. And ignoring them in the…"
"Take pen and paper. Give yourself a couple of hours or an evening and sit down with them until you end up with some idea of what is bothering you on the paper in front of you. Ask yourself what you are afraid of? What are the barriers to things…"
"Go in the bathroom and look down in your pants. You see that hair down there? It's time to prove that it grows there for a reason.
Now, go to her, say, "hello," and tell her you would like to go on a date with her, use the…"
"So you have wheels on the ground instead of shoes, it doesn't matter. Take a look at the Marine on his wife's back (she was carrying him because he lost his legs in Afghanistan). They met after the incident. Mostly it is…"
"Rejection sucks for all of us, just a part of becoming a man and realizing that it is just her saying no, it doesn't change who you are.
As far as what to say, I think most guys agree, ask questions, listen to what she says and ask more…"
"My wife and I waited until we were married to have any kind of sex. We were both 25 and were virgins. I am so glad, with God's help, we waited. I talked to my adult daughters when they were in 5th grade about sex and wanted them to…"
"You can't live life in the past. This is a hidden blessing like someone mentioned.. you were freed from a shallow relationship going south and you got rid of a shitty friend. Dont think about it like losing a competition, because you were there…"
"Sometimes all you need is a good rant. Like others said, stop wallowing and look forward.
If youre having doubts about your major, fuck it. change your major. its your life so do what you want.
When life pushes you around, push back harder…"
"When I look in the mirror nowadays I often see my deceased father's face looking back at me. My eyes especially are exactly like his were. It's startling at times. My mother often commented on that, and she was right. It can be a strange…"