Theres this girl I like and she likes me as well. Shes 21 and im 23 so ud think i would know about dating and stuff but im afraid to do the wrong thing and lose her so im looking for some advice. So…Continue
"I would suggest trying Jeremy's advice above. In my opinion over analysis is a symptom of what we have been saying. It isn't that you are thinking too much but your thinking is stemming from some issues of self esteem. "
"Don't focus on that, Liam is right. The overly clingy behavior often goes hand in hand with the overly critical behavior that you mentioned in another post, and they usually stem from low self-esteem. Those kinds of things…"
"Which comes from a lack of confidence and self esteem. So those are the things you need to work on. Start by watching this which has some interesting ideas on the subject. The first 40 minutes are the most important."
"You may be right. But I think that the reason he is worrying is in part down to some object fears which need some work to over come. There probably is some manning up to be done too but it seems to me (and I may be wrong of course) that there is…"
"I read his post as some guy who was trying to convince himself that he was doomed to fail with a girl that he's pretty sure likes him. My advice was meant to suggest he be up front with her and to not dwell on other issues that are…"
"Jeremy, I think he is past the asking her out stage. They know they like each other but there are clearly some other personal issues here which I am pretty sure aren't going to be solved by looking at his testicles. And ignoring them in the…"
"Take pen and paper. Give yourself a couple of hours or an evening and sit down with them until you end up with some idea of what is bothering you on the paper in front of you. Ask yourself what you are afraid of? What are the barriers to things…"
"Go in the bathroom and look down in your pants. You see that hair down there? It's time to prove that it grows there for a reason.
Now, go to her, say, "hello," and tell her you would like to go on a date with her, use the…"
"Joe: As a grown man with a significant disability (and somewhat older than you as well), allow me to share some of my thoughts. First, the dating world is a very different place for us. Whether we like it or not, no matter how…"
"Virgins are not a whole seperate species (granted, I don't think there are many female virgins out there as there once was) so you don't have to do anything special.
I understand what you mean. I'm 22 and I feel the same…"
"I am afraid of rejection yes. Iv been in a wheelchair most of my life and have adapted to my new life. Girls tend to look at me differently and girls say it doesnt bother them but i feel theres something there making them unsure still. Also im not…"
"This is a very delicate matter. The very fact that you've been with her for years in spite of the lack of sex tells me that you are still in love with her and there are many other aspects of the marriage which you gain satisfaction from.
"By the way, I might've made fun of dropping-trou and saying "how 'bout it?" -- but, if you do the harder stuff; if you keep sex on her mind; if you romance her; if you touch her; if you keep it fun; if you get her off frequently;…"
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"What have you done to address the problem? Besides whining. Besides pathetically begging. Besides just dropping-trou and saying "how 'bout it?".
There are things you can do to make her more willing. Frankly, job one is making sure…"