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Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man

Started this discussion. Last reply by Brown Fox Nov 8, 2013. 13 Replies

First off Im new to the site and have taken so much from it, great stuff! Ive always considered myself a manly man, I whip all my coworkers in arm wrestling, play sport go to the gym, shot guns, rode…Continue

 

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North Carolina

NORTH CAROLINA..."The State of Man". Welcome to our AoM Group. It's open to all North Carolinians.See More
Nov 8, 2013
Brown Fox replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"Much good advice here. I know for myself, I finally realized that my parents were human and therefore flawed. They did the best they knew how to raise me. I had become an adult and realized any issues I had were now for me to work out. I'm not…"
Nov 8, 2013
Jesse Williams replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"Samuel got "HotyN" and what a help! I wish I had found this book years ago. I know its not for everyone but its really giving me a great starting point and perspective. A lot of stuff I wish my father had told me. I would be interested in…"
Nov 8, 2013
Jesse Williams replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"Thanks again guys this really helps. Subsequently we broke up last night, shes to busy and I felt I needed to stand my ground on what I needed in the relationship, clear communication, expectations. Thats a big step for me I either runaway out of…"
Nov 7, 2013
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For discussing intense experiential work, owning the shadow, or any of the other things the ManKind Project is all about.
Nov 6, 2013
Carl Monster replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"I echo Will here; in my experience with the Mankind Project I realized what I long suspected; the little boy I so tried to leave behind was still there. My visits to this left-behind part of me have been draining and almost traumatic, and I shudder…"
Nov 6, 2013
Andrew replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"Thanks for the comment, Will.  Sounds like you've described my inner child to a T!  Even though it is a 'child', it still has incredibly powerful abilities to influence my relationships, my attitudes, and my life."
Nov 6, 2013
Tyler Jacobs replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"I had a similar thought, Will but you phrased it much better. Never abandon a hurt child even if it's your inner child.  Care for him, help him heal, but don't let him control your life."
Nov 6, 2013
Jesse Williams replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"Great stuff guys appreciate the time."
Nov 6, 2013
StaggerLee replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"We are influenced by so many things but our minds must rule the day. You have legitimate feelings, seem to have rooted out their source, and can see their effect. Of those three, you can not stop feeling, you can not change the past, so all that is…"
Nov 6, 2013
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Fathers and Sons

There are groups on this site for fatherhood, but this one is specific for that special relationship that exists between fathers and sons.  Feel free to discuss matters relating to your relationship with your boy, your pop, or a guy who filled either role for you.Enjoy and God bless!See More
Nov 6, 2013
Will replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"We talk about issues like this a lot in ManKind Project.  Drop by the AoM group "New Warriors" for more about what we do. I can tell you my own experience.  That hurt boy within has been abandoned before, expects it now, and as…"
Nov 6, 2013
Rick Shelton replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"We all carry the child we were with us and it's hard to overcome that child no matter what your age.  I can honestly tell you that there is not a man alive or that has been alive that did not, at one point or another, become the child for…"
Nov 6, 2013
Jesse Williams replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"I have not! Thanks for the recommendations ill check them out. "
Nov 6, 2013
Samuel Chapman replied to Jesse Williams's discussion Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man
"Have you ever read Iron John? It looks at many of the same issues.  For a more practical take there's also "Hold on to your NUTS" which is more self help but isn't my favourite book."
Nov 6, 2013
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Abandoning the Hurt Boy and Becoming a Man

First off Im new to the site and have taken so much from it, great stuff! Ive always considered myself a manly man, I whip all my coworkers in arm wrestling, play sport go to the gym, shot guns, rode my motorcycle through Mexico. And Ive had many rewarding and exciting relationships over the years that have been more fun and "hot" then deeply meaningful (Im 36). But I find when I get in to a relationship that progresses to the next level I have a hard time retaining my manliness. When it gets…See More
Nov 6, 2013

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