"Yes, it counts. I'm sorry for your loss. So many of the feelings must be the same and I can only speak from a man's point of view but I would say that it has to be a different experience being a man who has lost his wife.…"
"Gave it a try. Could only let it get so long because of work. I think it might have looked better if I was taller. Ended up getting it cut. Tried shaving my goatee off as well and that lasted about two weeks. Was told I…"
Thought I'd chime in if you don't mind. I usually wear my hair short since I work outside a lot and the wind makes a mess of it. No matter how much hair spray I use it doesn't help when it's windy. Also I…"
"Hmmm. That sounds like a very logical approach. I've read various articles saying not to cut it at all. But it makes sense to let the short parts catch up with the longer ones and keep it all neat. Most likely I'll not cut it…"
"I wish I could afford a midlife crisis. I am 55 years old and lost my wife to cancer in 2012. Also lost my job of 22 years and now working 2 part time jobs and still don't make enough to pay the basis necessities of life let alone enjoy a…"
"Not what I'm going for but works for him. My hair is still very brown with only has a few scattered signs of gray. My beard is very short and all white. My hairline is receding but not that far. I think that the longer hair tends to look…"
"I've been looking for articles about older guys with longer hair and came across your discussion. I just turned 55 a couple of days ago and recently decided I was tired of getting the same old haircuts all the time. My wife passed away…"
Jeff, I just stumbled onto your profile page. My condolences to you on the loss of your dear wife. This very day was the funeral of our son-in-law's father who died on Monday after a long struggle to recover from a burst brain aneurysm. His widow has a lot of support but I know that she still has to walk this path of grief in her own way. I will read you blog that gives tribute to your wife. None of us are immune to your experience and I'm open always to learning from those who have and are going through this.
Welcome to the AoM community, Jeff. We're glad to have you aboard.
By the way, if you consider yourself a "family man", I'd like to invite you to become a member of one of my more popular AoM groups. It's called "Family Man", and it's devoted to the betterment of families. It's for men striving to be better husbands, fathers and sons. Check it out here!
Hi there Jeff. Welcome to AoM. Also, thought I'd give you a friendly invite to check out my group, The Great Debate. Just click on "Groups." It's the one with the colorful galaxy picture. It's also one of the most active groups on AoM. In any case, great to have you aboard.
"touche, well said sir. You got me, fair and square. And yes, from an anthropological perspective, I agree completely with your position that a man who is spreading his seed around does indeed increase the possibility for survival."
"Your statement is about as far from what a gentleman would say What gave you the idea that I was a gentleman?that perhaps you should stop talking so much and read some of the material on this website, if in fact you have ever read any of it...and…"
"Just for perspective, we have an adult, most likely liberal male claiming firing an AR-15 gave him PTSD and felt like a "bazooka".Then here someone made a video of a 7-year old girl firing an AR-15 and feeling just fine.So this guy's…"
"Here are some more for me:
Babies and children aren't cute at all.
German and Russian are beautiful languages.
Megan Fox isn't that arousing.
Italian food is nothing special compared to truly delicious cuisines such as Mexican, Thai, or…"
"I mean change your religion. There's nothing in the Gospels or Acts, or even the Torah, which suggests anyone needs to change their religion to fall under God's grace. And in fact, there are arguments against the necessity."
"For the record the same is obviously true of women - some women act like sluts and then wonder why they only attract cads and can't find a "Prince charming", and some women are angry, man-hating shrews who blame men for not…"
"Most definitely, in fact if anything I'd argue that a man cheating isn't as bad as a woman doing it; just going by biological arguments a woman who is cheating is putting herself (and any potential offspring) at more direct risk than the…"