"Yes, it counts. I'm sorry for your loss. So many of the feelings must be the same and I can only speak from a man's point of view but I would say that it has to be a different experience being a man who has lost his wife.…"
"Gave it a try. Could only let it get so long because of work. I think it might have looked better if I was taller. Ended up getting it cut. Tried shaving my goatee off as well and that lasted about two weeks. Was told I…"
Thought I'd chime in if you don't mind. I usually wear my hair short since I work outside a lot and the wind makes a mess of it. No matter how much hair spray I use it doesn't help when it's windy. Also I…"
"I wish I could afford a midlife crisis. I am 55 years old and lost my wife to cancer in 2012. Also lost my job of 22 years and now working 2 part time jobs and still don't make enough to pay the basis necessities of life let alone enjoy a…"
I also have a blog that is a compendium of various thoughts. Do you know how many hits a day you are receiving approximately? Just curious as I feel like mine is barely being read. I will take a look at yours and…"
"My wife did in fact pass away on May 9th of this year. While she was alive I said I would never remarry and my opinion has not changed since she went to Heaven. All the love I have went into that relationship. I made many mistakes…"
Jeff, I just stumbled onto your profile page. My condolences to you on the loss of your dear wife. This very day was the funeral of our son-in-law's father who died on Monday after a long struggle to recover from a burst brain aneurysm. His widow has a lot of support but I know that she still has to walk this path of grief in her own way. I will read you blog that gives tribute to your wife. None of us are immune to your experience and I'm open always to learning from those who have and are going through this.
Welcome to the AoM community, Jeff. We're glad to have you aboard.
By the way, if you consider yourself a "family man", I'd like to invite you to become a member of one of my more popular AoM groups. It's called "Family Man", and it's devoted to the betterment of families. It's for men striving to be better husbands, fathers and sons. Check it out here!
Hi there Jeff. Welcome to AoM. Also, thought I'd give you a friendly invite to check out my group, The Great Debate. Just click on "Groups." It's the one with the colorful galaxy picture. It's also one of the most active groups on AoM. In any case, great to have you aboard.
"The DoD and the Rand Corporation have both done their own estimates. I do not know the methodology for how they decided who counted under each term. The Rand corp's numbers are about half what the DoD reported. Here is a link to their…"
"You're trying to move the goalposts.Nobody is talking about denying medical care to trans people. What we are talking about is denying them free treatment, therapy, surgical procedures, etc., related specifically to gender reassignment.
"My pleasure. I point this out every time someone complains about the supposed prioritization of the male erection at the expense of e.g. breast cancer research. Living as I do in Massachusetts, I hear much, much such complaining. "
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